FabSwingers.com forum: What do you say when you can't say " I love you back "

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Happy Sundays everyone

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Happy Sundays everyone

I love spending time with you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I say thanks.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile and kiss them

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Who are you and how did you get in my house ?!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Me too."

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By *ed MartinMan
over a year ago

Shefford

That’s a cheerful topic for a Sunday!

Only had this situation once in my life, and it was a long time ago, when I was young and stupid. I ghosted her, and have always regretted how I handled it.

It’s probably kinder in the long-term to pump the brakes on the relationship before it gets to that point. If you aren’t in a position to reciprocate on those feelings, it’s better to be honest about it and not promise them something you can’t deliver on.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

""Me too.""

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

I love cinnamon cake more!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

""Me too."

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

I mean, surely the context is after they say I love you.

I do love me.

It's sincere

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

""Me too."

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

I mean, surely the context is after they say I love you.

I do love me.

It's sincere

If you can't love yourself, then you're in bother

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really like you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Han - I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I love your willy

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

Is this actual cake, or code for boobies? Either will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a code word you can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say "

I wolf you

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?"
showing your age here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you"

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I know

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost? showing your age here"

I've read about it...

(But, yes, no hiding that, sadly)

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

Is this actual cake, or code for boobies? Either will do

Haha od course it’s cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv."

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost? showing your age here

I've read about it...

(But, yes, no hiding that, sadly)"

I bet you remember Wenger’s first title in England.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU"

Yeah I do! So ready and excited the next season.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU

Yeah I do! So ready and excited the next season.

Of course you are you romantic

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By *cotsguyyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?"

Or "I know" from Empire Strikes Back

Did someone say there was cake ?!

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Romford

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a code word you can say "

I used to squeeze her hand 3times.

Good times.

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Skype, Bulgaria

You don’t really.

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

I've never not been able to say it back with someone I love/have loved (as in workplace etc. Fuck others. Say it to the person you love).

If you mean someone says it to you and you don't love them, I'll usually say "Well, you have good taste" as some form of irony to my cost.

Softer than saying "Well I don't love you", and they usually work out you're not at that place with them and gives them space to think about their next move.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Lol. Okay.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Oh, stop it.

*clutches chest*

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

In those circumstances I usually just reply, ‘well who wouldn’t’.

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By *iercedws10Man
over a year ago

wednesbury

in my best stewie griffin voice "elephant juice"

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By *rucking-HellMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Cheers.

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

"Cheers."

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just lie, that seems to be standard

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Ahhhh, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know … worked for Han Solo

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By *alm_one4Man
over a year ago

RM16

An ex, in the lead up to dumping me round say ‘ I know you do’. Kinda gave me an idea of what was on the horizon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutter FFS under my breath and start planning on getting them out my life.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Well I am awesome, can't say I'm suprised

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By *unnyLinguistMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"You're not bad yourself. Well, not bad enough..."

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

I Love you...

I know...

Worked for Han Solo

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

That’s cute

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

"That’s cute "

I was going to say my daughter says ‘that’s cute’ every day when I tell her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I say 'Understandable...'

before vanishing in a puff of smoke

Cherry x

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"For fuck's sake - don't you know what a restraining order is?"

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

I don’t believe you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nice one, cheers, means a lot.

The mr

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"But, honestly, it's your sister I really love".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just play Meat Loaf's Two Out of Three Ain't Bad

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