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Do you value your own pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago

During sex do you focus at points on your own pleasure or do you leave your pleasure to your partner?

Men I’m especially interested in your answers.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Quiet day at work?

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm a wanker yes.

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

I'm probably not assertive enough to focus on my own pleasure or say what I want them to do as I don't want to come across as demanding but to be honest, I do enjoy just letting things flow and whether that focuses on my own pleasure or theirs, I'm pretty happy

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By *aiseiMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

I don’t care if my hand gets there or not.

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By *del 1Man
23 weeks ago

London

My own pleasure quite often comes from seeing the other person's pleasure...I find it very exciting to see my partner's breath getting heavier, moans louder and some areas wetter. It happens sometimes that I don't feel the need for anything else personally

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's a mutual exchange.

If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.

If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry


"It's a mutual exchange.

If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.

If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place."

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

same here - if you aint doing it for me - im outta here!!!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.

If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.

Mrs

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Stockport

I find it really hard to reach climax anyway, no matter who I'm with (even if it's just myself). So that only leaves me getting pleasure out of giving what I can to whoever I'm with.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
23 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I get great pleasure from being assertive as a good Dom should.

Knowing that I am satisfying my partner's needs as well as my own

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Manchester

the dom seeks the pleasure and control in my meets and it is up to me to do it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.

If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.

Mrs "

Oh. This too.

5 hours straight of worshipping a worthy cock until the balls are so empty that they echo, and then some more, without even so much as a glance at my cunt. Perfection

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By *unlovin72Man
23 weeks ago

BARNSLEY

I get off by having mutual pleasure I cannot do with this come and go shit I prefer a sensual build up between both partners before having explosive sex

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby


"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.

If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.

Mrs "

I wanted to say something like this, but felt like it would've sounded a bit cliché...

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By *or-QueeningMan
23 weeks ago

Manchester


"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.

If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.

Mrs "

Yeah, this is me. Plus I love women's bodies so for me getting to explore a woman is as much of a thrill as me getting to come, if not more so.

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By *osey WalesMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey


"My pleasure comes from their pleasure - I can get a huge amount of pleasure from giving the Mr a blow job & not being touched at all as an example.

If I know they are enjoying what I'm doing I get pleasure from that.

Mrs "

Same.

If i know they are enjoying, so am I

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By *ensuallover1000Man
23 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

By gum yes! I demand sexual gratification to

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

To right I value my own sexual pleasure ....

I absolutely love giving pleasure to a sexual partner, hearing them climax etc

But I expect sexual pleasure of my own from any encounter .... otherwise I may as well just be a fuck toy and that's not my kink.

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By *rBobbMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

It really is and should always be a two way street. There should lots of pleasure for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"Quiet day at work? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
23 weeks ago


"It's a mutual exchange.

If I'm not getting off on it in some way, I'm going to put some clothes on and head out.

If I'm not invested in getting them off, I wasn't going to be there in the first place."

I think it is about pleasuring one another. But I think that as individuals we need to take responsibility if our pleasure matters to us. Use toys. Ask your partner to do something for you. I am not even sorry that I’m becoming more confident in that sense and I prefer partners that are similar. Communication is so important. As is clear, I love talking.

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By *orphnStormMan
23 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I think that if all parties aren't getting enjoyment, or getting what they want, then what's the point. I've 'taken one for the team' in the past, and been left disappointed, but decided very fast that if I'm not getting my kicks, I'm out of here.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

If you’re thinking in terms of them or you then I think you’re doing it a wee bit wrong imho…

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"If you’re thinking in terms of them or you then I think you’re doing it a wee bit wrong imho… "

Pleasure should all come from the penis! The penis is the centre of the sex! Sex is the penis the penis is sex!

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