FabSwingers.com forum: Are you still in touch with people you got to know when you first joined fab.

By *iddlesticks OP Man
36 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

This morning I had a lovely message from a gorgeous soul who was one of the first people who I befriended on fab, way way way back when I was on here as Poetsday.

It was great to be back in touch. It’s easy to lose touch with people, it’s not ghosting it’s just different things come along that veer our courses.

Anyway, just thought I’d share that with you, do you think about your old acquaintances at all?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes. I'm friends on Facey with a few that I've known since around 2012.

One or two are still on here. Some have left and come back, some have migrated from being regular users to lurkers.

But I've made some good friends over the years and am hoping to catch up with a couple at some point this year.

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By *ecky and justCouple
36 weeks ago

Godalming

Just a couple.

Been here since 2014 and most of the people I met have long since gone.

Couple have stayed in touch though.

Some of our earliest friends on our couples profile have become great friends and were part of our recent wedding..

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By *ealitybitesMan
36 weeks ago

Belfast

Two of my best friends, one male, one female are people I met through here years ago.

Neither of them are on the site now but we keep in regular touch.

I also got a message a couple of weeks ago from someone I used to chat to years ago as well.

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By *imisugarWoman
36 weeks ago

Rugby

I am with a few, it's nice to make decent connections and friendship.

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By *exicolaMan
36 weeks ago

West Lothian

Just the one girl. Lovely lass who has moved on with her life and is now living with her partner.

Contact these days is strictly non sexual / fab related. Just general catch ups!

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By *lternative-GuyMan
36 weeks ago

cradley heath

Yeah. I met my ex on fab and we are still friends now.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

Yeah, we're good friends with one of our first meets...

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By *hogun300Man
36 weeks ago

Dundee

Still speak with the mrs - Leiaorgana

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
36 weeks ago

La La Land

That's lovely to hear OP!

I have been very lucky that even after my 5 year absence my Fab friends have welcomed me back with open arms

I saw one of my old Fab friends last weekend who I havent seen in years!! And I'm seeing another one next week

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
36 weeks ago

at work

Yes, one of the first people to message me on fab (once I got my filters sorted!) is now my fwb. He’s not on fab anymore but we still meet regularly and chat frequently.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

No we're not. I don't think we give enough of ourselves away to make proper friends on line and most of the people we met or interacted with have left the site or drifted away. It's difficult for us to get to big organised socials nowadays and that's where a lot of friendships seem to be forged

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I think about some old contact sometimes.

Some I think of very fondly and some I miss.

There’s some still in the forum now from when I first joined, but it’s always been a forum friendship and nothing more than that.

Only one person shown me something can be long term here.

And I do consider her a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Not sure about the very first, but yes still in touch with a few that I have met over time. Even someone that loves bloody hours and hours away but get on well so no reason to lose contact

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes I am. A few actually

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By *atch1982Man
36 weeks ago

Abingdon

Sadly not. Of my two favourites, one went off and got married (how very selfish!

) and the other blocked me after saying that I was too tempting!?!!

Onwards and upwards though, I have some great new friends now

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By *lack Orchid 0204Man
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Not anymore lost touch with the lady a few years ago..

We chatted regularly off site, then a week became a month then a few months and its been so long now itd be very strange texting her out of the blue

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
36 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Yes, one is still an occasional booty call, and another is an actual friend. (6 years)

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We still keep in touch with one of the first couples we met on here.

They moved away a while ago, but recently got in touch to say they were back living in the area. I’m really looking forward to seeing them again!.

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By *herry delightWoman
36 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

The first couple I meet was when I was when I joined fab with my then husband, I have lost contact with them and no longer married.

The first person I met when I joined (12 years ago) as a single woman, I still met up with for some fun.

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes i have 2 that I'm still in touch with

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I joined many years ago and met some lovely people on here. Tbh it became more a social side of my life whereby sex became less important than catching up with what was happening in each others lives.

We all grew apart and some left FS, like myself, others changed usernames or relationship status.

Alas, contact was lost but the happy memories still remain. Although I still find myself wondering how my friends are doing and if they are still managing with their life challenges.

Happy times!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Inaswingdress

from when I first joined the forums moons ago. what a great human.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

2 of the guys I first chatted to I am still in touch with. 1 I see occasionally, the other is just a pen pal.

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By *ommander_StraxMan
36 weeks ago

Telford

A couple of them. Some have moved on with things/life, some wanted different things and drifted. Would love to connect with a few of them again.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
36 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

There's one I got pretty close with on my fb. We don't speak very often now but it's nice to see what they're up to

Mrs TMN x

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By *ustBoWoman
36 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I'm not. I am in contact with people on here that I have known for years but from when I first joined there is no one I still chat to.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
36 weeks ago

wonderland.

"This morning I had a lovely message from a gorgeous soul who was one of the first people who I befriended on fab, way way way back when I was on here as Poetsday.

It was great to be back in touch. It’s easy to lose touch with people, it’s not ghosting it’s just different things come along that veer our courses.

Anyway, just thought I’d share that with you, do you think about your old acquaintances at all?

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I still talk to many people I met back when I first joined x

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By *orny-DJMan
36 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Yes. Still in touch with the first couple I met on fab around 11 years ago

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By *oomlMan
36 weeks ago

Fareham

I recently had a short break from Fab. Thought I had a serious health problem but turned out to be a false alarm. I was on here previously by myself and prior to that with my late wife.

I am still friends with the first couple we met. They don't play any more due to health problems but good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes friends with a couple of people.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

Yes my first ever fwb is stil a fwb.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
36 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When we first joined FAB we were singles and when we got together as a couple we said we wouldn’t mix the people we met sexually before with the people we meet as a couple.

We’ve stayed friends with a couple of people who were just friends.

Bellaseas has been my best friend on here for years, who comes and goes like a stray cat

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By *uriousscouserWoman
36 weeks ago

Wirral

I'm in touch with one of the first few people I chatted to. We WhatsApp every few days.

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By *odgerMooreMan
36 weeks ago

Nowhere

Most of them are dead i think - i thought back to my first ever time on fab and it was 25 years ago. Hoping i get a meet soon ffs!!

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By *izzy.Woman
36 weeks ago

Stoke area

The person who introduced me to this site over 10 years ago, we still message from time to time. Another moved to Wales, but I see him from time to time and a third I've recently started to attend dance fitness classes with. I've known all three for over 10 years and we keep in contact away from Fab.

I'm lucky to have made great friends via this site.

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By *arkus1812Man
36 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I a still exchanging messages with the woman who introduced me to Fab some 13 years ago,

Been a few years since we last met though.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
36 weeks ago

Llanelli

Yes I am, it's lovely having good friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

One was just absolute drama and had some issues

(I spotted him on a forum users veris not long ago!)One was a bit of a stalker and the other was actually alright but I don't think he's about anymore.

So no.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
36 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"One was just absolute drama and had some issues

(I spotted him on a forum users veris not long ago!)One was a bit of a stalker and the other was actually alright but I don't think he's about anymore.

So no.

I think I need reading glasses.

I read that as

the other was actually airtight.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I am still in touch with a few of those I know from aeons past.

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By *AREENATV/TS
36 weeks ago

Dundalk

Yes met quite a few friends that I keep in touch with

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry

i havent been on here that long compared to a lot of you - my bestie is from here and we talk every day - i get people pop back to chat with me who have watched my journey and like to 'keep an eye on me'. apparently my mischief levels appear to have grown ! I put that down to hanging about in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"One was just absolute drama and had some issues

(I spotted him on a forum users veris not long ago!)One was a bit of a stalker and the other was actually alright but I don't think he's about anymore.

So no.

I think I need reading glasses.

I read that as

the other was actually airtight.

A lady never reveals such things fiddles.

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By *iddlesticks OP Man
36 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"i havent been on here that long compared to a lot of you - my bestie is from here and we talk every day - i get people pop back to chat with me who have watched my journey and like to 'keep an eye on me'. apparently my mischief levels appear to have grown ! I put that down to hanging about in chat

I like seeing you hang out.

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"One was just absolute drama and had some issues

(I spotted him on a forum users veris not long ago!)One was a bit of a stalker and the other was actually alright but I don't think he's about anymore.

So no.

I think I need reading glasses.

I read that as

the other was actually airtight.

A lady never reveals such things fiddles."

There are ladies on here?????

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"One was just absolute drama and had some issues

(I spotted him on a forum users veris not long ago!)One was a bit of a stalker and the other was actually alright but I don't think he's about anymore.

So no.

I think I need reading glasses.

I read that as

the other was actually airtight.

A lady never reveals such things fiddles.

There are ladies on here?????"

So I've heard

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Still friends with my first ever meet, keep myself to myself much more these days.

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By *erry bull1Man
36 weeks ago

doncaster

One couple in particular

We still exchange messages but not met for a while

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
36 weeks ago

Bradford

Yep still friends with the people I met when I first came her 11 years ago ffs 11 years ago .

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
36 weeks ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Yes

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By *atch1982Man
36 weeks ago

Abingdon

I’d like to think that all meets will become friends of some description, but I doubt that is the case x

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes

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By *ips of a witchWoman
36 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I joined just before the first lockdown on a different profile. There were lots of groups set up on Kik and Telegram and i made some wonderful friends through that. We don't chat as often these days though.

In terms of meets, I don't chat to anyone.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
36 weeks ago

somewhere

No one from when I first joined in 2014 but from 2015 I do, I mean I married him lol x

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By *agerMorganMan
36 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Eh not really. Haven’t seen her post or comment in a long LONG while.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
36 weeks ago

Someplace

Nope

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By *hrek101Man
36 weeks ago

Herts

My closest friend in the first person I met here 5 years ago.

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By *inxy777Woman
36 weeks ago

essex

Yeah a few x

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes, a couple of them xo

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By *issBellaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wales

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By *issBellaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wales

"Yes a few, although only a couple that I'm speaking to regularly. Some have moved on but others are still around

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By *mizhereMan
36 weeks ago

Thame area

Those that remain here are still friends

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
36 weeks ago

Merseyside

Yes we are and consider them friends

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

No.joined in 2012..originally..nope not seen any original people

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By *EAT..85Woman
36 weeks ago

Nottingham

I catch up with my old favourites from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I don't, no. One of them is the one that got away. We could have been distant fwbs but I messed up

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By *parkle1974Woman
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes. The very 1st person I met all those years ago and I are still in touch regularly x

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
36 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I was.

She’s left my last communication unread for days now though.

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By *weetkitten65Woman
36 weeks ago

Halifax

Yes,guy who got me into Fab, plus couple of people I met on my Fab journey..

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chichester

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By *ustlooking26096Man
36 weeks ago

around

Yes i am, of first 4 ladies i met i still see 3 & still chat to all 4

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Yes, occasionally I get a message from one of about four very old contacts on WhatsApp asking for cock or sending me tits or asking me for general life advice and promising we must meet up again soon…

It’s actually really sweet and never fails to bring a warm smile to my heart

Some people you just click with no matter how long it’s been

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