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Does sex always ruin friendships?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago

When Harry met Sally is my favourite film btw.

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London

I wouldn't say always.

What kind of friendships are you talking about?

I like to think I'm friends with people I'm having regular sex with.

Some of them still chat, even though we don't have sex now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"I wouldn't say always.

What kind of friendships are you talking about?

I like to think I'm friends with people I'm having regular sex with.

Some of them still chat, even though we don't have sex now. "

I guess I mean friendships that are platonic. If you have sex, does that ruin that?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

If you have sex with your friend's husband it tends to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Not always.

I had sex with someone i’m friends with. It was just a one time thing and it’s never been a problem in our friendship since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"If you have sex with your friend's husband it tends to ... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago


"Not always.

I had sex with someone i’m friends with. It was just a one time thing and it’s never been a problem in our friendship since. "
oh no way. Like you still bros now?

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London


"I wouldn't say always.

What kind of friendships are you talking about?

I like to think I'm friends with people I'm having regular sex with.

Some of them still chat, even though we don't have sex now.

I guess I mean friendships that are platonic. If you have sex, does that ruin that? "

I suppose it can. It will definitely change the dynamic of the relationship, but that doesn't mean it will ruin it.

It depends on the people and how they feel about someone they have sex with.

will it bring them closer and feelings develop?

Could that cause problems or make the friendship bond stronger.

Before indulging in a sexual relationship with a platonic friend I'd have a serious, long conversation.

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By *ssexfun69Couple
24 weeks ago

Southend

We have sex regularly with a mutual friend it’s always horny

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Not always.

I had sex with someone i’m friends with. It was just a one time thing and it’s never been a problem in our friendship since. oh no way. Like you still bros now?"

Well, yeah

Nothing changed, really. We still interact with each other like we did before it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Not always.

I’ve never had sex with my best friend. It would change our friendship in a way we do not fancy.

I do have a friend who I’ve known for over three decades. We’ve ebbed and flowed from platonic to friends with benefits. We can do so without negative changes to our friendship. We are complimentary to one another in personalities which I reckon makes it possible for us to remain friends and shag, as well as go between both without animosity.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

For me, a person who has relationships in particular boxes it would change it. Not necessarily for the worse but it would be different and I don't think I could revert to how it was before.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
24 weeks ago

Aberdeen

With some I think it would but I have slept with one of my friends and it literally makes no difference at all to our friendship.

We are still the same now as we always have been.

Maybe because they are female is why it is fine?

Maybe a male would be a different result?

MrsAbz

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By *idlandiaMan
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

Many years ago I was friends with a lady from work for years, nothing sexy asides a little light flirting from time to time.

Then she started getting weird around me which went on for a couple of months of her increasingly being distant before I finally asked what I'd done wrong by txt (because I'm brave like that...)

She replied she was coming over, then explained that she kept thinking about having sex with me and it was weirding her out. Few days later she called in again and suggested we "do it, have that uuugh moment and get over it" her words not mine.

Well I was up for it and spent the rest of the day and night in bed with me.

It worked, her urge taken care of and we went back to being close friends again for a good few more years.

So that's a long way of saying sometimes sex can save a friendship.

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By *armandwet50Couple
24 weeks ago

Far far away

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By *armandwet50Couple
24 weeks ago

Far far away

If you're having anal sex with your friends mother it might

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By *angria_girlukWoman
24 weeks ago

LUTON


"If you have sex with your friend's husband it tends to ... "

Depends on of they are open/swingers or not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you have sex with your friend's husband it tends to ...

Depends on of they are open/swingers or not.

"

Well, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"With some I think it would but I have slept with one of my friends and it literally makes no difference at all to our friendship.

We are still the same now as we always have been.

Maybe because they are female is why it is fine?

Maybe a male would be a different result?

MrsAbz"

I think it really just depends on the kind of relationship you have with them, rather than their gender.

I made the mistake of having sex with a female friend. It got really messy and we’re no longer friends.

I’d also like to mention that I don’t make a habit of having sex with all my friends

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
24 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"With some I think it would but I have slept with one of my friends and it literally makes no difference at all to our friendship.

We are still the same now as we always have been.

Maybe because they are female is why it is fine?

Maybe a male would be a different result?

MrsAbz

I think it really just depends on the kind of relationship you have with them, rather than their gender.

I made the mistake of having sex with a female friend. It got really messy and we’re no longer friends.

I’d also like to mention that I don’t make a habit of having sex with all my friends "

Perhaps it is just down to personality and how you view sex rather than gender then?

Haha, I believe you... wanna be friends just in case though

MrsAbz

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
24 weeks ago

North West

Hmmmmm. I don't know. I've not had sex with that many friends tbh. It might or it might not.

That's my helpful contribution to proceedings

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

Not if there is good communication about future exoectations and they align

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London


"When Harry met Sally is my favourite film btw. "

A man of exquisite taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"With some I think it would but I have slept with one of my friends and it literally makes no difference at all to our friendship.

We are still the same now as we always have been.

Maybe because they are female is why it is fine?

Maybe a male would be a different result?

MrsAbz

I think it really just depends on the kind of relationship you have with them, rather than their gender.

I made the mistake of having sex with a female friend. It got really messy and we’re no longer friends.

I’d also like to mention that I don’t make a habit of having sex with all my friends

Perhaps it is just down to personality and how you view sex rather than gender then?

Haha, I believe you... wanna be friends just in case though

MrsAbz "

Yes!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
24 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"With some I think it would but I have slept with one of my friends and it literally makes no difference at all to our friendship.

We are still the same now as we always have been.

Maybe because they are female is why it is fine?

Maybe a male would be a different result?

MrsAbz

I think it really just depends on the kind of relationship you have with them, rather than their gender.

I made the mistake of having sex with a female friend. It got really messy and we’re no longer friends.

I’d also like to mention that I don’t make a habit of having sex with all my friends

Perhaps it is just down to personality and how you view sex rather than gender then?

Haha, I believe you... wanna be friends just in case though

MrsAbz

Yes! "

Oh yay, this is shaping up to be a marvellous Thursday

MrsAbz

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By *ycanNightsMan
24 weeks ago

Workington

Nah...

You can't ruin an ice cream with chocolate sprinkles...

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By *ycanNightsMan
24 weeks ago

Workington

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