FabSwingers.com forum: The one you could easily forget

By (user no longer on site) OP
30 weeks ago

Have you ever had sex when you look back at it you think I shouldn’t have bothered?

The only reason I thought of this is because isn’t sex enjoyable? What is it ALWAYS enjoyable?

*it is with me…

I might one day regret saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

It would be easier picking out the times I don't want to forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I've already forgotten most of those occasions that were not enjoyable or were meh.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

Plenty of times lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Occasionally I have looked back and gone "I wish I could take that load back"

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
30 weeks ago

Basingstoke

There's are plenty of occasions I'd wished I'd just curled up on the sofa with a cuppa instead! But doesn't that apply to many aspects of life? Crap day at work, terrible workout at the gym, dodgy night out with friends...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
30 weeks ago

More than once.

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By *sWyldWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I spend time wondering if anyone thinks that about me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
30 weeks ago

"I spend time wondering if anyone thinks that about me"

…. Oh yes. Good point

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
30 weeks ago

Wales

Only the once but it was pretty awful

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
30 weeks ago

North West

Yeah it's happened, but but nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Most things are worth a whirl.

Its learning the lesson from the thing that's importanter than the thing itself.

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

Only twice. I learnt a lesson both times though. Could have done without those experiences but I try and put a positive spin on it.

One there was a boundary (that hadn't been tested until then) that an ex lied to me about - the sex was so dull and lacklustre as a result. He came. Me, the woman who can come from giving oral or grinding on a man's thighs? Zero orgasms, zero enjoyment in it. Never, ever again.

The other is a story for another time.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Yeah several times. One was that bad I just got up put my clothes on and left.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
30 weeks ago

Wirral

I'm very lucky to orgasm really easily, so even bad sex is fairly good.

Sometimes I do look at all the effort (the grooming and extensive hair removal, the attempting to flirt, the sheer effort of trying to appear normal in order to attract someone!) and think "my vibrator would get me to the same place with none of this bullshit".

Why did I have to be cursed with a love of cock?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

Our needs change and you can't always predict how things will work out but I'm grateful for what I've had, even if things weren't always the best of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I'm very lucky to orgasm really easily, so even bad sex is fairly good.

Why did I have to be cursed with a love of cock?"

Lolololol the curse!

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By *hortarseWoman
30 weeks ago

Norfolk

Well my mum told me at weekend sex isn't everything. Sometimes you shouldn't listen to your mum.

Yes I've had bad sex but not on here.

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By *illan-KillashMan
30 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Have you ever had sex when you look back at it you think I shouldn’t have bothered?

The only reason I thought of this is because isn’t sex enjoyable? What is it ALWAYS enjoyable?

*it is with me…

I might one day regret saying that

I can't recall any "shouldn't have bothered" encounters, but there's been times where I wasn't on top of my game and probably didn't do the moment justice.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Yeah I’ve had a fair amount of shit sex in my life. Charge it to the game.

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By *OYFBWoman
30 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"It would be easier picking out the times I don't want to forget.

Exactly this!!

More I’d want to forget than remember!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Totally have.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

Yep! And forget and move on.

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By *ea monkeyMan
30 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

There have been times when it’s been lacklustre, when the other person and I weren’t in sync and it was ‘meh’.

Most of those times were when I was younger and before I had discovered what I needed to make sex sparkle

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