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How hard is it to be able to arrange a threesome with two woman

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Suffolk

How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy

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By *ingpot!Man
40 weeks ago

West Cork

HARRRRRRRRD

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Id say extremely difficult if you're a single man. It's difficult if you're a couple to find a single lady to join you, let alone a man finding 2 willing ladies.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
40 weeks ago

Bradford


"Id say extremely difficult if you're a single man. It's difficult if you're a couple to find a single lady to join you, let alone a man finding 2 willing ladies."

Oh ruby don't take you love to town

its difficult for everyone in finding what you want here at times .

But it does happen . never say never

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By *jlondon78 OP   Man
40 weeks ago

Suffolk

I belive this is tbe case ive given myself a time line then i think its time to except it wasn't ment to be

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By *ony-JonesMan
40 weeks ago

Gillingham

very rare that's if you have your own women to start with, double unicorn, really.

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By *ornucopiaMan
40 weeks ago

Bexley


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "

Very easy, if you think outside the Fab box.

Oh,and have your wallet at the ready.

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By *andadbodMan
40 weeks ago

Liverpool

Done it once years ago with my mrs and another women from a different website (talking over 20 years ago now), we both agreed afterwards that having an extra fella instead was far better than an extra women.

If you enjoy watching two women play together then you’ll probably think different, but it did nothing for me and the mrs didn’t really enjoy it either.

Never say never though, your best chance would be to go to a club, arranging one on here? Yeah, would definitely give up that pipe dream.

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By *AYENCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "

It's a lot easier in real life. K.

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By *TG3Man
40 weeks ago

Dorchester


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "
well you know how hard it is for some to organise 1 woman well imagine 2 cmon

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By *irthandgirthMan
40 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I have been very lucky in that all the FFM I have had have been arranged by one of the ladies, or been in clubs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
40 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I had an FFFFFFFM once in a club.

Never again.

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By *cott14Man
40 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy

It's a lot easier in real life. K."

Agreed . Step outside the world of fab . Go to clubs , socials etc . Join KIk groups local to you.

The swinging community is much MUCH more than just this platform

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By *issmorganWoman
40 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's hard because that's what most of fab are after.

The chances of finding 2 bi ladies to play with, who don't know you or each other is always gonna be tough op.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
40 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s not that easy for a couple, I’d say much harder for a single man to sort out!

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By *orthernJayMan
40 weeks ago

Bramhall

Finding FFM on Fab (if you don’t already have a willing female in the first instance), you’d have more chance of winning the lottery than arranging that on here; pure fantasy!

As others have said, have your wallet ready and arrange elsewhere with certain professional women who offer the service; easy enough to find assuming you have the funds.

As an aside, a good female friend of mine paid her mortgage off providing MMF for bisexual male partners and even the odd “gay” male couple who wanted the fantasy.

I thought she was mad when first floating the idea but house and car paid for later, she’s still going strong

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By *ellhungvweMan
40 weeks ago

Cheltenham

The “easiest” way would be to find two couples where hubbies want to watch. That’s nigh on impossible but probably your best bet is in a club.

For what it is worth, one male trying to _properly_ satisfy two women at the same time is difficult. Super difficult. I have done it once and wish I had left it as a fantasy to be honest.

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By *uss15Man
40 weeks ago

Bridgewater


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "

It's hard enough to get a message reply off one woman let alone two or its just I'm to ugly that women don't want to meet up with me we're all here for the same thing fun

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By *ornycougaWoman
40 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Incredibly hard but when the stars align sometimes it just works. Earlier this year I set one up: three messages and she and I met for cocktails to get to know each other and hatch a plan. Met the next day for a FFM. Couldn't believe it! Not expecting that to happen again in my lifetime tho

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
40 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If you meet a woman that likes you and already has female playmates with similar taste that want to share it's not impossible. Though I have to really fucking like someone to consider inflicting them on my friends, and if someone asks for it from the outset before I even know them it's a straight no.

Trying to convince two women that don't know each other and barely know you via the medium of fab? I'd probably scrap that idea.

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By *ingpot!Man
40 weeks ago

West Cork


"The “easiest” way would be to find two couples where hubbies want to watch. That’s nigh on impossible but probably your best bet is in a club.

For what it is worth, one male trying to _properly_ satisfy two women at the same time is difficult. Super difficult. I have done it once and wish I had left it as a fantasy to be honest."

Reeeeally... My wife is looking for work at the moment.. and LOVES bi MMFs

And all this time she's been doing it for free!

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By *iss.BellaWoman
40 weeks ago

Chester

It's difficult for women to find themselves a lady, so I imagine pretty difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Almost mythical.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "

Why would a woman want half your attention?

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By *orthernJayMan
40 weeks ago

Bramhall


"The “easiest” way would be to find two couples where hubbies want to watch. That’s nigh on impossible but probably your best bet is in a club.

For what it is worth, one male trying to _properly_ satisfy two women at the same time is difficult. Super difficult. I have done it once and wish I had left it as a fantasy to be honest."

Totally agree with you, FFM has been my least favourite.

If both women are really into each other then fine as it’s actually FF with a voyeur some of the time; that said, it’s a real challenge to ensure both women are content throughout if they’re both demanding attention.

Perhaps I’m professing my lack of ability or creativity here ……..but I’m in no rush to try FFM again anytime soon!

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By *lack Orchid 0204Man
40 weeks ago

Leeds

Its difficult, not impossible.

Only had one.. it didn't live up to the heights I'd imagined

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By *irthandgirthMan
40 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"The “easiest” way would be to find two couples where hubbies want to watch. That’s nigh on impossible but probably your best bet is in a club.

For what it is worth, one male trying to _properly_ satisfy two women at the same time is difficult. Super difficult. I have done it once and wish I had left it as a fantasy to be honest."

Depends what you mean by at the same time. As in simultaneously, or within the same evening? Never had a problem with the latter.

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By *AYENCouple
40 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"The “easiest” way would be to find two couples where hubbies want to watch. That’s nigh on impossible but probably your best bet is in a club.

For what it is worth, one male trying to _properly_ satisfy two women at the same time is difficult. Super difficult. I have done it once and wish I had left it as a fantasy to be honest."

The OP said FFM suggesting the ladies are bi. In that case the ladies are perfectly capable of properly satisfying each other, the male is often there in a secondary role. I've had loads of FFM's, and have always loved them, but I've never tried to take over or considered myself the star performer.

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By *iddlesticksMan
40 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.


"It’s not that easy for a couple, I’d say much harder for a single man to sort out!"

Oh I wouldn’t say that.

I’ve had three MFFs already this week. I’m dripping in bisexual babes.

Ooh morning, I’ve been having very vivid dreams of late.

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By *oiluvfunMan
37 weeks ago

Penrith


"How hard is it to arrange a ffm threesome dose there come a point when u give up on this fantasy "

If you never have a dream, you'll never have a dream cum true.....

The reality is; you need to find two ladies comfortable enough to get naked in front of each other, who each like you enough that they're happy for you to be the focus of attention, instead of them...

It's not impossible, but it's not common. Keep the faith though, good luck in your search!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Central

Contemplate fab for getting a woman as a single man, compared with the wider world. fab isn't a serious contender for getting 2 women as partners, for a single man, when you grasp the difficulty of just getting 1.

If you met women in the wider swinging world, it could be easier. Maybe.

If I was a single man wanting this, I'd be looking much more widely than a swinging website. It's not impossible here and some men may have it much easier than others. And this could include getting 2 women. But I'd not recommend it as the easiest option for an unknown guy. If you have your dreams, it can be satisfying to pursue them.

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