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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If kinkiness was a scale from 1 to 10 I would say I am a 3. I am not a pillow princess and one up from fluffy handcuffs.

Where on the scale would you say you are?

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By *r TC83Man
over a year ago

Bury St. Edmunds

I would say a 5, with the possibility of being push higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 2 is fluffy handcuffs. Maybe I'm about a 3-4?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

About a 2 here

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

i have a sliding scale !!! - working on it

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

As older

Probably a 6

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm 0 no joke

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love ropes and rope work, I enjoy spanking and caning and I’m bisexual.

I would guess I’m a 7 x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I would say a 7/8 but that depends on the other person helping push my buttons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my mind, always a solid 9. The opportunity to express that side can fluctuate massively though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh definitely on a sliding scale

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Depends what a bendy ruler is classed as

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"If kinkiness was a scale from 1 to 10 I would say I am a 3. I am not a pillow princess and one up from fluffy handcuffs.

Where on the scale would you say you are? "

I wouldn't describe myself as being kinky at all.

Would that make me a pillow princess?

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By *ore_Please81Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Definitely a 10 but I have my likes and dislikes

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends who you ask. Anywhere between a 2 and a 12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With her I’m probably thinking a 3

With her I had crazy thoughts that reached a good 7

Normally I’m an average kinky guy, and I like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0, there's a reason I have permanent bed hair.

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I would say I'm 10 , but depending who I'm comparing too may not be

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
over a year ago

Someplace

I would say 9 with the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

I have no kinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm a 2, but with a temporary upgrade I can go higher to 'Enhanced Vanilla'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe. "

What you do normally may be kinky to them hence the high score

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

ilkley and Stockport

Don't even have fluffy handcuffs.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

A 1 it’s not my bag

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
over a year ago

Arlesey

I would say maybe a 6 or 7 with the right person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe.

What you do normally may be kinky to them hence the high score "

That is why I am trying to get a better understanding of what people think is kinky. A bace line so to speak.

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe. "

Suppose what you think is kinky and what vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say about an 8. I like to be used by large groups, humiliated and used but I'm really not into bdsm, pain and having a single dom.

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Yeah 1 to 10 scale hasn't got the scope.. definitely a 10..

I'm it was a 1 to 100 scale.. 80ish.. maybe...

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Yeah 1 to 10 scale hasn't got the scope.. definitely a 10..

I'm it was a 1 to 100 scale.. 80ish.. maybe...

"

With my maths that make you an 8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe.

Suppose what you think is kinky and what vanilla

"

There say I am kinky, because I have a cabinet full with sex toys, in my bedside cabinet I filled with rope,chain, whips, paddles, nipping clams and other things, I also have a fucking machine, and a sex swing in my sitting room.

But I don't see how that's kinky.

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe.

Suppose what you think is kinky and what vanilla

There say I am kinky, because I have a cabinet full with sex toys, in my bedside cabinet I filled with rope,chain, whips, paddles, nipping clams and other things, I also have a fucking machine, and a sex swing in my sitting room.

But I don't see how that's kinky."

Don't think the sex toys are kinky

But everything may be kinky ,they may think your into an bit of pain pleasure,BDSM

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By *J the bullMan
over a year ago

Washington

Depends on my playmate/s

From 3 to 12 lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

4? But I've been a 6

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m a solid plain 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a 5 I think .... when I find an equally kinky man ....

Sometimes it's a solid 1 with some people

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By *rBobbMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I would say an 8. It is always good to push boundaries with a partner as long as you are both happy to do so.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I'm dull 2-3 definitely hubby is into the 7 or 8 area x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd say much like my sexuality it fluctuates. Kink isn't essential. I don't see it as a "bonus". It depends on the dynamic I have with a person, what naturally unfolds.

So anything from a 2 to a number higher than 2.

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

One persons version of kink can be another’s norm so hard to say really but in my life about a 4 always looking to try more

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a bit like most car drivers rating themselves as above average drivers. It's fairly hard, especially when we're perhaps largely ignorant of what others would enjoy. I'm 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm looking at the previous answers we'd say would probably rate between a 6 and an 8 maybe?

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

I am whatever using ping-pong paddles to spank someone covered in a chocolate sundae whilst dressed as Dell Boy shouting "lovely jubbily" is.

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire


"I am whatever using ping-pong paddles to spank someone covered in a chocolate sundae whilst dressed as Dell Boy shouting "lovely jubbily" is."

Pleas say you host party's haha

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham


"I am whatever using ping-pong paddles to spank someone covered in a chocolate sundae whilst dressed as Dell Boy shouting "lovely jubbily" is.

Pleas say you host party's haha "

I do but they are strictly Only Fools and Horses themed

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire


"I am whatever using ping-pong paddles to spank someone covered in a chocolate sundae whilst dressed as Dell Boy shouting "lovely jubbily" is.

Pleas say you host party's haha

I do but they are strictly Only Fools and Horses themed "

Sound amazing I'll get my best flat cap out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have gone from 1-7/8 since meeting A

Could go higher if we could think of more things to do!

Don’t even see pegging or spanking as kinky anymore

Current Kink is starting to train for a 10k Fuck running hurts!!

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham


"Have gone from 1-7/8 since meeting A

Could go higher if we could think of more things to do!

Don’t even see pegging or spanking as kinky anymore

Current Kink is starting to train for a 10k Fuck running hurts!! "

A 10k fuck? sounds exhausting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have gone from 1-7/8 since meeting A

Could go higher if we could think of more things to do!

Don’t even see pegging or spanking as kinky anymore

Current Kink is starting to train for a 10k Fuck running hurts!! "

I don't see pegging or light spanking as being kinky as well.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

I’d need lessons.

Probably the fluffy handcuffs stages if that’s a 1 or 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a 4

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By *etal and KinkMan
over a year ago

Malice

Yeah, 10. I've bled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Five, possibly a six.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Don't know where I figure on the scale. But I would say I was a bit kinky.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're zeros

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it go to 11?

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd say a solid 7.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

What is this kink you talk of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have gone from 1-7/8 since meeting A

Could go higher if we could think of more things to do!

Don’t even see pegging or spanking as kinky anymore

Current Kink is starting to train for a 10k Fuck running hurts!!

I don't see pegging or light spanking as being kinky as well. "

Ooh, so what were you considering as kinky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where on the scale does 'having sex with the lights on' fall?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Where on the scale does 'having sex with the lights on' fall?

"

Jeez calm down, you two are in danger of falling right off the scale! I bet you don’t even lock the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where on the scale does 'having sex with the lights on' fall?

Jeez calm down, you two are in danger of falling right off the scale! I bet you don’t even lock the door "

We don’t

I’m going with a solid 8!

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Totally depends on partner. Current one - very low down the scale. Previous partner probably off it completely!

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By *oundingcockMan
over a year ago

PORTSMOUTH

erm does this scale go to 11!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5.5

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I'm going to say a 8 or 9.

Take a look, give me your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m interested to hear how we determine the 1-10 scale?

1 = A well timed saucy quip?

10 = Full on last days of Rome bondage orgy fest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what a bendy ruler is classed as "

*squeal!! *

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall


"I’m interested to hear how we determine the 1-10 scale?

1 = A well timed saucy quip?

10 = Full on last days of Rome bondage orgy fest?"

Im thinking I'm a 10 then, or does it have to be in Rome to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m interested to hear how we determine the 1-10 scale?

1 = A well timed saucy quip?

10 = Full on last days of Rome bondage orgy fest?

Im thinking I'm a 10 then, or does it have to be in Rome to count "

It can be any epic time period of your choice. The bondage orgy fest is non negotiable though.

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

10.

We’re into a lot of weird and wonderful stuff!

Dee

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm an out and out 10, and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have gone from 1-7/8 since meeting A

Could go higher if we could think of more things to do!

Don’t even see pegging or spanking as kinky anymore

Current Kink is starting to train for a 10k Fuck running hurts!!

I don't see pegging or light spanking as being kinky as well.

Ooh, so what were you considering as kinky?

"

That is my dilemma I don't see pegging as kinky as it something that happens on a lot of meets,but I am finding out that many do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people have different views, so it’s hard to say.

Compared to my wife, I’m about -10; to others, I might be much higher.

I don’t think I’d be much more than 1 or 2 here, however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kink has become almost not kink in its trendiness and followership. I’d call myself more of a pervert, less into looking cool doing it but definitely into being weird with the right person - 8 or 9

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By *agusMan
over a year ago

Near by

I'm a 5 with ambitions of a 9

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

If 2 is fluffy handcuffs, I'm a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 is using a feather

10 is using the whole chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 2 is fluffy handcuffs, I'm a 2."

What’s velcro pants?

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"If 2 is fluffy handcuffs, I'm a 2.

What’s velcro pants? "

Don’t admit to that.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"If 2 is fluffy handcuffs, I'm a 2.

What’s velcro pants? "

Off the scale!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Between 6 and 11 depending on the scale of depends and relatively according to... Slightly above average.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd break the scale

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky."

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid 10 for Ms

8/9 for Mr

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo. "

Are they not? Wow.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo. "

LisaSlutFace says "I'd say about an 8. I like to be used by large groups, humiliated and used but I'm really not into bdsm, pain and having a single dom."

"used by large groups" is a gang bang, yes? I don't believe it's kinky myself, I was just saying if it is considered kinky what about the participating blokes?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo. "

Oh, I definitely think watersports is on the kinky scale and presumably you think rimming is too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo.

LisaSlutFace says "I'd say about an 8. I like to be used by large groups, humiliated and used but I'm really not into bdsm, pain and having a single dom."

"used by large groups" is a gang bang, yes? I don't believe it's kinky myself, I was just saying if it is considered kinky what about the participating blokes?"

8 men to one woman is a small gangbang so would hardly be called kinky in itself, I do agree that what can happens in a gangbang such as humiliations and rope work can be kinky.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"Does it go to 11? "

Only if you are interested in spinal tap scenario

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By *ittleMissCheekWoman
over a year ago

Naas

I'd say an 8.

I enjoy watersports, being abused and degraded, have done CNC and some very heavy impact play publicly.

Have a lot more I'd love to try too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo.

Oh, I definitely think watersports is on the kinky scale and presumably you think rimming is too? "

Rimming is not kinky.

It depends on the scale when it comes to watersports I guess, I am a giver not a receiver so from my point of view is peeing on a guys face.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"Does it go to 11?

Only if you are interested in spinal tap scenario "

‘One more’ might not always be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go 8 or a 9

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Fairly high. It probably goes higher for people I dislike...

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooohhh, about 8.5-9 i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect I’m a 7 but with the right environment maybe a 8/9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subjective but I’d say about a 6.

Anything higher and one has to read instructions for apparatus …..

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

I would say am a 9 or 10 I think am 2 kinky for people on here xx

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By *omRPMan
over a year ago

North Curry


"i have a sliding scale !!! - working on it "

I am the same and it depends on how well I connect with the other person/s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is snogging someone’s ass a 1 or a 9?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Is snogging someone’s ass a 1 or a 9? "

I'd say about a 6

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

I’m at a 10 !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be kinky as everything I like takes 2 or more people

can't be kinky by yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

can't be kinky by yourself "

I disagree. And have the videos to prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

can't be kinky by yourself

I disagree. And have the videos to prove it "

That’s work 5 right there. ^

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Yeah 1 to 10 scale hasn't got the scope.. definitely a 10..

I'm it was a 1 to 100 scale.. 80ish.. maybe...

With my maths that make you an 8 "

!Adhd brain activatation!

Well your saying that, but it's completely subjective.

To the average person, definitely a ten.

To hardened kinkster on a larger scale... 80. There are areas I just won't touch.

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By *istressSubCuckMan
over a year ago

Winchester

Hmmm probably a good 9+ (hubby)

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"The reason why I ask is because people that have meet me have said that I am at least an 8 some have even said I a 10. This I find very hard to believe.

Suppose what you think is kinky and what vanilla

There say I am kinky, because I have a cabinet full with sex toys, in my bedside cabinet I filled with rope,chain, whips, paddles, nipping clams and other things, I also have a fucking machine, and a sex swing in my sitting room.

But I don't see how that's kinky."

Tried to explain this in my last post.

To an average person. Sex toys are in their definition a bit kinky.

To a more liberated open minded individual, sex toys are an extention of sexual intimacy.

You have to remember some individual think stockings, suspenders and high heels are a little kinky.

If its not missionary it might be kinky to another person.

It's all subjective.

As an example. I like piercings, but I'm not interested in needle play.

To the non initiated - scared shitless!!! Way beyond norms to most.

To a kinkster, they'll go meh just another kink...

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo.

Oh, I definitely think watersports is on the kinky scale and presumably you think rimming is too?

Rimming is not kinky.

It depends on the scale when it comes to watersports I guess, I am a giver not a receiver so from my point of view is peeing on a guys face. "

You are adamant rimming is not kinky, I think it is. Do we agree to disagree or are you going to insist you are correct?

I also think peeing on someone is kinky, no matter where they receive it. In your eyes, does me being turned on by a woman weeing on my groin area make me kinky or do I have to enjoy the taste of urine to be deemed kinky?

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By *onger24Man
over a year ago

shropshire


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can't be kinky by yourself

I disagree. And have the videos to prove it "

Definitely not tying to find them now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 8

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
over a year ago

louth


"If kinkiness was a scale from 1 to 10 I would say I am a 3. I am not a pillow princess and one up from fluffy handcuffs.

Where on the scale would you say you are? "

I would put you higher up the kink scale looking at your photos and your interests maybe a 7!

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

8 I'd say

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By *atchmoMan
over a year ago

Upminster

In experience I am probably a 3 going on 4.

I aspire to a higher rating but lack of opportunities kind of hamper that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

can't be kinky by yourself

I disagree. And have the videos to prove it

Definitely not tying to find them now haha "

You’ll find out how kinky she is when you see where she hides them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a woman enjoying a gang bang is considered kinky, are the men doing the banging considered kinky too?

I reckon if you enjoy watersports (giving or receiving) and enjoy delivering/receiving a good rimming then you are kinky.

When did gangbangs and watersports become kinky? I miss that memo.

Oh, I definitely think watersports is on the kinky scale and presumably you think rimming is too?

Rimming is not kinky.

It depends on the scale when it comes to watersports I guess, I am a giver not a receiver so from my point of view is peeing on a guys face.

You are adamant rimming is not kinky, I think it is. Do we agree to disagree or are you going to insist you are correct?

I also think peeing on someone is kinky, no matter where they receive it. In your eyes, does me being turned on by a woman weeing on my groin area make me kinky or do I have to enjoy the taste of urine to be deemed kinky?

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I would never insist that I am right, just making a case that it's not kinky. It's a enjoyable activity one that I do participate in. I just don't see that it's kinky.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

one person's kink is another person's vanilla. Don't think it matters between consenting adults

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By *lmost TouchingMan
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

How I act: 2

How I think: 8.5

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Amazing how quickly things change imma 0

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Mr here.

Should we be describing our own place on a kink scale from our own perspective?

Water sports was mentioned earlier. I've been peed on once. The excitement/arousal factor leading up to the event was intense. The event itself didn't live up to the anticipation. I see peeing on someone as kinky.

I see having a rod pushed down my urethra as kinky, but I like it.

I see watching my woman fuck another man as kinky, but a huge turn on.

I see P flashing as kinky, and a huge turn on.

I see hurting someone or making them bleed or gag or vomit as kinky, and a complete turn-off.

Overall, on my own scale, I'd put myself in the middle - 4-6 on my own kink scale.

P has come up with a couple of things that were a 10 on my own scale, and they really turned me on.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
over a year ago

Bromley


"If kinkiness was a scale from 1 to 10 I would say I am a 3. I am not a pillow princess and one up from fluffy handcuffs.

Where on the scale would you say you are? "

You list fisting on your preferences?

My left hand is bigger than my right

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