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"Probably not on fab. " Any reason | |||
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"Probably not on fab. " This question a seres on the hyb asked porn stars and it surprised me how dismissivr or insecure they where when asking the question. | |||
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"Probably not on fab. Any reason " Because it should be with someone you've got to know properly for a while and someone you trust. And might be hard to find that on fab or someone who want to do that on fab. Personally a big no from me and I've been asked by others before. | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female." I agree with this. And of course you are going to get the stupid answers, trying to be funny, but actually far from it. | |||
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"Whats best way for a virgin male to loose its virginity or best place for first time " Go to clubs and meet people like you have been doing. | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female. I agree with this. And of course you are going to get the stupid answers, trying to be funny, but actually far from it." Yes. The best thing to do is to try to connect to people, and be yourself. Find someone who wants to connect with you. I'm not saying that's easy. It isn't. But it's the only way to get over that hurdle. Hell, a lot of men who do have sexual experience find it hard to find sex here. | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female." Not to mention the fact that the people of fab are looking for good times, with people who know what they are doing and not looking to teach someone with little to no experience. Sorry to be harsh, but that's the reality. People lead busy lives and fab is just part of what they like to do in their free time | |||
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"Car park behind asdas "You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi  | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi "cmon | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi "I'm more of a waitrose gal | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi
I'm more of a waitrose gal"yes but waitrose just don't have the coverage | |||
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"It's not time to make a change Just relax, take it easy You're still young, that's your fault There's so much you have to know Find a girl, settle down If you want you can marry." I best not be the only one who sang this in my head.
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"It's not time to make a change Just relax, take it easy You're still young, that's your fault There's so much you have to know Find a girl, settle down If you want you can marry. I best not be the only one who sang this in my head.
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi
I'm more of a waitrose gal"Oh now that's just showing off | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi
I'm more of a waitrose galyes but waitrose just don't have the coverage "you want coverage !!! co-op! | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi "I prefer a more mature type of lady sucking on the pick and mix in Poundland they can get a bit lively if you want to loose your virginity or your teeth just wear your lucky pants and keep your fingers crossed | |||
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"Car park behind asdas
You snob....most normal people do it beside the bins at Aldi
I'm more of a waitrose galyes but waitrose just don't have the coverage
you want coverage !!! co-op!"yes but seedy | |||
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"In a safe environment with someone trustworthy would be my suggestion, and don’t be in a rush, but I’m sure others es have ideas…" Thanks a lot mate really appreciate | |||
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"With someone you feel comfortable around and trust enough to be patient with you. You can find that on fab if that’s what you think is best for you. Take your time, don’t rush into anything and good luck, OP "Thank you for kind suggestions really appreciated | |||
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"Probably not on fab. Any reason Because it should be with someone you've got to know properly for a while and someone you trust. And might be hard to find that on fab or someone who want to do that on fab. Personally a big no from me and I've been asked by others before." Got it thank you really appreciated ???? | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female." Whats your advice then I am finding it hard to even find someone dating apps are so worst | |||
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"Whats best way for a virgin male to loose its virginity or best place for first time Go to clubs and meet people like you have been doing. " I have started but I feel really ashamed talking to others and telling them I have never done it before most of people's laughs at me so I stop going there | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female. I agree with this. And of course you are going to get the stupid answers, trying to be funny, but actually far from it. Yes. The best thing to do is to try to connect to people, and be yourself. Find someone who wants to connect with you. I'm not saying that's easy. It isn't. But it's the only way to get over that hurdle. Hell, a lot of men who do have sexual experience find it hard to find sex here." Yeah and it's really hard for me as well soon I started the conversation about it and told someone they make fun of it so sometimes I really feel embarrassed | |||
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"Go to Germany to a decent brass house and get it done. You're 28, by this time you've probably worked yourself up about it so much that when you do meet someone you like it will become a major issue for you. I say smash some high class brass and then it doesn't matter how it goes but the barrier is broken. " Appreciated mate will put in my list | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female. Not to mention the fact that the people of fab are looking for good times, with people who know what they are doing and not looking to teach someone with little to no experience. Sorry to be harsh, but that's the reality. People lead busy lives and fab is just part of what they like to do in their free time" Yeah I know I came on fab to come over my nervousness and it's work but some people will make you feel so embarrassed about it that can't be helped | |||
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"It's not time to make a change Just relax, take it easy You're still young, that's your fault There's so much you have to know Find a girl, settle down If you want you can marry." Tbh that's my own thinking as well but it's really hard to find someone and start things going on | |||
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"On a Thursday about 2pm, beside the bins " Hahaha | |||
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"With someone patient and caring." Someone who can understand that it's my first time as well | |||
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"Without pressure from yourself to do it. Fab isn't likely the best place for virgin straight males as people generally are looking for experienced men and it's inherently and extremely difficult place for experienced men to get results here anyway. I think you shouldn't look to Fab to be your solution to losing your virginity OP. It seems a potentially excessively stressful and avoidable additional stress factor for you. You would likely be better focused on developing friendships with others, some of which may ultimately help to culture your adult development. You will benefit from what friends can give you for life. Everyone is welcome here but you will do well to look after your wellbeing overall " Thank you best advice I have find Really appreciated | |||
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"Don't pressure yourself first and foremost, and especially don't rush into losing it to someone you either don't have a connection with (eg a one night stand with someone you've only known an hour from the nightclub dance floor) or even worse, paying a brass. Whilst it may be the "quick and easy" option I gaurantee you'll end up regretting it. Always feel sorry for the poor buggers in Amsterdam chucked into a window cheered on by their mates to "lose it". Whilst I'm not saying lose it to a life partner - if you end up getting serious with her then great - even if it's with someone you care about, emotionally it'll feel so much nicer. I lost mine to a girl I was not really seriously seeing, because I was young, horny and she was wanting to do it. At the time, yes it felt the right thing. In hindsight, we talked maybe once a week, met up for a couple of hours on a weekend. Very causal friends at best. At the time I was also very good friends with another female, a pen pal I saw in person maybe twice a year, and when we had sex a year later it felt totally "right". It wasn't rushed, it wasn't just a spur of the moment thing. It was two people who genuinely cared for each other. " Got it Thanks mate | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female. Whats your advice then I am finding it hard to even find someone dating apps are so worst " My advice is not to look here. It'd be demoralising. Go out with mixed groups for hobbies. Make friends. Be patient. And tell anyone making fun of you for your virginity to get in the bin. | |||
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"Fab is not a kind place to the inexperienced, male or female. Whats your advice then I am finding it hard to even find someone dating apps are so worst My advice is not to look here. It'd be demoralising. Go out with mixed groups for hobbies. Make friends. Be patient. And tell anyone making fun of you for your virginity to get in the bin." This is sound and fantastic advice. One should loose their virginity with someone they either love or who are close freinds with. | |||
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"It's not time to make a change Just relax, take it easy You're still young, that's your fault There's so much you have to know Find a girl, settle down If you want you can marry." I love that song, the duet Ronan did with cat Stevens was really great | |||
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