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"I’m looking for a Sharon Stone type lady who doesn’t wear knickers and flashes her otters pocket every 5 mins "I have a beaver without pockets. Would that do? | |||
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"I think it's just called Monopoly." Oohh I'd love a game please | |||
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"I’m looking for a Sharon Stone type lady who doesn’t wear knickers and flashes her otters pocket every 5 mins
I have a beaver without pockets. Would that do? "Most amenieable | |||
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"I think it's just called Monopoly. Oohh I'd love a game please "How long you got? I take it very seriously... | |||
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better! "oooh did you say cake | |||
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"I'd quite like a mates date. Yes, I'm up for one of those. A more romantic date? I'm not sure. It feels like pressure. I'd rather see what naturally unfolds than placing expectation on it. Anyway, hi, I'm Meli and I waffle. If you like waffle or cheese, hi." Exactly. I think all dates should feel like "mate dates", even if they're more than that. I hate overly formal, "romantic" dates say in some terribly quiet, stuffy restaurant. Anyway, when we out for cocktails? I know just the place... | |||
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"I'd quite like a mates date. Yes, I'm up for one of those. A more romantic date? I'm not sure. It feels like pressure. I'd rather see what naturally unfolds than placing expectation on it. Anyway, hi, I'm Meli and I waffle. If you like waffle or cheese, hi. Exactly. I think all dates should feel like "mate dates", even if they're more than that. I hate overly formal, "romantic" dates say in some terribly quiet, stuffy restaurant. Anyway, when we out for cocktails? I know just the place..." *sat | |||
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"I like this idea of a 'mate date' with no pressure. Just hang out, maybe do an activity, or go for a walk around a gallery, and see if there's some chemistry that suggests there's more to it. " i feel thats how that initial 'social' should be - no expectations mates meeting and having a laugh and even better if something to do - not forced | |||
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better!
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"I like this idea of a 'mate date' with no pressure. Just hang out, maybe do an activity, or go for a walk around a gallery, and see if there's some chemistry that suggests there's more to it. " This is how I approach both socials and dating, yet I seem to have little success in either arena... I'm clearly undateable!  | |||
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"I like this idea of a 'mate date' with no pressure. Just hang out, maybe do an activity, or go for a walk around a gallery, and see if there's some chemistry that suggests there's more to it. This is how I approach both socials and dating, yet I seem to have little success in either arena... I'm clearly undateable! "I'd happily take you round a gallery if I lived anywhere near you. | |||
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"I’m looking for a Sharon Stone type lady who doesn’t wear knickers and flashes her otters pocket every 5 mins "Typical that you aren’t local!!!!  | |||
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"I'd love a date, whether that's a mate date or a romantic one. A good conversation is always welcome "I'm sure we can get you a date - come on ladies and gentlemen who fit Cede's filters, who wants to take this delightful-looking lady out? | |||
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"I'd love a date, whether that's a mate date or a romantic one. A good conversation is always welcome
I'm sure we can get you a date - come on ladies and gentlemen who fit Cede's filters, who wants to take this delightful-looking lady out? "If only distance was no object… | |||
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"Inspired by another forum topic; Are you looking to date as well as the more typical Fab...arrangements? If so, why not post here with details of what you're open to dating-wise (I.e. mono/poly, which genders you're open to, age-range, etc) and see if anyone catches your eye? Just don't say 'A woman like Kim Basinger'. " Yes I'm open to dates. It's pretty much no different to how I've always approached Fab. As to posting specifics? Nope. Aside from ENM relationships that's completely down to individuals to discuss and ask. There's no point in popping a general 'this is what I'd like' as it's completely person/situation dependent. | |||
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"I’m looking for a Sharon Stone type lady who doesn’t wear knickers and flashes her otters pocket every 5 mins
Typical that you aren’t local!!!! "We’re local…ish! | |||
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better! "You bring the cake, I'll bring the gin
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better! "If I was a lady that combination of cake and art would appeal to me so I'm sure some of your inbox will soon be busy! | |||
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better!
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Yes, with a çapital "C" " Cake - would it be chocolate ?? | |||
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"I like this idea of a 'mate date' with no pressure. Just hang out, maybe do an activity, or go for a walk around a gallery, and see if there's some chemistry that suggests there's more to it. This is how I approach both socials and dating, yet I seem to have little success in either arena... I'm clearly undateable!
I'd happily take you round a gallery if I lived anywhere near you. " it would be fun! | |||
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"Ìn. I am looking for a womån/lådy who is susceptible to flattery, easily swayed by cake and appreciative to Årt. If she has a racing pulse then all the better!
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You bring the cake, I'll bring the gin "• ...and let the games beGIN! | |||
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...and let the games beGIN!"But... you said prosecco The gin and cake is the dessert.. | |||
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"I think it's just called Monopoly. Oohh I'd love a game please
How long you got? I take it very seriously..."However long it takes to reach a good and proper outcome. No half measures  | |||
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Cake - would it be chocolate ?? "• Would it be anything else? | |||
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"I'd love a date, whether that's a mate date or a romantic one. A good conversation is always welcome "That’s because she doesn’t get any from me! | |||
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"I'd quite like a mates date. Yes, I'm up for one of those. A more romantic date? I'm not sure. It feels like pressure. I'd rather see what naturally unfolds than placing expectation on it. Anyway, hi, I'm Meli and I waffle. If you like waffle or cheese, hi. Exactly. I think all dates should feel like "mate dates", even if they're more than that. I hate overly formal, "romantic" dates say in some terribly quiet, stuffy restaurant. Anyway, when we out for cocktails? I know just the place..." Yes, that's it exactly! I'd much rather feel relaxed and comfortable around another. Enjoying something and not taking it all far too seriously. May. I'm down anyway, let's do it. | |||
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) that’s why Fab and swinging suits me. And it protects our feelings, because we are upfront that it’s about sex first, even if there is intimacy and closeness and a connection et cetera. We are just not promising future relationship. If that all makes sense.
I might be waffling, I’m in a sleeping mood. | |||
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"…. I want genuine care and compassion for each other. No games. I know though that I might never find that. " That’s when I know, I seriously like somebody, and that’s the moment I know I fallen for them. It’s not one I think they care for me, it’s when I know I have true feelings and care about their well-being, when they are in my mind, thinking about them, how to make them smile how to comfort them how to make things easy for them, that type of thing. And it only comes from getting to know someone, …. Possibly dating somebody. | |||
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"Ultimately I want romance, chemistry, passion, to be swept off my feet. I want laugher, silliness and that thrill of mutual attraction that leaves us both excited to see each other and torn between the need to rip each other's clothes off and to share experiences in life together. I want dates and adventures we plan together, new places, new foods, memories, selfies and a level of comfort. I want someone who is proud to hold my hand and to introduce me to his friends and family. I want to feel that way about them too. I want genuine care and compassion for each other. No games. I know though that I might never find that. " Very beautifully put... | |||
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"I think it's just called Monopoly." Can I come and play? | |||
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"And just like that, I kill another thread "
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"I'd love a date, whether that's a mate date or a romantic one. A good conversation is always welcome
That’s because she doesn’t get any from me! "You're quite often otherwise engaged so I thought it might be nice to meet others that I can bore to death | |||
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"I'd love a date, whether that's a mate date or a romantic one. A good conversation is always welcome
That’s because she doesn’t get any from me!
You're quite often otherwise engaged so I thought it might be nice to meet others that I can bore to death "So your date either needs to be able to hold an entertaining conversation or else to bring earplugs? | |||
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Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know | |||
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"Monopoly probably isn’t my fave game but I’m open to twister with anyone who can fit one butt cheek in red and the other on green! "How far apart are they? | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know "I been letting you know | |||
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"Monopoly probably isn’t my fave game but I’m open to twister with anyone who can fit one butt cheek in red and the other on green!
How far apart are they? "Opposite sides! | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know
I been letting you know "Well stop talking about it and let’s go! | |||
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"Monopoly probably isn’t my fave game but I’m open to twister with anyone who can fit one butt cheek in red and the other on green!
How far apart are they?
Opposite sides! "Are you allowed to fold the sheet?! | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know "I like idea of that sort of thing, but distance. I sort of feel stupid going to places myself in daytime. | |||
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"Monopoly probably isn’t my fave game but I’m open to twister with anyone who can fit one butt cheek in red and the other on green!
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Opposite sides!
Are you allowed to fold the sheet?! "Haha, smart thinking! | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know
I like idea of that sort of thing, but distance. I sort of feel stupid going to places myself in daytime."Yeah you’re a fair way, I’m sorry  | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know
I like idea of that sort of thing, but distance. I sort of feel stupid going to places myself in daytime.
Yeah you’re a fair way, I’m sorry
I’ve seen some things in that London over the years, but plenty of things up here I could be doing if there was a buddy/sidekick to do it with."Things up here - bloody autocarrot | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know
I like idea of that sort of thing, but distance. I sort of feel stupid going to places myself in daytime.
Yeah you’re a fair way, I’m sorry
I’ve seen some things in that London over the years, but plenty of things up here I could be doing if there was a buddy/sidekick to do it with.
Things up here - bloody autocarrot "Yeah I understand that. Being single can feel hard work haha | |||
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"I open to dating someone local in the swinging 'scene' and something more than just fwbs but I prefer to let stuff happen organically where there is a natural connection with someone I play with, rather than dating where there's too many expectations and disappointments" *I am open... Missing that "am" out has set my teeth on edge as soon as I noticed ffs | |||
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"Hi, I’m open to friend dates and date dates. Aside from sex, I enjoy things like films, comedy, history, art, politics and sitting down Anyone looking for company going to exhibitions or dinner reservations then let me know
I like idea of that sort of thing, but distance. I sort of feel stupid going to places myself in daytime.
Yeah you’re a fair way, I’m sorry
I’ve seen some things in that London over the years, but plenty of things up here I could be doing if there was a buddy/sidekick to do it with.
Things up here - bloody autocarrot
Yeah I understand that. Being single can feel hard work haha"Ach just sometimes miss seeing things like that and should do it myself now and again. | |||
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"I’m looking for a Sharon Stone type lady who doesn’t wear knickers and flashes her otters pocket every 5 mins "Shame I look nothing like Sharon Stone. | |||
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"I'd quite like a mates date. Yes, I'm up for one of those. A more romantic date? I'm not sure. It feels like pressure. I'd rather see what naturally unfolds than placing expectation on it. Anyway, hi, I'm Meli and I waffle. If you like waffle or cheese, hi." Oh, I’d go on a mates date with you. Provided it included shoes shopping, and cheese. If it was only cheese I’d not be as keen though. | |||
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"I'd quite like a mates date. Yes, I'm up for one of those. A more romantic date? I'm not sure. It feels like pressure. I'd rather see what naturally unfolds than placing expectation on it. Anyway, hi, I'm Meli and I waffle. If you like waffle or cheese, hi. Oh, I’d go on a mates date with you. Provided it included shoes shopping, and cheese. If it was only cheese I’d not be as keen though. " Shoes and cheese? Yes! Just cheese would be a bit much, you're right. | |||
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