FabSwingers.com forum: Which one are you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

Are you a listener or a talker?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends who you are, most people I stand there thinking “ hurry the fuck up and shut up, so I can fuck off.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Depends who you are, most people I stand there thinking “ hurry the fuck up and shut up, so I can fuck off.

The mr "

Ditto..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Depends who you are, most people I stand there thinking “ hurry the fuck up and shut up, so I can fuck off.

The mr

Ditto..

The fact you replied with a one word answer is genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Listener, I rarely find anything to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Listener.

I like to know things, I prefer people not to know things about me.

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands

It depends how many drinks I've had.

Usually I much prefer to listen though. Two ears and 1 mouth..

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By *unguy1233Man
36 weeks ago

kent

I’m definitely a listener

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By *ealitybitesMan
36 weeks ago

Belfast

Both.

With some people I'm a talker because I'm relaxed in their company.

With some I'm a listener because I'm relaxed in their company.

With others I can be both at the same time but often because I'm talking to prevent them from doing so.

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By *onny DangerousMan
36 weeks ago

Nowhere Town Aycliffe

I’m a listener, primarily due to my autism, so conversations are really difficult.

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Both

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
36 weeks ago

Wales

Listener.

I can be a talker with the right conditions. It's nice to be with someone who genuinely listens, and shows signs of clear interest in what you have to say.

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By *dam1971Man
36 weeks ago

Bedford

"Listener.

I can be a talker with the right conditions. It's nice to be with someone who genuinely listens, and shows signs of clear interest in what you have to say. "

Exactly this. Too often people seem like they’re listening, but really they’re just thinking about what to say next. I don’t want to open up to them.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
36 weeks ago

Wherever

Listener. That one you would want to tell me all your darkest secrets and they will stay safe with me, no judgement.

I rarely ever talk.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
36 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Are you a listener or a talker? "

50/50

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By *hismMan
36 weeks ago

Ballygonowhere

One mouth and two ears,nature reminding me it's better to listen than to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Listener

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By *lik and PaulCouple
36 weeks ago

cahoots

Definitely more of a listener

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By *tuOnePlumMan
36 weeks ago

Guildford

Start as a listener....become a talker when I have a measure of the situation..."Better to Remain Silent and Be Thought a Fool than to Speak and Remove All Doubt"

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By *ellhungvweMan
36 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Loving the fact that the only people talking on this thread are the listeners.

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By *ilyandronCouple
36 weeks ago

Bristol

What did you say ?

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By *laytime_13Woman
36 weeks ago

Lincs

I can waffle on for Britain, you know I like you if you can’t get me to shut up

but I also love to listen too, people are fascinating

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands

"Loving the fact that the only people talking on this thread are the listeners."

The thread would be closed by now if the talkers were awake

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By *issBellaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wales

Both, well I try to be.

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By *iddlesticksMan
36 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m afraid I’m a talker, and most of my talk is nonsense or as they say in some of the more notable academic institutions, bollocks.

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By *ripfillMan
36 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Speak up at the back ! …

Listener ?

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By *rmsmopsCouple
36 weeks ago

Dublin

Both more listeners than talkers

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By *SCouple81Couple
36 weeks ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Mrs is a listener and Mr is definitely talking far too much

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

"Are you a listener or a talker? "

I'd say more listener ... though sometimes that's because I can't get a word in edgeways lol...

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By *educing_EmCouple
36 weeks ago

Tipperary

I'm both, depending on the person and the situation.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
36 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Probably the fourth option!

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
36 weeks ago

east coast

Both for us both

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
36 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Listener first

Talker when I have something the other person wants or needs to hear or I am giving feedback on a purchase or I want to express pleasure or I am buying something over the phone or typing into the ether. If I just listened on here that would be quite odd...... Hellloooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"Are you a listener or a talker?

I'd say more listener ... though sometimes that's because I can't get a word in edgeways lol... "

Oh yeh, someone once said I was a quit lad… my friends laughed their asses off. But that’s because I can be myself with them.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
36 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Listener, though I'm also a forgetful listener, so will often need things to be repeated. That said, with the rights stimulus I can be quite the talker... it takes skills to get me to that point though.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I'm a listener... I'm an awkward talker at all times

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards

Empathetic brutalist, across both.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

"Are you a listener or a talker?

I'd say more listener ... though sometimes that's because I can't get a word in edgeways lol...

Oh yeh, someone once said I was a quit lad… my friends laughed their asses off. But that’s because I can be myself with them.

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By *J the bullMan
36 weeks ago

Washington

My donkey is in a wheelchair. But I love to listen as well

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

A bit of neither

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
36 weeks ago

Southampton

"My donkey is in a wheelchair. But I love to listen as well

I was about to say huh ? But then I got it

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over

I definately talk if I have something relevant to say but can only really do that if you carefully listen in the first place. So I will say a listener who talks.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

It depends, I can be both, as an extravagant talker but I'll opt for listener. My wisdom has largely really helped

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

I just talk, nobody else has anything to say that's more important that my opinion and I don't care if they do. Also if I stop talking I might have my views challenged and the futility of my life will become clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Listener, until they start branching off into different mini stories, then I switch off.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I suppose I'm mostly a listener. I don't really tend to dominate conversations but happy to just let them talk and interject when needed

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
36 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

Bit of both really

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
36 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"Are you a listener or a talker? "

Both

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By *J the bullMan
36 weeks ago

Washington

"My donkey is in a wheelchair. But I love to listen as well

I was about to say huh ? But then I got it

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London

Talker

But good observer

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By *aseylee324Couple
36 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Listener. I'm an introvert

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
36 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Listener, I don't really like the sound of my own voice.

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By *histlerMan
36 weeks ago

Guildford

I’m more of a listener. Saving my wise words for choice moments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
36 weeks ago

"My donkey is in a wheelchair. But I love to listen as well

I was about to say huh ? But then I got it

*Tried to click to the comment section….

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
36 weeks ago

Bradford

"Are you a listener or a talker? "

Both

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
36 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Both.

Sometimes I'm with someone who wants to talk. Sometimes I'm with someone who wants to listen.

And there are times when I only want one or the other myself.

I'm probably more of a listener overall. But I'll also waffle and word vomit someone's ear off if that's the mood in that moment.

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By *andy CanesWoman
36 weeks ago

candy cane lane

Listener I think I got that kind of face people tell me there problems/life story

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By *offiaCoolWoman
36 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

"Speak up at the back ! …

Listener ?"

Listener ? Really ? with or without a phone in your hand

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