FabSwingers.com forum: OMG I’m nervous

By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.

I’m in the privileged position in meeting her for a social tomorrow and now the nerves are really kicking in, which is unusual for me with socials as I’m generally quite a confident guy….. so any words of wisdom on nerve control would be gratefully appreciated

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
32 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Just try to enjoy the nerves. They mean you actually give a damn. And you actually want this woman. They’re a good sign.

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By *andy CanesWoman
32 weeks ago

south

It’s just a social op don’t think to much about it

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By *agnar73Man
32 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms

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By *aizyWoman
32 weeks ago

west midlands

Don't worry about the nerves OP we all get nervous, just enjoy yourself!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
32 weeks ago

Bradford

"So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.

You do make me laugh talk to yourself . if you conect. With this woman do you have skills to give this woman what she needs .

If you do then belive in yourself

Women are turn by a confident man .you know what she can give you its up to you to make her see the man you are .

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
32 weeks ago

North West

I'd be honest with her and tell her you're nervous. It's a normal reaction. She might be too.

Best of luck, I hope it goes brilliantly.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
32 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Just turn up! Don’t bottle it

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By *ife NinjaMan
32 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Just be yourself. It's normal to be a bit nervous. No expectations and good luck

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By *avexxMan
32 weeks ago

cheshire

your the modfather turn up like sting ace face dapper cool and confident,, kidding you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Nice warm bath and don’t over think things

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
32 weeks ago

Essex

Tell her you’re nervous.

If she doesn’t understand, or doesn’t think it’s a really lovely flattering thing, then she has no heart. Good filter.

Good luck. And have a wonderful social xxx

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By *arla SwingerWoman
32 weeks ago

Somewhere

Don't spit your drink in her face, or piss your pants in panic... You'll be grand!

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By *ad HardcoreMan
32 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...

[Removed by poster at 14/04/24 19:04:16]

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By *WB85Man
32 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Relax and enjoy!!!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
32 weeks ago

Southampton

"Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms "

They're no good if you want something to work straight away... they generally need to be taken for a week or two before they start to. Work

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By *avexxMan
32 weeks ago

cheshire

"Don't spit your drink in her face, or piss your pants in panic... You'll be grand!

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By *ad HardcoreMan
32 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...

Try to score some beta blockers.

Or a tiny wee bit of ketamine.

Or .

If she doesn't fall for you when you turn up stoned as fuck, I can assure you...

It's not you, it's her

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By *eliWoman
32 weeks ago

Oh OP this is such a lovely thread!

Talk to her and be honest. I imagine she'll feel touched and flattered and like to have the chance to put your nerves to rest.

Nerves are good. It's a way of telling you this means something to you and you're looking forward to it. Try and reframe it as nervous excited energy - that's a positive way of handling them.

Best of luck OP, x

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
32 weeks ago

Merseyside

Enjoy! Sounds like a good sign if you are nervous - it will be fine when you get there

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Don't overthink things because that's weird, unwanted, and not at all endearing.

You're both there to suss each other out (or maybe not, maybe you're both there because it's mutually convenient and public and gets the awks out the way.)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
32 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Don't spit your drink in her face, or piss your pants in panic... You'll be grand!

Hey, don’t kink shame. Some people might like that sort of thing.

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By *emidemiWoman
32 weeks ago

basingstoke

Aww, she’s probably feeling a bit nervous too! Just remember to take a deep breath, and just go with the flow.

Good luck xx

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By *itygamesMan
32 weeks ago

Give yaself a full valet , nose trim , eyebrow trim , ear trim ,nail trim ,clean shaved face , fresh breath , (pop a smint in under ya tongue) expensive aftershave , freshly washed and ironed smart clothes , polish ya shoes....

Look good means ya feel good means ya confidence is high.

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By *rowley616Man
32 weeks ago

Scarborough

Someones having feelings. Good.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
32 weeks ago

Somewhere

"Don't spit your drink in her face, or piss your pants in panic... You'll be grand!

Hey, don’t kink shame. Some people might like that sort of thing."

I feel that's more an either/or scenario though, no?

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
32 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Just turn up! Don’t bottle it"

And if you are close to bottling it, turn away from distraction, and get a few deep in and out breaths going.

So just get there any way you can, and then be as nervous as you want.

If she's as lovely as you say (and she probably is), she'll likely warm to that honest reaction in you even more.

Try not to fart too badly though

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

At work, when I’m feeling nervous, I just try to imagine the person the other side of the table is naked…

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By *ealitybitesMan
32 weeks ago

Belfast

Whatever you do don't start a thread about it just in case she reads it and she will be doubly nervous then

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By *agnar73Man
32 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms

They're no good if you want something to work straight away... they generally need to be taken for a week or two before they start to. Work "

Oh no.

Maybe the thing for Dihorea then?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
32 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I love the nervous excitement when you’re meeting someone for the first time.

OP it’s just a social and it sounds like you know one another well enough to know you’ll at least have a laugh. She’ll be feeling the same as you right now too.

Have a fab time

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
32 weeks ago

Southampton

"Pop into a pharmacy and get some Kalms

They're no good if you want something to work straight away... they generally need to be taken for a week or two before they start to. Work

Oh no.

Maybe the thing for Dihorea then?"

Yeah lol immodium instants

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Just be yourself, it's got you this far and you have obviously made an impression on her. Good luck

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By *urry BlokeMan
32 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Nerves are part of the fun

Don't sweat it

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
32 weeks ago

Essex

Good luck today x

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By *hriscooperMan
32 weeks ago

Warrington

The nerves are a great feeling, and like what's already been said, it means you have created a connection.

Having a connection like that means that if things go the way you want, the sex, kisses and cuddles will be even more amazing!

Enjoy, and keep us informed how it goes..

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

De stress

You suffer from anxiety op?

Put on some chillout music and de stress

Be yourself always

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
32 weeks ago

manchester

"So I’ve been talking to a fantastic lady on here lately, building rapport and flirting lots… she’s really lovely, funny, vivacious,charismatic and sexy as hell.

Don’t put the pussy on a pedestal!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
32 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Just try to enjoy the nerves. They mean you actually give a damn. And you actually want this woman. They’re a good sign. "

This.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
32 weeks ago

London

Adorable! Just the idea of a man nervous in front of me, because of me, turns me on so much. Good luck and please, share with us how things are going

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By *eliWoman
32 weeks ago

Best of luck today OP, enjoy and I hope it's a success, x

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By *imply DeeWoman
32 weeks ago

Wherever

Actually makes a refreshing difference to hear man taking things seriously, and not seeing the whole entitlement attitude some men present.

Good luck OP, and lucky lady to be meeting you for social. Hope it all goes well.

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By *odgerMooreMan
32 weeks ago

Fulwood

Take 6 tbsp syrup of figs , will take your mind off the meeting??

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By *sWyldWoman
32 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I think those nerves are a compliment. I'd be worried if I met someone and didn't feel nervous.

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By *eroLondonMan
32 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Wishing you the best of luck OP! Nerves are the perfect nectar of anticipation and excitement.

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By *2000ManMan
32 weeks ago

Worthing

Nerves should vanish when you both meet. Relax and enjoy her company.

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By *oodmessMan
32 weeks ago

yumsville

Take a jacket, it's going to be windy if not rainy or don't and it'll be an excuse to get take your shirt off

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By *izandpaulCouple
32 weeks ago

merseyside

Nerves and stress are what make life and FAB so exciting.

Embrace them, go with the flow.

Don't expect too much, just have an enjoyable day, if the person is not quite the one that matches the person in your mind, who cares, just have a great time.

Be yourself, be open, laugh and chat about anything, don't try to be something you are not.

If it doesn't work out, chalk it up to one of life's many experiences, stick it in the memory pot and move on to the next adventure.

When the nerves disappear, time to pack it in.

Good luck and have fun.

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By *agnar73Man
32 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Oh it’s not been yet.

If you’re still nervous and it’s a coffee meet get her a double shot to catch up with you (no don’t!)

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By *ex HolesMan
32 weeks ago

Up North

Just imagine her naked and you’ll be fine

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
32 weeks ago

Bradford

Hope we get find out how you get

On .

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By *andy CanesWoman
32 weeks ago

south

"Hope we get find out how you get

On ."

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By *tubbsy85Woman
32 weeks ago

ipswich

It looks like you overcame the nerves

congrats on a successful social

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By *eroLondonMan
32 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Details please, OP, details dear fellow. How was the clandestine interlude?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
32 weeks ago

Coventry

yes please tell - hopefully you both had an amazing time

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By *omeon!Man
32 weeks ago

Bristol

I recently met up with a fantastic Lady and was so nervous I couldn’t get hard and felt terrible.

Hopefully we will meet again and with nerves over get to it

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By *TG3Man
32 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Adorable! Just the idea of a man nervous in front of me, because of me, turns me on so much. Good luck and please, share with us how things are going

"
really omg i can't message you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
32 weeks ago

Thanks all for the nice messages of support….. I did use some of the advice given and was very much appreciated.

It went very well

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
32 weeks ago

London

"Thanks all for the nice messages of support….. I did use some of the advice given and was very much appreciated.

It went very well

According to your verification it was fantastic. Glad for you

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
32 weeks ago

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Awww just saw this thread, was going to wish you all the best and to just be yourself as nerves are normal but seems it went well? How exciting!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
32 weeks ago

Bradford

"Thanks all for the nice messages of support….. I did use some of the advice given and was very much appreciated.

It went very well

Well done according to your verfication you did what I says on the tin .to you belive in yourself .

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

By the way the op was describing all women of fab.

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By *ympha LuxuriaWoman
25 weeks ago

La La Land

After a couple of months of waiting patiently, the day has finally come. Butterflies are fluttering like crazy this morning and I feel physically

I've never been this nervous before

Any words of wisdom would be very much appreciated

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

"After a couple of months of waiting patiently, the day has finally come. Butterflies are fluttering like crazy this morning and I feel physically

I've never been this nervous before

Any words of wisdom would be very much appreciated

"
whose the lucky woman?

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
25 weeks ago

South West London

Hope the date goes well for the both of you

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

Try to stay present.

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By *nnCeeWoman
25 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Awww,this is so cute...

You'll be grand xx Breathe, and just enjoy yourself x

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