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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago

You done something for yourself? What was it?

I’m in need of a 'people free' day.

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By *educing_EmCouple
36 weeks ago

Tipperary

I got my hair done a few weeks ago, does that count?

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By *etal and KinkMan
36 weeks ago

Malice

I wear black nail polish on the weekends

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I took myself to Paris in February

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
36 weeks ago

stanley

Ordered myself a new Powakaddy ( electric golf trolley)

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...

Waterstones, Argyll Street, yesterday.

I was intending to buy 'The Takeaway Secret' by Kenny McGovern for a colleague's 30th, who loves cooking/baking/takeaways...

Even though it's in it's 2nd edition, there's not one in stock in any of their Scottish bookshops.

So I bought two genre books for myself. Think I'm gonna love them

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By *ife NinjaMan
36 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I went to Barcelona last September. Difficult with kids

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

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Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
36 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"I wear black nail polish on the weekends "
. Only at the weekends? Revoke your goth card!!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
36 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Even though it's in its 2nd edition, there's not one in stock in any of their Scottish bookshops."

Last time wanted to gift someone that book, I found a combined edition with books one and two together. Even better.

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"Even though it's in its 2nd edition, there's not one in stock in any of their Scottish bookshops.

Last time wanted to gift someone that book, I found a combined edition with books one and two together. Even better."

I'm loathe to do it, but found it on Amazon...

Fucking Bezos

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By *aizyWoman
36 weeks ago

west midlands


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis. "

Have fun Meli!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Someone gave me some money for my birthday, told me to spend it on something I really wanted.

So I took my son out for the day. And that’s not me saying I’m unselfish, I just couldn’t think of anything else I wanted to do than spend time with my eldest son, who is about two go off into the world, and probably have less and less time for me.

So anyway, I chose to drag him around to a snooker hall, and we had a few games, and we went out for something to eat, and a bit of windowshopping

A little bit of what you like, does you good Shiv

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"Someone gave me some money for my birthday, told me to spend it on something I really wanted.

So I took my son out for the day. And that’s not me saying I’m unselfish, I just couldn’t think of anything else I wanted to do than spend time with my eldest son, who is about two go off into the world, and probably have less and less time for me.

So anyway, I chose to drag him around to a snooker hall, and we had a few games, and we went out for something to eat, and a bit of windowshopping

A little bit of what you like, does you good Shiv "

That's quite lovely actually.

Nice one sir.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

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"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Have fun Meli! "

During the midlife crisis? Thank you Daizy, that's really sweet.

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By *aizyWoman
36 weeks ago

west midlands


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Have fun Meli!

During the midlife crisis? Thank you Daizy, that's really sweet. "

If you're going to have a mini midlife crisis Meli, do it in style!

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By *etal and KinkMan
36 weeks ago

Malice


"I wear black nail polish on the weekends . Only at the weekends? Revoke your goth card!!! "

I live in the north east. In the north east we've only recently learned that the moon isn't a light source. I must tread carefully.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards


"Someone gave me some money for my birthday, told me to spend it on something I really wanted.

So I took my son out for the day. And that’s not me saying I’m unselfish, I just couldn’t think of anything else I wanted to do than spend time with my eldest son, who is about two go off into the world, and probably have less and less time for me.

So anyway, I chose to drag him around to a snooker hall, and we had a few games, and we went out for something to eat, and a bit of windowshopping

A little bit of what you like, does you good Shiv

That's quite lovely actually.

Nice one sir."

All day long this

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By *ecretSearcherMan
36 weeks ago

Reading

Next weekend I'm going to Snowdon, staying overnight and then a 13 mile walk up, down, and round Snowdon by myself.

Really looking forward to it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
36 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I played designated driver last night. Stayed on the soft drinks all night and drove everybody home at three in the morning.

How is that doing something for myself? Because it meant I didn’t have to stay the night. It meant I could be home today to tinker with my car. Chop firewood. Do some DIY. Walk the dog. Visit the farm shop. Bake some bread. Make some soup. I’ve had a lovely day.

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By *emidemiWoman
36 weeks ago

basingstoke

I booked some time off work today to go see my family in June. I haven’t seen my mum in almost a year, and I very rarely take holidays at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Next weekend I'm going to Snowdon, staying overnight and then a 13 mile walk up, down, and round Snowdon by myself.

Really looking forward to it."

This sounds like pure heaven to me.

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"I wear black nail polish on the weekends . Only at the weekends? Revoke your goth card!!!

I live in the north east. In the north east we've only recently learned that the moon isn't a light source. I must tread carefully."

I live in South West Scotland. In South West Scotland we've only recently learned that a bottle of Buckfast with your morning cereal before work...isn't prescribed on the NHS after all.

Fucking misinformation.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I took myself to Paris in February "

It can be absolutely lovely in Winter/early Spring - the architecture stands out more with the trees bare and that late winter light x.

I'm off to Reims in two weeks - mangled knee is looking good for the drive....and I am happy .

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
36 weeks ago

Essex

I spent a silly amount of money on a dress.

Which is very unusual, but it just looked nice & made me smile so I figured it was worth the pennies.

Only problem is - I don’t have an occasion to wear it. Yet!!

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By *ecretSearcherMan
36 weeks ago

Reading


"Next weekend I'm going to Snowdon, staying overnight and then a 13 mile walk up, down, and round Snowdon by myself.

Really looking forward to it.

This sounds like pure heaven to me.

"

Fingers crossed for the weather, but I did 13 miles a few weeks back in the Brecon beacons with Pen y Fan at the half way point. It was bliss.

I'm doing the national 3 peaks challenge next month so need up get some practice in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis. "

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards

How about you OP?

When was the last time you did something for yourself?

What was it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Someone gave me some money for my birthday, told me to spend it on something I really wanted.

So I took my son out for the day. And that’s not me saying I’m unselfish, I just couldn’t think of anything else I wanted to do than spend time with my eldest son, who is about two go off into the world, and probably have less and less time for me.

So anyway, I chose to drag him around to a snooker hall, and we had a few games, and we went out for something to eat, and a bit of windowshopping

A little bit of what you like, does you good Shiv "

Ah Woody, that’s so sweet. I hope you both had a wonderful day

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By *iercedws10Man
36 weeks ago

wednesbury

yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
36 weeks ago

Merseyside

I am gonna have a me day at the end of the month - never have done but need it

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
36 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Yesterday was meant to be my 'me time' I'll have to dig through the memory archive for the time before.

J

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by "

That really sounds lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"How about you OP?

When was the last time you did something for yourself?

What was it?"

I went out last month to celebrate a friends 30th. Technically not for myself, but it was still nice.

I need a day where I don’t have to interact with other humans.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by "

I need to take up fishing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"Yesterday was meant to be my 'me time' I'll have to dig through the memory archive for the time before.

J"

Aww Julie, it really sucks your night was ruined! I hope you manage to get your car fixed quick enough and you get another night out planned!

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards


"How about you OP?

When was the last time you did something for yourself?

What was it?

I went out last month to celebrate a friends 30th. Technically not for myself, but it was still nice.

I need a day where I don’t have to interact with other humans. "

Cat café? There are a few humans organising it, but they've all become much more cat than human via repeated exposure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
36 weeks ago


"How about you OP?

When was the last time you did something for yourself?

What was it?

I went out last month to celebrate a friends 30th. Technically not for myself, but it was still nice.

I need a day where I don’t have to interact with other humans.

Cat café? There are a few humans organising it, but they've all become much more cat than human via repeated exposure..."

Replace the cats with dogs and I would be all over that!

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards


"How about you OP?

When was the last time you did something for yourself?

What was it?

I went out last month to celebrate a friends 30th. Technically not for myself, but it was still nice.

I need a day where I don’t have to interact with other humans.

Cat café? There are a few humans organising it, but they've all become much more cat than human via repeated exposure...

Replace the cats with dogs and I would be all over that! "

So...something animal-y would be good, away from humans, but not cats.

I'm sure the minds on this thread can suggest a few things.

Half a day horse-riding is my opener...over to the rest...

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By *iercedws10Man
36 weeks ago

wednesbury

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By *iercedws10Man
36 weeks ago

wednesbury


"yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by

That really sounds lovely!

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I try to do it at least once a month

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By *iercedws10Man
36 weeks ago

wednesbury


"yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by

I need to take up fishing! "

it's a great hobby it does wonders for the mental health

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By *rInked_MrsRabbitCouple
36 weeks ago

nuneaton

My hubby did something for himself....

He says its for everyone

So next weekend we are travelling to Newcastle to enjoy a tour round st James Park and the toon

(I will enjoy it really)

Cant remember the last time i did anything for me though

(MRS)

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By *issBellaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wales

Aww so many lovely posts good call OP

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"yesterday I spent the whole day on the canal pike fishing on my own I was out from dawn till dusk only seen about 5 people and the most they said was good morning as they passed by

That really sounds lovely!

This might sound like a humble-brag, but it's not intended to at all...

Spent over a month in Sri Lanka years ago (aye, my ex of 15 years is Sri Lankan): still arguably the most profound experience of my life.

Her father I loved. Shared the same dry and absurd sense of humour of the Marx Brothers.

He took me fishing for the first (and unfortunately last) time. We were there 4/5 hours. 30 degrees, perfect blue skies.

Caught nothing, but it mattered not a jot. Glorious experience.

I try to do it at least once a month "

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By *cottish guy 555Man
36 weeks ago

London


"I spent a silly amount of money on a dress.

Which is very unusual, but it just looked nice & made me smile so I figured it was worth the pennies.

Only problem is - I don’t have an occasion to wear it. Yet!!"

How about a night down the pub for a quiz?

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By *uffnmuffCouple
36 weeks ago

London


"Next weekend I'm going to Snowdon, staying overnight and then a 13 mile walk up, down, and round Snowdon by myself.

Really looking forward to it."

love it x

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By *929Man
36 weeks ago

newcastle

I honestly can’t remember, like to op said I’d give absolutely anything for a day to self/people free day

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By *uffnmuffCouple
36 weeks ago

London

I do something for my self almost every day and that is working out x

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By *ady LickWoman
36 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm the same as the above poster, a little something for me if I can most days. Today ~ I just finished the chocolate orange, including the middle bit

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I've rejoined the gym

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"I'm the same as the above poster, a little something for me if I can most days. Today ~ I just finished the chocolate orange, including the middle bit "

Ooft.

The middle bit's pure Heaven

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wirral.

Took myself off to Carcassonne & have indulged in food & shopping.

Back home tomorrow though

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By *edeWoman
36 weeks ago

the abyss

I had a shower??

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Tough question. I don’t do things for me often. Umm went and saw one of my partners

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By *emorefridaCouple
36 weeks ago

La la land

I'm guessing caulking the skirting board in my bedroom counts?

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By *laytime_13Woman
36 weeks ago

Lincs

Bogged off to Tenerife for 5 days in Feb, cheap and cheerful and best thing I’ve done in ages. More day to day, took the day off a few weeks ago, went to the gym then went for a cheeky cake and cocktail in my favourite bistro cafe.

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"I'm guessing caulking the skirting board in my bedroom counts? "

Good for you!

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By *cLovin2Man
36 weeks ago

Reading


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis "

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"I had a shower?? "

Good for you!

Don't let anyone tell you personal hygiene's not an issue.

'specially on a shag.

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By *en ukMan
36 weeks ago

harrow London

Last Saturday I bought six different perfumes for myself, although I still had about ten perfumes

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Just now. I demolished an entire pack of Drumstick Squashies for myself

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

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"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis? "

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now.

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By *aizyWoman
36 weeks ago

west midlands


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now."

This old dear is still awake, just! I don't know I haven't had one yet, going to start thinking about it tho, maybe have one around my 50th.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
36 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now."

Dye their hair, buy a shit ton of lingerie, start having ENM sex.

Well I did.

J

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By *agnar73Man
36 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now."

I’m having my last few Werthers original and shaking my fist about youngsters these days.

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now."

I'm having one this year. It involves lots of travel adventures, saying no more often , asking for what I want, saying sorry less and generally being a little bit selfish. I highly recommend it

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By *og-ManMan
36 weeks ago

somewhere

Went to Vegas last November for 5 days on my own to see U2 and The Beatles Cirque du Soleil Love show

Took in everything I wanted to see just walking around everywhere and had a fantastic time

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

I go shooting. Either targets or vermin.

The mr

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"Someone gave me some money for my birthday, told me to spend it on something I really wanted.

So I took my son out for the day. And that’s not me saying I’m unselfish, I just couldn’t think of anything else I wanted to do than spend time with my eldest son, who is about two go off into the world, and probably have less and less time for me.

So anyway, I chose to drag him around to a snooker hall, and we had a few games, and we went out for something to eat, and a bit of windowshopping

A little bit of what you like, does you good Shiv

That's quite lovely actually.

Nice one sir."

Until he hustled his son at snooker and doubled his money

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By *cLovin2Man
36 weeks ago

Reading


"Well I've booked a couple of adventures this weekend. Just for me.

I'm now looking at Eurostar. I might be having a mini midlife crisis.

Take me with you Meli! I’d be a great influence during your midlife crisis

Yeah put her in your suitcase.

Some of my family think I am having a mid life crisis. I reckon might as well have one, it's all the rage these days, wouldn't want to be left out. What do women do in a midlife crisis?

I don't know. Might ask the old dears of the forum tomorrow, they're probably sleeping now.

I'm having one this year. It involves lots of travel adventures, saying no more often , asking for what I want, saying sorry less and generally being a little bit selfish. I highly recommend it "

That sounds like a plan, we're all gonna be dead in 100 years so might as well go out disgracefully, on that cheery note...

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
36 weeks ago

villiage

Just sat infront of the fire and watched tv on my own all afternoon was just great

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