FabSwingers.com forum: What are your thoughts on race play?

By (user no longer on site) OP
23 weeks ago

I'm really curious what you all have to say

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By *mber SkiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

Race play ? What does it mean

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By *wistntwirlCouple
23 weeks ago

Middle Land

I always finish first.

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By *rispyDuckMan
23 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I’m not much into athletics more weightlifting so I would lose

. But if we racing to a bbq buffet I will win (tackle you all down haha)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
23 weeks ago

A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations

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By *isaSlutFaceCouple
23 weeks ago

Solihull

Formula one is abit boring nowadays to be honest.

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By *mber SkiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations"
ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
23 weeks ago

Lmao

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By *ravelman10Man
23 weeks ago

yarm

Not a fan of having to chase after someone

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By *londebiguyMan
23 weeks ago

Southport

I'm not a very good runner.

I'd be just terrible at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I love it.

As long as everyone involved is into it and it's between consenting adults, it can be great fun.

As well as very intense and hot

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By *imionMan
23 weeks ago

redditch

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By *atalie YinTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Birtley near chester le street

I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Issa no from me, boss.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Try the swingers section

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

"I'm really curious what you all have to say"

Absolutely not for us.

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Race play ? What does it mean "

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It's when Rastafarians become all competitive in the theatre.

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By *ong alMan
23 weeks ago

barnsley

My Mrs likes to tell me that she loves BBC

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By *eartless SpartanMan
23 weeks ago

Each to their own, but I defo judge the bros who partake in it

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
23 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Not for me thanks.

MrsAbz

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By *ldgeezermeMan
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Othello?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
23 weeks ago

Stratford

Not for me, but each to their own

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By *coobyABCMan
23 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Remember with any race, coming second is just first loser

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By *enk15Man
23 weeks ago

Bidford On Avon

I'll stick to Humans, thanks

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

Wow. No.

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

My asthma could never

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By *amb_ManMan
23 weeks ago

Peterborough

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
23 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

This never sits very well with me

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By *ccasional_LoversCouple
23 weeks ago

Peterborough

No thanks!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Hard no for me

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By *oxesMan
23 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

This could mean three things.

1) a person who is attracted to another race

2) what the former Formula 1 boss was into allegedly.

3) a. Couple or individual who v like seeing themselves or partner with someone from another sex.

Number 2 I find probkematic while number 3 I'm not sure about.

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By *eal2000Man
23 weeks ago

somewhere only I know

I'm more motogp than F1

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By *amera man 25Man
23 weeks ago

Honley Huddersfield

Hate it, makes me really angry. It just perpetuates stereotypes and reinforces racism. This site is all about fun and seeking simple sexual pleasures in an open minded manner. The colour of a persons skin is totally irrelevant to that purpose, those that would like to introduce it as some form of play deserve no meets or mates, rant over!

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By *oxesMan
23 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Hate it, makes me really angry. It just perpetuates stereotypes and reinforces racism. This site is all about fun and seeking simple sexual pleasures in an open minded manner. The colour of a persons skin is totally irrelevant to that purpose, those that would like to introduce it as some form of play deserve no meets or mates, rant over!"

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By *ravelman10Man
23 weeks ago

yarm

Running jokes aside, attraction is one thing, but specifically fetishising race is something else and makes me pretty uncomfortable and a hard pass

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By * and R cple4Couple
23 weeks ago

swansea

My husband pretended once to be English.. Put me right off him.. Never again

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

Brrrrrrr...tssst... brrrrrrrr. Brrrrr. Brrrrr..brrrr. *screech*

Meh, sometimes do it driving my van pretending it's a Ferrari.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
23 weeks ago

Cheam

Nope

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By *partharmonyCouple
23 weeks ago

Ruislip

"A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations"

Like the Los Angeles riots of 1992?

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By *ucka39Man
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

I'm like a rabbit/ the hare

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1325093

The other threads on this topic have very little posts.....I'm wondering why.

Each to their own though

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Not for me.

Mrs

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By *emorefridaCouple
23 weeks ago

La la land

"My husband pretended once to be English.. Put me right off him.. Never again

.. "

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
23 weeks ago

Sunderland

Well this is not the Speed Racer manga thread I was expecting

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"A form of sexual roleplay in which the players act out racially charged situations

Like the Los Angeles riots of 1992?"

I think the scenarios are actually way worse. Can involve use of slurs. It’s pretty mad

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By *r X46Man
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

I can do a terrible French accent

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not for me

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23 weeks ago

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Midlands

Not for us. Once had someone try and engage in this out of the blue when it had never been discussed or mentioned.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It seems an odd kink to me but if it is not harmful to either side and consensual then all good

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Kiss chase is about as far as it goes these days

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running "

I'm half Scottish and half Jamaican and I'm unable to walk.

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By *alcon77Man
23 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running

I'm half Scottish and half Jamaican and I'm unable to walk.

I'd like to be half Scottish/ half Jamaican. I posted this on an ancestry discussion thread.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

"I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running

I'm half Scottish and half Jamaican and I'm unable to walk.

Similar

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Absolutely shite, what on earth is the point of racing around trying to catch each other when better time could be spent getting down and sticky.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
23 weeks ago

North West

"I'm half hawaiian half singaporean and I hate running

I'm half Scottish and half Jamaican and I'm unable to walk.

Similar

*The walking bit. Not the ethnicity. I'm 100% pure random mixture

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Not for me mrs

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By *onguesandpunsMan
23 weeks ago

East Midlands

Probably not the opinion lots of people want to read on this thread, but the OP, a black man, posts a serious and genuine question about Race Play, then gets a load of silly responses about 'running' and the like, mostly from white people. This is not cool imo.

Here's how the urban dictionary defines race play:

a form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure.

OP - I think it's extremely questionable for people to indulge in race play (particularly white people towards black people, brown people or people from different ethnic backgrounds) given our history of colonialism and racism, or for black men to be reduced (no pun intended) to tired clichés such as 'BBC only' when it's written on people's profiles as their preference. Wikipedia has some more info on concerns around this type of language here:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBC_(sexual_slang)

For me in 2024,there's much better ways to express our desires that aren't loaded with the weight of history, prejudice and racism.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
23 weeks ago

Cumbria

Holds no interest for us.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Cheshire

Whatever two consenting adults do behind their bedroom curtains that’s up to them.

It’s never been something I’ve really heard about before or fancy trying myself. But I do know about humiliation play (as that does turn me on) and if it’s part of those peoples dynamic, then I’m not one to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Probably not the opinion lots of people want to read on this thread, but the OP, a black man, posts a serious and genuine question about Race Play, then gets a load of silly responses about 'running' and the like, mostly from white people. This is not cool imo.

Here's how the urban dictionary defines race play:

a form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the others race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/BBC_(sexual_slang)

For me in 2024,there's much better ways to express our desires that aren't loaded with the weight of history, prejudice and racism. "

I’m with this comment.

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By *aiseiMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Formula one is abit boring nowadays to be honest."

Hahaha!

Is this where the ladies all ask to be Max, so they’re guaranteed to come first?

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By *oxesMan
23 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Formula one is abit boring nowadays to be honest.

Hahaha!

Is this where the ladies all ask to be Max, so they’re guaranteed to come first?"

Like a redbull pitstop

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By *adyBugsWoman
23 weeks ago

cognito

I came here for the comments and I am not disappointed

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By *adyBugsWoman
23 weeks ago

cognito

But on a serious note to answer the OP, my privilege means that I don’t understand why someone would want to indulge in such a fantasy or scene that purposefully degrades your own race or heritage. I also don’t understand why they would want to sexualise their race such as the obvious BBC label, etc, in a time where we are struggling to find equality for everyone and be more inclusive. Labels should only be used to help you find comfort in your own identity and not to pigeonhole yourself into a specific box.

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By *C79Man
23 weeks ago

Caterham

The red car and the blue car had a race.....

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm really curious what you all have to say"

You go first.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
23 weeks ago

peterborough

I was brilliant at the egg & spoon race. You see I was naughty, I would use chewing gum to stick ones egg to the spoon....clever init.....

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