FabSwingers.com forum: Bi-sexuals

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

So, I was kinda late in figuring out I'm bi, now I look back and think why on earth did I not know earlier - I mean my 1st crush was the little mermaid, I only ever watched lesbian porn & had a little obsession over boobs, I've always found women more aesthetically pleasing & was a little curious but yet I never knew? - looking back now I want to kick my younger self, how did I not notice?!

So the men/women who where late in figuring out there sexuality do you look back and think yep it was obvious? Or was it something you wasn't expecting? Did it come as a suprise?

What was it that made you realise yes I'm bi?

Mrs

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By *onestjohn1962Man
36 weeks ago

Sheffield

"So, I was kinda late in figuring out I'm bi, now I look back and think why on earth did I not know earlier - I mean my 1st crush was the little mermaid, I only ever watched lesbian porn & had a little obsession over boobs, I've always found women more aesthetically pleasing & was a little curious but yet I never knew? - looking back now I want to kick my younger self, how did I not notice?!

So the men/women who where late in figuring out there sexuality do you look back and think yep it was obvious? Or was it something you wasn't expecting? Did it come as a suprise?

What was it that made you realise yes I'm bi?

Mrs

I’m not attracted to men in the same way as I am women but I was fascinated at the thought of playing with a cock. I day dreamed about this for years and only made it happen after my divorce when I was 50. That was 12 years ago and I have never looked back, love cock as much as pussy and love to give as well as take with guys. I’m not gay I’m bi.

And yes, I should have done something about it sooner.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

I'm a reverse bisexual woman. Didn't have sex with a man until early twenties.

I'd always found women attractive and men rather dreary and full of utter crap. Not particularly sexually exciting, no desire to explore with one. And then something happened and I realised I wasn't an angry femme, feminist lesbian, I was bisexual.

I was surprised. My friends definitely were. My sister pointed out I had a slight obsession with Giles from Buffy when I was younger.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"I'm a reverse bisexual woman. Didn't have sex with a man until early twenties.

I was surprised. My friends definitely were. My sister pointed out I had a slight obsession with Giles from Buffy when I was younger.

I think this is the 1st time I've heard the reverse bisexual that's intriguing, at the moment if I wasn't so utterly obsessed with the Mr & his cock I'd say I was gay, I think fab has put me more off men than I ever have been.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I wasn’t late in figuring it out, I kind of always knew I looked at girls differently to how my friends did. It just took me a while to come to terms with it.

When I “came out” to my friends, none of them were surprised by my confession, so maybe they knew too.

I’ve had plenty opportunities to explore, so I don’t feel like I’ve missed out on much, although I did have a friend that thinking back on it would quite obviously flirt, but I was too nervous to make any moves. Maybe that was a missed opportunity? Who knows.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

"I'm a reverse bisexual woman. Didn't have sex with a man until early twenties.

I was surprised. My friends definitely were. My sister pointed out I had a slight obsession with Giles from Buffy when I was younger.

Mrs

Intriguing. I like that, I'd say I was very confused.

Yeah, that's fair enough, you can be gay with an exception. I wouldn't blame you for that. :D I'm really liking the men on Fab atm which is weird.

My sexuality is very fluid now - sometimes I find I'm more attracted to women and actively only date women (but have a couple of penis wielder lovers). Other times I'm a bit cockcentric.

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By *ocusMan
36 weeks ago

Cambridge

When I was in middle school we were given a text book about Greek myths. All the illustrations of the men and women showed them wearing very little with legs and arms in strategic places covering boobs, cunts and cocks. I didn’t know about bisexuality. I just assumed everyone was getting turned on by the pics

I remember one pic especially; Prometheus naked, chained to a rock, with an eagle bearing down on him. One of his legs was raised and covered his crotch and I often fantasised about what it was covering up.

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By *ullyMan
36 weeks ago

Near Clacton

I knew I liked boys rude bits at a very early age, and getting older I was going with boys and girls, but with the girls it was like as soon as we'd had sex I was not interested. but with guys the attraction grew stronger. I was very happily wed for many decades but it was a Mary Austin/ Freddie Mercury situation which served us both perfectly. Now totally alone in the world (for over 9 years) I am happy with either gender.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"I wasn’t late in figuring it out, I kind of always knew I looked at girls differently to how my friends did. It just took me a while to come to terms with it.

When I “came out” to my friends, none of them were surprised by my confession, so maybe they knew too.

I've never "come out" as such I don't think anyone would be surprised if I brought a woman home I think they all just know anyway, probably did before me.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"When I was in middle school we were given a text book about Greek myths. All the illustrations of the men and women showed them wearing very little with legs and arms in strategic places covering boobs, cunts and cocks. I didn’t know about bisexuality. I just assumed everyone was getting turned on by the pics

That's kinda cool, so did you realise there and then or did it take a while afterwards?

Mrs

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By *mber and FireCouple
36 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

Fairly recently, but it's been more of a realisation I'm probably more pansexual if I was to put a label on it. I'm not attracted to guys physically though I can appreciate anyone who is attractive to my eyes.

I'm not looking for anything sexual with a guy, but if a hot group sex thing started to turn that way, I'd at least explore a little.

I'm much more likely to get romantic feels than I am wanting to fuck a guy outright - but existing friendship and connection would be needed for both.

It's the same with gender fluidity. I guess I'm a lot more fluid than I realised, but not enough to use it as a way to describe myself. It's more that I recognise and embrace my feminine energy more (pretty nails are the bomb, more guys should get their nails done.) But I will probably always present as a man, if not looking a little camp on occasion.

Because who doesn't want to look pretty?

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By *mber and FireCouple
36 weeks ago

Carmarthenshire

(Oops, should have signed off as Mr.)

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

I did have some female crushes- Jill Gascoigne from the gentle touch was one. But i think the crushes on men were stronger. It wasn't until fairly recently that i had a crush on a woman in my life. Nothing happened in fact i think it strained our fruendship. I am not strongly bi more open to people of all genders if that makes sense. Its more about the person than how they identify.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Not until I started swinging 10 years ago did I find cocks fun. Don't find me attractive and love pussy more but like a nice cock every now and again

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By *ea monkeyMan
36 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

It wasn’t a surprise per se, I guess I always knew but I heavily repressed it. Growing up in a small town in the 80’s wasn’t conducive to being able to explore or express my feelings

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By *s-two-75Couple
36 weeks ago

Him- from a early on in teens I knew but not bi more confused as bisexual was not really a big label then you were one or the other.. knew I was not gay and liked girls too but also was aware I liked guys and was different to my mates.

Played with guys on and off over the years even when married, lucky for me she loves seeing guys having sex and finds it a major turn on… hence why we are here to enjoy it together

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I don’t know why we label. The minute we label and identify then the more rigid structure we impose. What if you fancy a cock tomorrow and then go back to fanny only for the next six months and then only see trans men after that and then…. ….why label what can change? Why label it anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I knew I wasn't straight but never liked the label. In my head it split the difference down the middle, that it should be an equal liking. But I could never date a fella, we are harder work than you gals ! So that and other shit meant I kept myself on a straight jacket (lolz) way too long.

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By *ocusMan
36 weeks ago

Cambridge

That's kinda cool, so did you realise there and then or did it take a while afterwards?

Mrs "

There and then pretty much.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"Fairly recently, but it's been more of a realisation I'm probably more pansexual if I was to put a label on it. I'm not attracted to guys physically though I can appreciate anyone who is attractive to my eyes.

I'm not looking for anything sexual with a guy, but if a hot group sex thing started to turn that way, I'd at least explore a little.

I'm much more likely to get romantic feels than I am wanting to fuck a guy outright - but existing friendship and connection would be needed for both.

Because who doesn't want to look pretty?"

In probably more on the pan scale of things, I like the person, I need that connection, I don't just instantly look at someone and feel sexual attraction it's just not there for me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"So, I was kinda late in figuring out I'm bi, now I look back and think why on earth did I not know earlier - I mean my 1st crush was the little mermaid, ……

Mrs

There’s nothing wrong with crushing on Ariel

*sorry

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By *ickawitchCouple
36 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Long story short. Wifey has always preferred the ladies. Until she met me she’d never really enjoyed being with a man ( bad experiences)

Myself, my story is similar. As A youngster I always played with and sucked cock . This didn’t stop until i joined the military.

Now ( closer to 60 than 50 ) I recently discovered the idea of playing with and sucking cock made me horny. I guess because now it’s on my terms I can enjoy it properly.

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By *omRachCouple
36 weeks ago

Wirral

So the men/women who where late in figuring out there sexuality do you look back and think yep it was obvious? Or was it something you wasn't expecting? Did it come as a suprise?

What was it that made you realise yes I'm bi?

Mrs

And yes, I should have done something about it sooner. "

Sums me up perfectly, only thing different are the ages and age gaps.

Tom,

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"So, I was kinda late in figuring out I'm bi, now I look back and think why on earth did I not know earlier - I mean my 1st crush was the little mermaid, ……

Mrs

There’s nothing wrong with crushing on Ariel

*sorry

Of course there isn't

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By *olly MistlehoeWoman
36 weeks ago

Somewhere

Always had an eye for girls growing up, had the odd frisk and whatnot. Didn't have full sex woth a woman until I was 36 though.

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By *edeWoman
36 weeks ago

the abyss

I guess I never really thought about that much. Playing with a female wasn't a big deal to me. I didn't put bisexual on my profile until last year but this was because I have never had a relationship with a female and in my head I thought I might give someone the idea I had more experience than I did. Bit stupid really

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By *isurgeanceMan
36 weeks ago

Carterton

For me I guess I've always liked both but not guys explicitly, although I have vivid memories of finding some guys heart-stoppingly attractive, it's like a 1 guy in every 5 or 6 women ratio, probably more.

These days I simply think if you're hot, you're hot and your humanity matters, that's really what I'm after - the flesh just kind of gets in the way. Not that that's a bad thing lol

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By *i de BiCouple
36 weeks ago

Leicester

Mrs Bi explored her bi side whilst at boarding school in her teens which she kept secret from me till we started chatting about the idea of swinging . Played with lots of Bi fem couples from then on .

I (Mr Bi) first played with another cock when we met a nice younger single guy and he asked if he could suck my cock , which turned Mrs Bi on so much and to be honest i also enjoyed the taboo of playing with another guy , the night ended with me fucking him as Mrs Bi sucked him off

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By *zlakMan
36 weeks ago

Lowestoft

I looked at other guys in the showers at the gym but only ever looked at their cocks, I always dismissed it as just curious until I confessed to a gay friend that I liked looking at guys cocks. He said Try mine then!! I did and have not looked back, still only look at the cock but love a cock as much as a pussy now.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Oddly despite some of my first sexual experiences being with women. Always thinking women were attractive... I kind of thought that was just normal. Like all women just like other women like that. Why wouldn't they? Women are so lovely and they can be friends or lovers sometimes and they have boobs.

Almost all my friends love boobs too so that justified it in my head.

In the end it took meeting a totally straight friend to realise that I was in fact bi and that being bi wasn't something entirely different to how I felt.

Apparently not all women like women that way.

Who knew?!

MrsAbz

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By *xfordjohnMan
36 weeks ago

Oxford

So the men/women who where late in figuring out there sexuality do you look back and think yep it was obvious? Or was it something you wasn't expecting? Did it come as a suprise?

What was it that made you realise yes I'm bi?

Mrs

I always thought I was bi but did not have the opportunity to really explore that side until quite recently - well, about 20 years ago, when I started using sites like this one and meeting couples with a bi male half.

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By *ark73XXXMan
36 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

I just found that cocks turned me on - I prefer women but I like cocks. It’s developed as I’ve got older. Perfectly comfortable with it now.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
36 weeks ago

Colchester

16 or so.

I used to tease a friend from about 13-16 about being gay. Yes, I admit I was horrible to him. He'd call me fatty. It was never nasty stuff between us like bullying. Just merciless name calling.

You might think you know where this story could go but you'd be wrong.

I woke up one morning after an erotic dream about him and his boyfriend. There was..er..."nocturnal emissions".

I was confused. Not scared or anything else. Just confused.

A few weeks later I read a Sci-Fi book. There was a short story. It was about a group of people, and in their society they kind of carried boxes with "genitalia", and they put on what they needed to put on when they wanted to put it on. This allowed them to have sex with whoever they wanted, and how they wanted. Sometimes same gender, other times opposite.

And I thought, "How cool is that ?"

And that book helped with with my confusion because it basically said to me, "What you are doesn't really matter. Be what you want to be with who you want to be with."

I longed for a bi experience after that, and some years later it happened and it felt perfectly natural.

And a few years later I met that old friend, and apologised to him for the things I called him, and he apologised to me. We're still friends, 40 years later.

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By *otguy555Man
36 weeks ago

Bristol

I've always loved women and pussy so much. I'm married and have never disappointed my wife. But when we started swinging she asked me if I would suck a cock the next time we met a guy. I did it and loved it

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By *enni400Man
36 weeks ago

bradford

I'm not attracted to men at all but I can't get enough of tv/ ts they drive me wild but so do bisexual couples to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of, embrace it, life is too short. If anything you have the best deal out of anyone as you get twice as much choice

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

"Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of, embrace it, life is too short. If anything you have the best deal out of anyone as you get twice as much choice

I don't think anyone here is ashamed.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of, embrace it, life is too short. If anything you have the best deal out of anyone as you get twice as much choice

I don't think anyone here is ashamed.

Mrs "

I know, I mean on the site generally. It pains me to see how some are on here with their sexuality. Nice to see many on your thread embracing it though

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By *ark73XXXMan
36 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

"Bisexuals have nothing to be ashamed of, embrace it, life is too short. If anything you have the best deal out of anyone as you get twice as much choice

I don't think anyone here is ashamed.

Mrs "

I don’t think that’s true sadly

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
36 weeks ago

Neath valley.

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By *urry BlokeMan
36 weeks ago

Stalybridge

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By *urry BlokeMan
36 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I have played with both sexes since being a teen

I've had both straight and gay relationships

Right now I'm here looking for fun with blokes

There's nothing saying that won't change

Sexuality remains fluid and it's good to both recognise and embrace that

It doesn't define me though

I am far more than who I share a bed with

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By *partharmonyCouple
36 weeks ago

Ruislip

Hannah has found women attractive for a long time (at least fromher teens) but didn't class herself as bisexual.

She ended up studying as a mature student in her 40s and ended up hooking up with a female friend of hers a couple of times not long after we first met. Then she considered herself definitely bi-curious and that's how she was listed on ot Fav profile. However, she thought it might be a one-off so didn't want describe herself as fully bisexual until something happened with a second woman.

We ended up having a threesome with a lady Fab friend of ours. After that she was like "Yeah, I'm definitely bisexual". The profile was updated and the rest is history.

What we'd really love is for her to have an outlet for her liking for women without me. There are obviously times when I am involved with specific women and that's fantastic, but I'd also really like her to have a lady friend she would see on her own and I would not be involved in any way (except possibly socially). It's rather selfish of me I suppose but it's how I feel and I doubt that it would happen because it would require a lady to make a move on Hannah because Hannah doesn't feel comfortable initiating something like that. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I was late coming out ( 1year ago )

But I always knew I was, it actually became obvious to my husband and he kept asking so eventually I just came out with it and here I am

Now we enjoy the benefits together

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
36 weeks ago

Neath valley.

I knew I was bi from a young age. Only acted on it when I was 20.

Mrs

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
36 weeks ago

Cheshire

Crossdressed since I was a teenager and self relief afterwards as at the time it was a sexual proclivity. It wasn’t long before I found a magazine full of pictures of TV’s and stories about their adventures. Obviously a lot involved some sexual escapades and at first I was only interested in the heterosexual stories.

However I did end up climaxing looking at the girls and eventually the stories about their experiences with men and other TV’s.

One day I got the courage (and money) and went to a dressing service in Manchester in which another TV dressed me up and indicated we could play together. I was in such a sexual state of mind I wanted to try everything and we did attempt quite a bit.

After that experience I knew it wouldn’t be a one off and accepted my bisexuality, also to make it easier to ‘come out’ to myself I considered the sexuality to be linked to my crossdressing so when it waned (the dressing)it would be less of a indulgence/ desire so would the bisexuality.

As a more mature person I’m comfortable with it now, I doubt I’ll ever have a romantic relationship with a guy, but I never rule it out.

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By *adbod1973Man
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I had fun with a cousin when younger which led to me having a love of other guys cocks .

Finally plucked up the courage to have a meet about 7 years ago with another guy and loved it . He sucked my cock and let me cum on his face .

Had a few meets since .m

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By *alm_one4Man
36 weeks ago

RM16

When I divorced and got my own place about 9 years ago, things that had intrigued me seemed sensible to try. Never going to give up pussy, but sucking a cock and dressing are a lot of fun I discovered. Only thing I’ve never managed to do is find a GF who was willing to try the lifestyle unfortunately

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By *9alMan
36 weeks ago

Bridgend

I did not try any bi fun until I was in my 30s

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By *he Silver FuxMan
36 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I'm a reverse bisexual woman. Didn't have sex with a man until early twenties.

I was surprised. My friends definitely were. My sister pointed out I had a slight obsession with Giles from Buffy when I was younger.

Giles… that’s kinda pervy

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I used to love looking at the bra section in my mums Kay’s catalogue

. I’ve always been obsessed with boobs. Never thought I’d do anything about it though. I didn’t do anything until way into my forties.

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