FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Location Accuracy

By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

Does it matter?

I've just been called a liar because my actual location is about 3 miles away from the real location (discretionary purposes).

I find it a bit harsh due to the accusers location being "East London", which could cover approximately 350 Square Miles.

Am I in the wrong here? What's the fab view on this?

Cheers,

Alan

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
31 weeks ago

Leeds

I never give my location out, it's irrelevant, there's too many weirdos on here.

Mrs

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By *ora the explorerWoman
31 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. Mines nowhere near correct.

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"I never give my location out, it's irrelevant, there's too many weirdos on here.

Mrs "

That's what I thought. The accusers reaction definitely seemed over the top given the typical relevance the location seems to have

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"No. Mines nowhere near correct. "

Your photos would disagree, looks like paradise to me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Nope not entirely accurate.

We don’t want to put exact and if several miles makes a difference to someone then they aren’t really a consideration anyway.

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"Nope not entirely accurate.

We don’t want to put exact and if several miles makes a difference to someone then they aren’t really a consideration anyway.

It was more being called a liar that annoyed me I think. I could have put a wider location (borough, county etc.), but thought a couple of miles would be OK.

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By *ealitybitesMan
31 weeks ago

Belfast

My actual location is an hour away from what it says on my profile.

It's nobody's business where I live.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

But if an over reaction from said person imho, as long as it’s descriptive of a generalised area I think it’s fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
31 weeks ago

East Sussex

We recently changed ours to a wider area. I think it's wise to keep certain things vague on the net. We spend ages warning our kids of giving out too much personal information then ignore the warnings ourselves, it seems crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

If they don’t like your explanation as to why you put whatever location you put then it’s their problem, just move on and find someone else on your wavelength

I’m not actually in Bath either, although I am soon to be the true Lord of Bath…

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I would say that the person who is accusing you is simply goading you for their own motives, whatever they are.

It's no one's business to know your exact location.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
31 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Location 3 miles out? Blimey.

OP I think you dodged a bullet there.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

My location is completely accurate, when taken as an aspiration.

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"Location 3 miles out? Blimey.

OP I think you dodged a bullet there. "

My thoughts exactly

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"My location is completely accurate, when taken as an aspiration.

I may take some inspiration from this

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By *mmaleiaWoman
31 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Mines about 10 miles out

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'm not from Birmingham put it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'm actually in Scotland but shuuush don't tell anyone

Seriously, I wouldn't give my exact postcode location, because of the nutters/ weirdos on here.

I'm in the Southwest that's good enough

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
31 weeks ago

Central

Unless someone is given a meeting address that's inaccurate, then there are no guarantees of anything, as so many technical constraints will influence things

If a guy just has enough bus fare for a short trip, he may be better off improving his stamina, through regular exercise.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

My location is wrong, on purpose.

A guy argued with me once as it showed on his I was 5 miles away, it wouldn't believe me that I wasn't.

I never look at locations though.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
31 weeks ago

Sheffield

No it’s not relevant to me. I don’t put my actual postcode. I only attend clubs so don’t use fab for arranging meets.

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By *undee2Man
31 weeks ago

Dundee

My post code is SW1A 1AA. Nobody would guess where I live

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By *oxy jWoman
31 weeks ago

somerset

my location on fab is correct however i never show up in my location as im always connected via vpn and i use that to stop those who use the whos near ...nothing more creepy than a message saying het im only a mile away erm no your noy lol

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By *alcon77Man
31 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"Does it matter?

I've just been called a liar because my actual location is about 3 miles away from the real location (discretionary purposes).

I find it a bit harsh due to the accusers location being "East London", which could cover approximately 350 Square Miles.

Am I in the wrong here? What's the fab view on this?

Cheers,

Alan"

No you're not in the wrong.

I don't live in the centre of Manchester, but I'm pretty near.

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By *ookie46Woman
31 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I postcode squat nowhere near where I live

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By *eroLondonMan
31 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"I'm not from Birmingham put it that way

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Yes I recall finding out the hard way. Next time I may as well probe you for the best pie and mash shop in Pieminster!

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd be more worried about people who are so blasé that they put their actual location. (As above, I live sort of in Manchester. And my set postcode is a few miles away. Too many fucking weirdos)

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
31 weeks ago

Lanson

Mines pretty fluid as I update it with my work movements - when "at home" it's pretty close...

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
31 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

OP, you’ll find most of the women aren’t where they say they are, their sense of direction is terrible.

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

"OP, you’ll find most of the women aren’t where they say they are, their sense of direction is terrible.

Lol

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By *atchmo OP Man
31 weeks ago

Upminster

Thanks to all for reinforcing my belief that I wasn't being perniciously misleading

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