FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting newbies with no experience

By *T89 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Llandudno

Does this happen?

Do woman / couples meet new people who want to explore ?

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By *aters139Man
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

Is likely guess they wouldn't wanna teach you the ropes if it's not something you've done before... personally if I was that way inclined I'd be heading to a club..

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It does happen.

It probably requires making a really good impression.

Some people won't meet people without a green tick.

In theory I'd be prepared to meet someone for a coffee.

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By *elloWoman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Do you mean no experience with swinging or no experience with rumpy pumpy, slap and tickle aka sex.

A virgin or a swinging virgin?

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By *T89 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Llandudno

Problem is, there's none in North wales

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
35 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Does this happen?

Do woman / couples meet new people who want to explore ? "
Yup.. we do x

Cali

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By *T89 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Llandudno

Virgin swinger

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By *aters139Man
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Do you mean no experience with swinging or no experience with rumpy pumpy, slap and tickle aka sex.

A virgin or a swinging virgin?"

I really hope that's your way of talking dirty...

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By *elloWoman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Do you mean no experience with swinging or no experience with rumpy pumpy, slap and tickle aka sex.

A virgin or a swinging virgin?

I really hope that's your way of talking dirty..."

Yes but it works better in real life with the added nudge nudge and wink wink

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By *aters139Man
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Do you mean no experience with swinging or no experience with rumpy pumpy, slap and tickle aka sex.

A virgin or a swinging virgin?

I really hope that's your way of talking dirty...

Yes but it works better in real life with the added nudge nudge and wink wink

Ouff stop it...I'm getting all hot and bothered!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Yes, it happens

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By *T89 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Llandudno

Surely itl be a turn off if I was nervous

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By *elloWoman
35 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Surely itl be a turn off if I was nervous "

Tell them before hand that you're inexperienced and nervous and let them take the lead, if they're turned off by someone being nervous then they're twats and not worth your time.

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By *T89 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Llandudno

"Surely itl be a turn off if I was nervous

Tell them before hand that you're inexperienced and nervous and let them take the lead, if they're turned off by someone being nervous then they're twats and not worth your time."

Fair.play great answer

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
35 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

We tend NOT to PLAY those that inexperienced and unsure if they are bi or bi curious? We will happily meet for a social but only tend to play with those that are sure and comfortable with what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Some women and couples are new too, or there are women and couples who prefer not to meet hardened or highly active swingers. They might be a starting point for you? If you advertise yourself to those you want to meet rather than everyone and anyone then you’ll be more likely find what you’re looking for

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By *aters139Man
35 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Surely itl be a turn off if I was nervous

Tell them before hand that you're inexperienced and nervous and let them take the lead, if they're turned off by someone being nervous then they're twats and not worth your time."

Wouldn't call em twats for not wanting to get it in with someone nervous, but agree you need to be upfront if you are concerned, so they know what to expect and have the chance to decline.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

I think most women and couples aren't that interested in being teachers to single men. I'm a little deterred by anyone who's clueless. But, where there's a will, there's a way

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By *unchalMan
35 weeks ago

Dartford

"Do you mean no experience with swinging or no experience with rumpy pumpy, slap and tickle aka sex.

A virgin or a swinging virgin?

I really hope that's your way of talking dirty...

Yes but it works better in real life with the added nudge nudge and wink wink

Yes. Nudge nudge. Snap snap. Grin grin, wink wink, say no more?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

When meeting new (to playing) couples, its good to try and discover which one is the driving force behind their decision to take the first step into swinging. Quite a different approach is needed. All good if its a genuine joint arrangement. Still it can go all very different when the clothes come off.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Fingers crossed they do. We were all newbies once to things after all

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