FabSwingers.com forum: Being let down for meets

By *OYFB OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

It’s such a waste of energy isn’t it?

You spend ages fielding messages, filtering out unsuitable people, finally build a rapport with someone, plan to meet, psychology and physically prepare for that meet, only for them to cancel last minute.

Even worse when you turn up and they’re a no-show without explanation.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

Yup. Had that last night. Being the resourceful sort I found a plan b. I reported him for a no show not much else we can do.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Queue all the guys letting you know they'd never let you down.

Unfortunately it happens on here a lot OP, hope it wasn't too much time wasted.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Wasted yesterday morning waiting on a guy, my own fault kinda knew it wasnt gonna happen but hes the one who messages asking when im free all the time, had a rare free house and boom hasnt been online since yesterday morning, to be fair he was going to message when he was back from where ever he was going so maybe hes just not back haha..

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By *OYFB OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

I’m quite the introvert with a background of anxiety/depression, so it takes a lot of energy to psych myself up to meet someone!

I live in an area where there are few fab users so thankfully haven’t got the “I’d never let you down” messages!

That’s a good idea to report no-shows, because it’s likely they do it with other people. Will keep that in mind for when it inevitably happens again!

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By *ellinever70Woman
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If it happens often, I think that's an indication to reevaluate how you go about things on here

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Most people are all talk and no action. You can't avoid it but just learn from it and make sure you give no second chances to these people.

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By *OYFB OP Woman
23 weeks ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)

"Most people are all talk and no action. You can't avoid it but just learn from it and make sure you give no second chances to these people."

This is some good advice, thank you

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By *rispyDuckMan
23 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I had got all dressed up looking and smelling fresh

cock was throbbing bulging hard ready for action

. Then ‘sorry can’t come something came up’

Oh well, let’s get an ice pack cool this cobra down

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By *nt1845Man
23 weeks ago

Wakefield

Recently found women can also waste time.

Spend the odd night away in Birmingham with work and I’ve been let down twice!

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
23 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Luckily it's never happened - phew!

We tend to arrange first meets in clubs or near clubs so if it did ever happen we can still have a good night regardless

S xx

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By *exyScientistsCouple
23 weeks ago

Castlebar

Yes although I did feel on the most part it was genuine reasons...but more than once, or no suggestion of rescheduling and I assume its a lack of interest.

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
23 weeks ago

Newham

"Recently found women can also waste time.

Spend the odd night away in Birmingham with work and I’ve been let down twice!"

That’s totally different from what OP describes in her post. It’s safe to assume you’ve been chatting to fantasists.

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By *WB85Man
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sadly, it happens and it's so frustrating.

Me and my partner both have solo accounts (and a joint) and I was so jealous of the volume of messages she gets. She's had the same though, people not turning up etc etc.

It's hard work isn't it.

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