FabSwingers.com forum: What do you say when you can't say " I love you back "

By *usman 199 OP Man
24 weeks ago

Stockport

Happy Sundays everyone

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By *izzibeth9Couple
24 weeks ago

Loughborough

"Happy Sundays everyone

I love spending time with you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

I say thanks.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Smile and kiss them

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By *cotsguyyMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

Who are you and how did you get in my house ?!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Me too."

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By *ed MartinMan
24 weeks ago

Shefford

That’s a cheerful topic for a Sunday!

Only had this situation once in my life, and it was a long time ago, when I was young and stupid. I ghosted her, and have always regretted how I handled it.

It’s probably kinder in the long-term to pump the brakes on the relationship before it gets to that point. If you aren’t in a position to reciprocate on those feelings, it’s better to be honest about it and not promise them something you can’t deliver on.

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

""Me too.""

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

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By *inxy777Woman
24 weeks ago

essex

I love cinnamon cake more!

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

""Me too."

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

I mean, surely the context is after they say I love you.

I do love me.

It's sincere

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

""Me too."

Sincerity. Once you can fake that, you're priceless

I mean, surely the context is after they say I love you.

I do love me.

It's sincere

If you can't love yourself, then you're in bother

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By *inxy777Woman
24 weeks ago

essex

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I really like you too

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Han - I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

And I love your willy

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

Is this actual cake, or code for boobies? Either will do

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By *midnight-Woman
24 weeks ago

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Find a code word you can say

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say "

I wolf you

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London

Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?"
showing your age here

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you"

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
24 weeks ago

South West London

I say I know

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost? showing your age here"

I've read about it...

(But, yes, no hiding that, sadly)

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By *inxy777Woman
24 weeks ago

essex

"I love cinnamon cake more!

With icing? I love you

Always with icing! I love cake more!

Is this actual cake, or code for boobies? Either will do

Haha od course it’s cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv."

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost? showing your age here

I've read about it...

(But, yes, no hiding that, sadly)"

I bet you remember Wenger’s first title in England.

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU"

Yeah I do! So ready and excited the next season.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say

I wolf you

Cutesy words instead of love.

I used to type I luv you.

What the beep is that nonsense? Luv. Frickin' luv.

Msn messenger says. That and ily2.

But you know I wolf you is from YOU

Yeah I do! So ready and excited the next season.

Of course you are you romantic

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By *cotsguyyMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

"Hasn't everyone used "ditto" since Ghost?"

Or "I know" from Empire Strikes Back

Did someone say there was cake ?!

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By *ermite12ukMan
24 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Faf?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Find a code word you can say "

I used to squeeze her hand 3times.

Good times.

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By *issBehave69TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

You don’t really.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
24 weeks ago

St Leonards

I've never not been able to say it back with someone I love/have loved (as in workplace etc. Fuck others. Say it to the person you love).

If you mean someone says it to you and you don't love them, I'll usually say "Well, you have good taste" as some form of irony to my cost.

Softer than saying "Well I don't love you", and they usually work out you're not at that place with them and gives them space to think about their next move.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Lol. Okay.

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By *viatrixWoman
24 weeks ago

Redhill

Oh, stop it.

*clutches chest*

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
24 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

In those circumstances I usually just reply, ‘well who wouldn’t’.

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By *s10biladMan
24 weeks ago

wednesbury

in my best stewie griffin voice "elephant juice"

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By *rucking-HellMan
24 weeks ago

Northampton

Cheers.

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By *inxy777Woman
24 weeks ago

essex

"Cheers."

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By *sWyldWoman
24 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Just lie, that seems to be standard

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By *illy IdolMan
24 weeks ago

Midlands

Ahhhh, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I know … worked for Han Solo

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By *alm_one4Man
24 weeks ago

RM16

An ex, in the lead up to dumping me round say ‘ I know you do’. Kinda gave me an idea of what was on the horizon

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Mutter FFS under my breath and start planning on getting them out my life.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
24 weeks ago

Llanelli

Well I am awesome, can't say I'm suprised

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By *ornLordMan
24 weeks ago

Wiltshire and London

"You're not bad yourself. Well, not bad enough..."

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By *WINGStars23Couple
24 weeks ago

Chorley

I Love you...

I know...

Worked for Han Solo

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
24 weeks ago

chichester

That’s cute

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
24 weeks ago

Keighley

"That’s cute "

I was going to say my daughter says ‘that’s cute’ every day when I tell her

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
24 weeks ago

District 13

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Bye

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
24 weeks ago

Debauchery

I say 'Understandable...'

before vanishing in a puff of smoke

Cherry x

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
24 weeks ago

St Leonards

"For fuck's sake - don't you know what a restraining order is?"

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By *mber SkiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

I don’t believe you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Nice one, cheers, means a lot.

The mr

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
24 weeks ago

St Leonards

"But, honestly, it's your sister I really love".

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

just play Meat Loaf's Two Out of Three Ain't Bad

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