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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip." Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx" Just enjoy it and don’t put too much stress on yourselves  | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx" A lot of club nights have group chats prior to the event so check that out or put on fab a meet and include say hi if going. Update your status to say the same and then people may reach out - enjoy xx | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx A lot of club nights have group chats prior to the event so check that out or put on fab a meet and include say hi if going. Update your status to say the same and then people may reach out - enjoy xx" We haven't been to a club yet but that would certainly make it a lot easier | |||
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"When attending a club as a couple is it best to attend with another couple? We heard that often people at clubs generally know each other and as a newbie can be a little awkward? Xx" People who attend clubs are usually freindly and chatty, if you go with someone else, you will probably appear to already be "paired up" and less likely to want the attentions of others. When we go to clubs, we find that the best option is just to wander around and chat to as many people as possible, Cal | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx A lot of club nights have group chats prior to the event so check that out or put on fab a meet and include say hi if going. Update your status to say the same and then people may reach out - enjoy xx We haven't been to a club yet but that would certainly make it a lot easier" Let us know if you fancy going together... xx | |||
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"When attending a club as a couple is it best to attend with another couple? We heard that often people at clubs generally know each other and as a newbie can be a little awkward? Xx People who attend clubs are usually freindly and chatty, if you go with someone else, you will probably appear to already be "paired up" and less likely to want the attentions of others. When we go to clubs, we find that the best option is just to wander around and chat to as many people as possible, Cal" Yeah true, I didn't think about looking paired up, I guess once in a comfortable and couples drinks in etc cab wander around independently of your couple mates. | |||
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"I'd say it depends entirely on the club, as well as the specific event. Some clubs do have a base of die hard regulars, mixed with new attendees. Some events tend to attract the same attendees. Neither of those things is bad. One thing I'd suggest is to do some research, find a club that on paper ticks the boxes you're looking for (location, size, wet/dry club, specific theme for the night if applicable, who'll be there in terms of just F & FM or open to men too) and get your name added to a guest list if there's one running in rhe events forum. That way you can track who's going, make pre event contact and with many there'll be a pre event group chat set up. I'm off to a new club next weekend where I've never met anyone else that's going. But the group chat so far has been both welcoming and hilarious. As a couple you'll always have eachother, so even if nobody there turns out to float your boat you'll have eachother for company. Good luck. "Appreciate your message, we will do some digging and join a chat. We have booked so can see the guest list but is looking a little sparse at min! Xx | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx A lot of club nights have group chats prior to the event so check that out or put on fab a meet and include say hi if going. Update your status to say the same and then people may reach out - enjoy xx We haven't been to a club yet but that would certainly make it a lot easier Let us know if you fancy going together... xx" We could meet in the Midlands  | |||
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"Whether you are a single or a couple it is usually easier if you attend with someone you know. It can be a little waiting at first and having that comfort of knowing someone else will probably help. You don’t have to do anything if you don’t want to - just sitting back and taking it all in is what many people do in their first club trip. Thanks for taking time to message, appreciate it. We thought that might be the case. We go in a couple of weeks, better start putting it out there for some company! Xx A lot of club nights have group chats prior to the event so check that out or put on fab a meet and include say hi if going. Update your status to say the same and then people may reach out - enjoy xx We haven't been to a club yet but that would certainly make it a lot easier Let us know if you fancy going together... xx We could meet in the Midlands "The club we are going to this time is in London. Maybe next time somewhere closer to you xx | |||
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"When attending a club as a couple is it best to attend with another couple? We heard that often people at clubs generally know each other and as a newbie can be a little awkward? Xx" Do you have another couple you can go with? Safety in numbers | |||
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"I'd say it depends entirely on the club, as well as the specific event. Some clubs do have a base of die hard regulars, mixed with new attendees. Some events tend to attract the same attendees. Neither of those things is bad. One thing I'd suggest is to do some research, find a club that on paper ticks the boxes you're looking for (location, size, wet/dry club, specific theme for the night if applicable, who'll be there in terms of just F & FM or open to men too) and get your name added to a guest list if there's one running in rhe events forum. That way you can track who's going, make pre event contact and with many there'll be a pre event group chat set up. I'm off to a new club next weekend where I've never met anyone else that's going. But the group chat so far has been both welcoming and hilarious. As a couple you'll always have eachother, so even if nobody there turns out to float your boat you'll have eachother for company. Good luck. "Oooooo I’m excited for you! Whatever the club is j hope you have a lovely time, from the group chat it sounds like you will do  | |||
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"I'd say it depends entirely on the club, as well as the specific event. Some clubs do have a base of die hard regulars, mixed with new attendees. Some events tend to attract the same attendees. Neither of those things is bad. One thing I'd suggest is to do some research, find a club that on paper ticks the boxes you're looking for (location, size, wet/dry club, specific theme for the night if applicable, who'll be there in terms of just F & FM or open to men too) and get your name added to a guest list if there's one running in rhe events forum. That way you can track who's going, make pre event contact and with many there'll be a pre event group chat set up. I'm off to a new club next weekend where I've never met anyone else that's going. But the group chat so far has been both welcoming and hilarious. As a couple you'll always have eachother, so even if nobody there turns out to float your boat you'll have eachother for company. Good luck.
Oooooo I’m excited for you! Whatever the club is j hope you have a lovely time, from the group chat it sounds like you will do "Thank you so much! We'll keep you posted on how it goes xx | |||
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