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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire

Like it say

Some how this is worst fear on this site

Was wondering if it happened to any of you

And what did you do

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By *oneyVWoman
35 weeks ago

Cirencester

A guy messaged me that I knew …& he was attached and didn’t divulge that on his profile ! I messaged back to say I know you type thing …no reply funnily enough !!

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"A guy messaged me that I knew …& he was attached and didn’t divulge that on his profile ! I messaged back to say I know you type thing …no reply funnily enough !! "

Yes I bet that he didn't haha

I'm More worried about my pic being shared or something

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By *oneyVWoman
35 weeks ago

Cirencester

I know ….its a difficult one, especially living in smaller towns ….u worry ur pics are being shared around! I’ve been told my photos have been used elsewhere, but not sure how you stop this anyway ha!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

35 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I went to a Halloween party a decade ago to find someone I went to school with there.

All good.

Statistically it's possible someone you know is here and only ever an issue if they don't understand discretion.

At the end of the day we're all on Fab. Why shouldn't anyone else be?

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire

Yeah small town here too and that strange did it say were ?

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"I went to a Halloween party a decade ago to find someone I went to school with there.

All good.

Statistically it's possible someone you know is here and only ever an issue if they don't understand discretion.

At the end of the day we're all on Fab. Why shouldn't anyone else be? "

Vary true

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By *ommander_StraxMan
35 weeks ago

Telford

Yes... On my couples profile, I've had messages from them, sending face pics as well... More than once.

A very quick "block" and don't reply was in order. And if I ever see any of them, I block as soon as I do. It's easier that way, unless they are already open with us before hand like a few are.

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By *londebiguyMan
35 weeks ago

Southport

I've made a couple of friends on here.

That was unexpected.

Also met a couple of people I already knew.

That was unexpected fun too.

Surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"A guy messaged me that I knew …& he was attached and didn’t divulge that on his profile ! I messaged back to say I know you type thing …no reply funnily enough !!

Yes I bet that he didn't haha

I'm More worried about my pic being shared or something "

Keep them private is an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Best keep a distance no friendships that I know of. No one I know either.

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By *r TC83Man
35 weeks ago

Bury St. Edmunds

I did find someone that I knew, ended up being fun tho hahaha

There is one or two in here that I know from my public life, not entirely sure if they know who I am but if they do, no words have been spoken

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By *ot to giggleWoman
35 weeks ago

Coventry

have a bestie on here (female) and a few great friends (male and female).

have been messaged by someone very close, but just told them the locator thing cant be accurate as im further away than what it was saying ... i dont have any face pics on my profile - happy to send - but that way i can deny its my body.

There was one guy who lives over the way - I recognised his picture and he is also on POF - so I did block him, I see him at the shop, now that would have been an interesting conversation

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"have a bestie on here (female) and a few great friends (male and female).

have been messaged by someone very close, but just told them the locator thing cant be accurate as im further away than what it was saying ... i dont have any face pics on my profile - happy to send - but that way i can deny its my body.

There was one guy who lives over the way - I recognised his picture and he is also on POF - so I did block him, I see him at the shop, now that would have been an interesting conversation "

Like location excuse haha

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By *escourtesMan
35 weeks ago

hereford

Yes, loads

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By *ittleMissCheekWoman
35 weeks ago

Naas

Yes, and I've found husbands of friends too, which was very odd!

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Yes, and I've found husbands of friends too, which was very odd! "

Any contact with them or just ignore them ?

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By *stwo60Couple
35 weeks ago

Hampshire

A woman that worked for me was on here with her husband. Recognised her tattoo. We did discuss it and it was fine albeit a little strange that we had seen pictures of each other….

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"A woman that worked for me was on here with her husband. Recognised her tattoo. We did discuss it and it was fine albeit a little strange that we had seen pictures of each other…."

Lest they didn't ask for an pay raise haha

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By *heGateKeeperMan
35 weeks ago

Stratford

No one would know & that’s ok

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By *iscean_dreamMan
35 weeks ago

Llanelli

Yes I've got friends on here I've known since school and family members but family members are blocked but we all know we're on here because it's nothing to be ashamed of.

I don't know why people get freaked out or worry about it unless they shouldn't be on here because doing it behind a partners back.

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Yes I've got friends on here I've known since school and family members but family members are blocked but we all know we're on here because it's nothing to be ashamed of.

I don't know why people get freaked out or worry about it unless they shouldn't be on here because doing it behind a partners back. "

Never thought about family

And know what you mean

Now you said that tbf if they are on here why worry as we both be on here

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By *ivingadream..Couple
35 weeks ago

Peterborough

I have a women from work in my blocks list..

And, I got a wink from my Aunt.. that was weird! Haha

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By *rsmith21zMan
35 weeks ago

Peterborough


"I have a women from work in my blocks list..

And, I got a wink from my Aunt.. that was weird! Haha"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I had a good friend if my ex message me once .... blocked him and didn't reply.

Have seen a few people I recognise as locals to where I live and also blocked.

Sister of my best friend caught her husband shagging about on here .... I pretended I knew nothing about the site when it was mentioned to me

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"I have a women from work in my blocks list..

And, I got a wink from my Aunt.. that was weird! Haha"

From your aunt haha ho no

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By *awty nannaWoman
35 weeks ago

sheffield


"Like it say

Some how this is worst fear on this site

Was wondering if it happened to any of you

And what did you do"

My eldest Son....block applied....

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Like it say

Some how this is worst fear on this site

Was wondering if it happened to any of you

And what did you do

My eldest Son....block applied...."

Oh God no

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By *ittleMissCheekWoman
35 weeks ago

Naas

I have met some, and ignored/blocked others.

Have never said it to any of the women though!

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By *haz46Woman
35 weeks ago

Stockport

yes i have found a couple

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By *ickD38Man
35 weeks ago

Preston

Messaged someone on here. Turned out to be a friend of my ex wife. Neither of them minded, had some great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not a friend, but someone we knew because our kids are in the same class at school.

Which is the line he opened with when he messaged us.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
35 weeks ago

wonderland.

Quite a few. Depends if friends or family. Friends I won't block. Family I will

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Like it say

Some how this is worst fear on this site

Was wondering if it happened to any of you

And what did you do

My eldest Son....block applied....

Oh God no "

OMG not something I would want eeeeek

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Bumped into a next door neighbour on here …… was an interesting chat !!

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Not a friend, but someone we knew because our kids are in the same class at school.

Which is the line he opened with when he messaged us."

What did you say to that haha ?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Not a friend, but someone we knew because our kids are in the same class at school.

Which is the line he opened with when he messaged us.

What did you say to that haha ?"

"Does your girlfriend know you are on here?"

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By *herrybakewellCouple
35 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yeah we have, we choose to block them, it's just our preference.

Remember though if people are on here they have the same secret we do....so no need to panic.

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Not a friend, but someone we knew because our kids are in the same class at school.

Which is the line he opened with when he messaged us.

What did you say to that haha ?

"Does your girlfriend know you are on here?""

Aw no

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By *onger24 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

shropshire


"Yeah we have, we choose to block them, it's just our preference.

Remember though if people are on here they have the same secret we do....so no need to panic. "

Me flapping for no reason tbf

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By *ormalMaleMan
35 weeks ago

near By

Yes and left them to enjoy fab. Don’t put public pics where can be recognised for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Matt Le Blanc.

He was surprisingly down to earth and VERY funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I've found at least 6 people on here I've known from outwith fab. Some married some in relationships. At the end of the day it's none of my business.

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