FabSwingers.com forum: Do you actually meet new people?

By *enrietteandSam OP Couple
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It just occurred to me that we haven’t met anyone new from fab for a very long time!

We do have some irons in fires currently but it’s definitely been a while…

I think we’ve just gotten comfortable, lazy maybe.

Do you tend to find people that work in your dynamic and kinda stick to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I meet nude people.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Stockport

We're not ashamed to say that we didn't meet newbies , we thought that we are not there to hold there hand

But that has definitely changed over time

We realised that everyone was new once

Someone took a chance on us , so now it's our turn to help people to get a start in this lifestyle

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By *enrietteandSam OP Couple
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"We're not ashamed to say that we didn't meet newbies , we thought that we are not there to hold there hand

But that has definitely changed over time

We realised that everyone was new once

Someone took a chance on us , so now it's our turn to help people to get a start in this lifestyle "

That wasn’t quite what I was aiming at but it’s a valid response.

If a newbie had everything we liked and we were sure they were legitimate then being new to the site wouldn’t put us off.

I actually meant new people to know, that we haven’t met before.

It’s all good though, thank you for sharing

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By *ealitybitesMan
29 weeks ago

Belfast

I haven't met anyone new in 4 years for various reasons including health and circumstance as well as suffering from cantbearseditis.

On this profile and my couples profile, real life has just been too raw and too real so meeting new people is very low on my list of priorities.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
29 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We don't really actively search for people. We browse the forum and comment here and there on our single and joint account and see where it leads us.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I can’t comment on my experience of Fab because I don’t have any prior experience but I’d say that I’ve definitely changed post COVID.

I used to be more social and would make more of an effort but I think the lockdown really created a strong comfort zone that I haven’t quite broken out of. I haven’t been on a single night out with friends post covid and the thought of it actually makes me quite anxious.

Apart from work and the gym I’ve stopped socialising and meeting new people.

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By *ornycougaWoman
29 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I haven't met anyone new on here for nearly a year. I haven't come across anyone new who vaguely interests me, let alone excites me.

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By *rHotNottsMan
29 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think the longer you ate here it just becomes so much easier and safer to stick with repeat meets. You know who’s reliable and what to expect

I’ve only met 2 new people this year

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By *mmaleiaWoman
29 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I’m yet to find ‘my people’

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By *ris GrayMan
29 weeks ago

Dorchester

I meet new people all the time

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
29 weeks ago

wonderland.

We met new people a lot

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I know what you mean. I met someone, we got on great and I just stopped looking for anyone else for a while.

I guess it was a case of, I know i’m going to have a good time with that person, so what’s the point. It was easy to arrange things and there’s was no initial awkwardness to get over. I think I got comfortable too.

I haven’t met anyone new in a while. When you find someone like that it’s difficult to find that again with someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Only for afternoon tea + cocktails

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I rarely meet people multiple times. I'd like to say it's because I just get bored but mainly I annoy them.

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By *herry delightWoman
29 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I would say about 50% of the people I meet are new to me, but recently that figure has gone down as a lot of newbies turn out to be timewasters.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
29 weeks ago

Tamworth

Depends.

We do club meets only so it's a mixed bag depending on who goes

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By *iddle ManMan
29 weeks ago

Walsall

I love to meet new people, but I tend to go through fazes, as you mentioned it maybe if you are happy with a group of friends then why change it.

The buzz of meeting new people is always fun.

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By *ucka39Man
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

Haven't met anyone new for a very number of years

but not saying that nobody has caught my eyes or chatted with hit hint

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I met a new person solo in December, but nobody since.

Tbh we hardly even meet people we do know! Life has been tricky and it's the last thing on our minds right now. Also, familiar faces are comforting. You know you'll have a nice evening for sure, and meeting someone new always has the risk of being not so good.

Nell

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By *eah BabyCouple
29 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not actively looked to meet anyone new in a very long time, it’s just by chance meeting, right place at the right time kind of thing, other than fab friends.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
29 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Well, I'm heading to a ladies only social just to say hi this wk end.

We are having a wee jolly down the road in June so I can meet someone I have been wanting to have drinks and chatter with for ages.

There is another person I am hoping to arrange a little jolly to meet cos I just think they are lovely and awesome.

There are 2 others I am hoping to build up the courage to see if they want to maybe go for drinks or something. Probably need to reach out if one of them wants to even chatter first. Baby steps.

So not exactly swinging as such but it is being social with like minded people. Its a start to making more effort.

MrsAbz

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By *eliWoman
29 weeks ago

Hello associate, I'm less of a dick now.

I think part of it is down to being comfortable.

I do find that I tend to find a few people and stick to them. I think that's because I really enjoy the intimacy and connection that comes from a more established dynamic. That trust, that ease and comfort, knowing someone's body and how they respond. It's also about not always having headspace for more dynamics.

As a tangent I've started to saying yes to meeting new people this year. They might become those I'm more comfortable with, have a dynamic with. I won't know unless I've given it a go. Hopeful though.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
29 weeks ago

Essex

I love meeting new people.

I’m very sociable

Until I’m not, then I hibernate for a while & recharge.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
29 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

For us everyone we meet will be new unless we've met them at socials etc. Even if we find people we want to meet again we'll always be looking to meet new people.

Tinder

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By *quirrel!Man
29 weeks ago

Nearby

"I rarely meet people multiple times. I'd like to say it's because I just get bored but mainly I annoy them.

Soooo annoying!

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By *parkle1974Woman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

I haven't met anyone new in over 3 years x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I don't meet people, I just chat.

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
29 weeks ago

West London

"I would say about 50% of the people I meet are new to me, but recently that figure has gone down as a lot of newbies turn out to be timewasters.

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we find the same problem x

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By *ot to giggleWoman
29 weeks ago

Coventry

i have organised a few group socials which were fun and a great success

i do try to meet people, met someone a few weeks back - but I find it tricky and people are so unreliable they arrange to meet and then cancel - if you dont want to meet dont organise stuff. Was chatting with someone earlier and they were having the same issues, last minute cancellations - or ghosting one they organise something.

I love meeting people - just get a bit disillusioned at times with time wasters and dreamers.

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By *andystick72Man
29 weeks ago

kinky Street

The ones I do meet want to meet again and again ,I don't get time to meet new people lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
29 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm going to an event Saturday where I've not met a soul that's attending.

Gonna be fun.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
29 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

Nope.

Not meeting any one new at all.

I’m just here for the laugh now.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
29 weeks ago

London

We meet new people all the time but we go to clubs x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
29 weeks ago

North West

Yes, I'm happy to meet new people.

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By *heOriginalLoisWoman
29 weeks ago

London

I have not met anyone since 2019, and then that was someone I had known for ages from here.

Lost my mojo etc. Only here to keep an eye on proceedings

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By *eiaorganaWoman
29 weeks ago

Dundee

"It just occurred to me that we haven’t met anyone new from fab for a very long time!

We do have some irons in fires currently but it’s definitely been a while…

I think we’ve just gotten comfortable, lazy maybe.

Do you tend to find people that work in your dynamic and kinda stick to that?

I've actually found it difficult to find people for repeated meets, just seem to end up with one offs. Would love to have a few semi regulars but doesn't look like that will be the case

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By *ife NinjaMan
29 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I like new people

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
29 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yes I like to meet new people. I don't see the point of me being here otherwise. I can chat to old friends away from fab if I want to arrange to meet them.

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By *eannaTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

About 6 months prior to COVID I had a heart attack and so I was off work for the same time then COVID and since then I've been working from home, so prior to all this I was quiet outgoing and met many people and now I've become withdrawn so I don't meet many people now but that doesn't stop me from talking to them on here unfortunately as someone else said there seems to be a awful lot of time wasters, the conversation may be promising and even exciting but when it comes down to it nothing transpires.

But to answer your question I'm always interested in meeting new people of course when time permits

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I’m not fussy…

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By *B69Woman
29 weeks ago

Wiltshire

If I had the time then yes I would, but it’s easy to stick with who you know at the moment

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By *entleman JayMan
29 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve met two new couples in the last three weeks.

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

It's probably different for couples than single profiles.

For couples you've got to find someone or two that appeals to both of you and fits in with what you're looking for. The longer you're here the easier it is to stick with people you've already met and know it works. Time is limited.

With singles it's easier to be more open to meeting new people IMO.

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By *edeWoman
29 weeks ago

the abyss

I don't meet anyone ever! I'm a crazy hermit lady but if someone wants to tempt me out for cake and coffee I'd be game for a new connection. I might even brush my hair and not just the stuff on my toes!

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By * and R cple4Couple
29 weeks ago

swansea

Meeting new people on here has become just to much hassle by the time you wade through all the fakes and fantasists you've forgotten what you were looking for

We did get slightly lazy and just stayed within a certain group but we have started meeting different people in group socials..

We love meeting new people it's just gotten extremely difficult to do on here..

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I've tried but it's just not the same

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By *agnar73Man
29 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I’d like to meet more new people and learning as I go with clubs. I’ve tried messaging and got nowhere.

First went in January and I guess lots more to learn.

Was hoping I would maybe have a chance of daytime meets, even if just go for a coffee and have a chat sort of things.

I guess that’s not really happening and it’s a bit disheartening.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Found life's definitely more interesting and enjoyable when we try different things.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
29 weeks ago

Llanelli

Yes, I'm regularly going to parties and social events

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By *cotty_01ukMan
29 weeks ago

birmingham

Course you do and then if you get on fair play

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
29 weeks ago

Folkestone

I can't tell if it's quiet after covid or where I moved.

Obviously more candidates in London lol

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Half the thrill is in meeting new people.

Nurturing ‘old’ connections is fun too.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

We seem to meet new people on every club visit. We have a core of people we are friends with but always welcome new interactions

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By *tuvyMan
29 weeks ago

bedford

Iv a few meets in the last month all off here

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I do meet new people, I’ve found the longer I talk to people that are on my wavelength turn into pen pals, and we never meet.

So I take chances talking to new people who might want to get together and have a laugh, I’m about to put some fab miles on my account this week.

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By *ellhungvweMan
29 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It ebbs and flows. I like meeting new people - finding out what they like and don’t like is part of the thing for me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
29 weeks ago

Leeds

We haven't met in ages, mainly because I (Mrs) just am not feeling it.

I struggle meeting off here anyway, I prefer the socials - it's just easier at face value.

Maybe by the next social I'll have sorted my head out a little.

Mrs

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