FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback

By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback

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By *eiaorganaWoman
31 weeks ago

Dundee

Use the search function, there are many threads on it

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By *ill12369Man
31 weeks ago

knutsford chesh

Much prefer bareback with tested people

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By *ompovatorX24Man
31 weeks ago

Wembley

Why do yiu

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By *ill12369Man
31 weeks ago

knutsford chesh

"Why do yiu"

With couples its good to share and clean eachother during and after

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Bareback for us only happens with people we really know tested and we are comfortable with..

Mrs..

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Bareback for us is only between us. Some things we don't want to share and bareback is one of the ways we reclaim.

But if anyone prefers bareback with others then that's cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Good to see some sensible posts on here.

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By *ucka39Man
31 weeks ago

Newcastle

Sticking with safe then I know who to avoid

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By *crman21Man
31 weeks ago

Manchester

"Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback "

It’s the best especially when you make the hubby clean it up

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By *ill12369Man
31 weeks ago

knutsford chesh

"Bareback for us only happens with people we really know tested and we are comfortable with..

Mrs..

Love the clean up

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By *igone40Man
31 weeks ago

harlow

As long as tested much prefer bareback

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

Loving the answers and thank people for there sensible answers

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

For us we just love the feel of bareback and always have but respect others who like to play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Horses for courses and all that. We never judge

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

"Horses for courses and all that. We never judge

That’s exactly it and as long as you test regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Would I use a cock in my body that has been around bed posts and said they have been tested but lie.

If a cock has been dipped in many holes without protection you not for me op.

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By *issmorganWoman
31 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's only something I'd do with my partner, not with anyone from here.

If others what to do it, that's their choice, I presume they have weighed up the risks.

At least if they're upfront about it, you can avoid people who do want bareback if it's not for you.

When I was single I used to get men who would try for bare and say oh I'd only meet you. Not a chance mate, if you do it with me, you'd do it with other people.

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By *imply DeeWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever

Hard no from me.

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

"It's only something I'd do with my partner, not with anyone from here.

If others what to do it, that's their choice, I presume they have weighed up the risks.

At least if they're upfront about it, you can avoid people who do want bareback if it's not for you.

When I was single I used to get men who would try for bare and say oh I'd only meet you. Not a chance mate, if you do it with me, you'd do it with other people. "

It is our preference but we also play safe to respect the ones we play with, it’s not a must

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands

Although it feels better, I'd find it too risky myself, so it's not for me.

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By *hoirCouple
31 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback "

Barebsck is for us and us alone. We have debated it if we had a third though but only if certain criteria was met.

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By *lex4660Man
31 weeks ago

Thame

Bareback is MUCH my preference but ideally with tested people first time and never at saunas. Kev's cool, I trust him & anyway he loses his erection if he puts on a condom

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By *m3232Man
31 weeks ago

maidenhead

Myself it’s a no. Not worth the risk.

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple
31 weeks ago

Lingfield

We are a bareback only couple for couple and solo meets

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I’d love to see my wife fucked bareback for sure.

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By *andC1000Couple
31 weeks ago

Ashford

Our preference if everyone happy and always happy to test in advance of any possible meets if been pre arranged

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

"Our preference if everyone happy and always happy to test in advance of any possible meets if been pre arranged "

That’s kind of how we feel about it, as long as everyone is happy

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

When people say test. What tests do you actually get done?

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By *tylebender03Man
31 weeks ago

Manchester

Sometimes I wear two condoms and can’t feel anything, but at least I’m safe.

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By *orbidden eastMan
31 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

This will only happen with trusted people I know and of course we are both tested to give us both confident.

And let’s face it, you know, it’s the best

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By *ornycougaWoman
31 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Bb exclusive with one person only. As others have said, it's not worth the risk even with regular testing a lot of people fuck a lot of other people between tests

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
31 weeks ago

chichester

"Sometimes I wear two condoms and can’t feel anything, but at least I’m safe. "

Sometimes I take my knights templar shield and brace myself before entry just to be more secure

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By *andC1000Couple
31 weeks ago

Ashford

"Our preference if everyone happy and always happy to test in advance of any possible meets if been pre arranged

That’s kind of how we feel about it, as long as everyone is happy

That’s the main thing

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
31 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Don’t say it…

Russian roulette.

God… I feel much better.

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By *dc1Man
31 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

The test is only as good as the day the test was carried out. Who knows who that person was with the next day and if they had something. If so its being passed on with a negative test result. Nope its not for me

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By *nt1845Man
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes - and yes fully tested

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By *ggdrasil66Man
31 weeks ago

Saltdean

Not going bareback with anyone I meet on here, even though I am a Jaffa. Too risky!

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By *allipygousMan
31 weeks ago

Leicester

So do folk carry around their certificates that give them the all clear? Do they present their all clear text from the GUM clinic before shagging? How long after the date of the certificate/text is it acceptable to shag? How do they prove they've had no sexual contact between the date of said certificate/text and you? So many questions...

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
31 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Bareback for us is only between us. Some things we don't want to share and bareback is one of the ways we reclaim.

But if anyone prefers bareback with others then that's cool too

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we are the same. Although will tend to avoid those that do bare with others a lot regularly...more as we guess we won't be compatible...

Cali

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By *elboy1978Man
31 weeks ago

Fellgate

Would only do bareback if I trusted the person and talked about it first

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By *AYENCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Tests really mean nothing, so only with a trusted, regular partner. K.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
31 weeks ago

Bristol

"Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback "

Bareback plus PrEP & regular testing works for many. It’s safe.

I’m belt & braces, so I trust to PrEP & condoms.

Have to rely on regular testing for the oral STIs (syphilis, gonorrhoea, etc.) as (almost) no one uses condoms and dams for oral.

We can get syph from kissing (if there’s a mouth chancre), so it’s all risk, of course.

Everyone on here should be testing, but there is such a thing as lower risk bareback, thanks to PrEP.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
31 weeks ago

Cumbria

With each other, yes!

With people from here? No chance.

We get messages on a daily basis from ‘straight’ single males who are really bi but don’t want to put people off, the risk is not worth it. What else are they lying about?

Fair play to you if you want to take that risk but not for us.

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By *owestoft ManMan
31 weeks ago

Lowestoft

lol

When you talk to many on here and other sites they all say Safe only on their profiles but then it comes out the do plenty of Bareback.

I'm divorced now but the Ex and I always did BB. Both lived full lives and experienced so many ups and downs so when we decided swinging was something we wanted to go along with we decided life deserves the best. So BB was the best thing for us. At first always with couples only and then went in for only men due to many different reasons. In all the time we played around we only ever got Chlamydia and found very quickly it was with a couple we had met a few times who insisted on only going with couples and females. After that we pretty much always did single or more preferably married men. The fact that we only ever got Chlamydia was probably more to do with luck but such is most things in life. Spoken to many who use condoms all the time and noted many got all sorts of STI's. Condoms don't keep you safe lol just safer and the best sex is always without wrapped cocks.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
31 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"The test is only as good as the day the test was carried out. Who knows who that person was with the next day and if they had something. If so its being passed on with a negative test result. Nope its not for me"

Not strictly true, a full screen is good, but some infections such as syphilis and HIV can have a 3 week to a 3 month incubation period, so a negative test is only 100% reliable for 3 months prior to a negative test

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

It's not for me

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By *-ChelmoMan
31 weeks ago

Chelmsford/Edmonton

Enjoyable when it’s with your SO. Have always been a bit cautious with it with couples I’ve played with but have in the past. No qualms about joining a bareback couple but me playing safe. Only fair after all to respect others wishes/health.

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By *ee04Man
31 weeks ago

Essex

I think we all would prefare bareback, we all know it feels better.

However would I do it no, it’s not worth the risk.

I have been to events were I have seen people men and woman bounce from one to the other not knowing or asking who’s been tested.

After seeing what I’ve seen it’s not for me.

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By *aughtyhub80Man
31 weeks ago

Wallasey

Bareback and breeding is best

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By *ete_wifeCouple
31 weeks ago

suffield

bare

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

Loving all the replies and it’s good to hear all the different opinions.

We completely understand all the concerns and they are all valid

Ourselves have only played BB once since we have joins the swinging world and that was with tests before, and knowing the couple

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester

Love these threads as they help me know who to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We never play bareback test or not a 3 week old test means nothing

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
31 weeks ago

Essex

"Love these threads as they help me know who to avoid

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By *amesnplanesMan
31 weeks ago

Banbridge and Dublin

There's more to worry about in life than the ins and outs of this.

I'd prefer to meet with folks who play bare compared to others with a substance interest!

It's all about making informed choices and mitigating the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Please at least get vaccinated against Hepatitis A, Hepatitis B and HPV, in addition to taking PREP anyone that likes to bareback

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback

Bareback plus PrEP & regular testing works for many. It’s safe.

I’m belt & braces, so I trust to PrEP & condoms.

Have to rely on regular testing for the oral STIs (syphilis, gonorrhoea, etc.) as (almost) no one uses condoms and dams for oral.

We can get syph from kissing (if there’s a mouth chancre), so it’s all risk, of course.

Everyone on here should be testing, but there is such a thing as lower risk bareback, thanks to PrEP. "

How many of the 30 odd STD's out there does PrEP work against?

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By *ripfillMan
31 weeks ago

havant

“Better safe than sorry” if you have multiple meets the chance if becoming a super spreader becomes more mathematically problematic

If you are a trusted FWB and you have a trusted dialogue then the real deal is always better

If in doubt wear a condom

*Good facts are given on here too, in this thread above.

In my view,

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By *ah HumbugMan
31 weeks ago

here and there

Only when wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'd go bareback with any of you because I already know anyone on Fabs isn't having sex.

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By *HICKCHOCMan
31 weeks ago

Motorwayroadtrip

I love bareback xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"I'd go bareback with any of you because I already know anyone on Fabs isn't having sex.

Is that so. I got fucked last night

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Having a search for people that do bareback and obviously tested, let’s see what people think of bareback

Bareback plus PrEP & regular testing works for many. It’s safe.

I’m belt & braces, so I trust to PrEP & condoms.

Have to rely on regular testing for the oral STIs (syphilis, gonorrhoea, etc.) as (almost) no one uses condoms and dams for oral.

We can get syph from kissing (if there’s a mouth chancre), so it’s all risk, of course.

Everyone on here should be testing, but there is such a thing as lower risk bareback, thanks to PrEP.

How many of the 30 odd STD's out there does PrEP work against?

Maybe Sydney uni knows

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

Sex without using precautions is asking for trouble safe or no safe.

Unprotected sex is a no show for me even though I am nhs safe and cannot get pregnant.

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By *amhorniestMan
31 weeks ago

Surrey

What's the point of risking getting a disease?, especially the ones with no cure

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