FabSwingers.com forum: Does it ever work

By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever

I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

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By *irthandgirthMan
43 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance'

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By *uncouple153Couple
43 weeks ago

Abergavenny

We have had a few messages like that. They are deleted pretty quickly.

I guess a lot of single guys would be all over it?

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By *irthandgirthMan
43 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.

They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
43 weeks ago

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.

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By *londebiguyMan
43 weeks ago

Southport

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

They don't even work on me and I'm a man.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
43 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

Go for it OP call their bluff and say "as it happens yes I am free"

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Smooooothhh...

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By *ou only live onceMan
43 weeks ago

London

Let me ping out a few quick messages and I'll report back later...

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.

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By *reative-mindMan
43 weeks ago

Exeter

Had a message yesterday from a couple, that just read:

"3sum? Facepic?"

Wasn't even a blank profile, verifications, been on here years, pics the lot.

Baffling tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Depends how horny and desperate someone is I guess. At least they've given sufficient notice though, I'll give them that one.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
43 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol. "

Was smooth until it backfired

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

[Removed by poster at 12/04/24 11:27:19]

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
43 weeks ago

Reading

It may if the woman sends the nessage.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance'"

How was it?

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.

Was smooth until it backfired

Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol. "

I'm glad you're ok, that's far more wholesome than my poor flirting attempt

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.

Was smooth until it backfired

Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x "

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By *enk15Man
43 weeks ago

Evesham

Yep. I send out mass "Come over now!" messages in the morning. By lunchtime there is a queue at my door

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I don't think it does and it's genuinely lazy and a bit brazen to just flat out ask without getting to know them. That being said... Are you, OP?

Ah thanks for the concern. Yes, I am ok. I have my safe space all set up and ready lol.

Was smooth until it backfired

Yeah...I saw that too. OP/OK derailed an otherwise perfect comment I think x

We saw it Joe. We saw it, and it was marvellous

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By *obilebottomMan
43 weeks ago

All over

I get some 'free now?' first messages. Go figure

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By *irthandgirthMan
43 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

I had one that was 'are you free this afternoon, my missus has just agreed to a 3sum and I might never get another chance'

How was it?"

I marked the message unread..

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By *irthandgirthMan
43 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not. "

Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
43 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
43 weeks ago

Coventry

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

Go for it OP call their bluff and say "as it happens yes I am free"

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yes this!!

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th? "

Which cake is it?

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By *ot to giggleWoman
43 weeks ago

Coventry

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?"

Ooh chocolate cake ... im in

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
43 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?"

It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

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Does this kinda efficient and also straight to the point approach ever work?

FIFY

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By *hatKlungeEnigmaMan
43 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?

It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut "

Damn...I'd consider joining the Ghey Collective for coffee and walnut...

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Not all messages but mine was ASAP where do guys get off...

50% of fab guys that desperate still in 2024. Poor souls. My filter has seen more and hidden my profile. Tired of

Meet now ASAP as first message where is the sense

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By *d4fun73Man
43 weeks ago

Shipley

"It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.

They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol"

Not just men couples are just as bad!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.

Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch

What are you cooking?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
43 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.

Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch

What are you cooking?"
. Something mouth watering, his dishes always sound amazing

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
43 weeks ago

Wherever

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.

Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch

What are you cooking?. Something mouth watering, his dishes always sound amazing "

I shall be on my way then.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
43 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?

Ooh chocolate cake ... im in "

Chocolate fudge is my fav but, I'm easy

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By *eroLondonMan
43 weeks ago

Mayfair

"...Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?"

If a person posts an "Add a Meet" from the "Meets & Events" section in their profile, then potentially yes.

Through direct messaging? Most probably not.

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By *ex HolesMan
43 weeks ago

Up North

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

I’d bum you on the 7th

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I had one weds,

Hi I'm in your area for a few hours tomorrow, can you accom?.

He'd sent a cock pic and no face pic or introduction.

You seriously, think that's gonna be a yes.

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By *irthandgirthMan
43 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I don’t think it works but it is amusing.

I remember that one guy who wanted me to meet him in his hotel room but I would need to hurry up as his checking out was at 12. He messaged me around 10.

I'm sure you were there for the 1055-1123 slot

As I always am

I’m not sure though he is still waiting for my response or not.

Well if you can get to Hampshire for 1pm I will throw in some lunch

What are you cooking?"

I made a quick chicken Nasi Goreng. I still have some

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By *issmorganWoman
43 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"It just baffles me. I get it is a swingers site, but the amount of men that think that it's as simple as time and date, go.

They keep doing it, so assume either they really are stupid and don't learn. Or there is women out there somewhere who do it lol

Not just men couples are just as bad!"

Can confirm this too

On my couple profile we had one couple ask Jack to get me up out of bed because they were horny.

It was after midnight and he'd been chatting to them earlier that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?

It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut "

Lemon drizzle?

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By *oiluvfunMan
43 weeks ago

Penrith

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

I've had similar, short notice invites, usually at around 1 in the morning, when the wife has had enough to drink to finally agree to a threesome....

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By *oiluvfunMan
43 weeks ago

Penrith

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th? "

You have boobs?

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By *uctifanoWoman
43 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’ve often wondered if this approach ever works too. Fab should do surveys!!! We need answers!!!!

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By *TG3Man
43 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Just received a message that said

"8th or 9th May. You free".

Never spoke to this person before. No face pic. No name. Nothing.

Does this kinda lazy approach ever work?

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lol hey he's got your attention one way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I would never have the nerve to send something like that especially if you had never spoke to the person before. that said I did jokingly use the line grab ya coat luv you've pulled in a club once and that to my astonishment worked

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I was asked if the person in question could book in for when they are in my area may .... given I am not a sex worker .... I politely declined.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
43 weeks ago

Coventry

I would say it's the long shot. However I guess a lot also depends on the profile and verifications.

However it must work sometimes especially if in addition the dates, photos, profile and verifications look good to the person being asked. Because although people all do this differently we are here to fulfil our desires and open to opportunities that look promising.

In principle I dont see a problem with opening about particular dates. In a way when people have busy lives it can be handy to have a particular date time frame to work around. Being a working single parent I understand this. And totally understand finding a free window in the calendar and trying to sort something for that. Although even then I think it's very rarely a case of just go on then. Although it can be handy to have a date to work around I think most people still want to sus people out more prior to committing. And obviously durring that process something down the line may be said to put them off.

So yes not impossible I don't think.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
43 weeks ago

Central

Some day AI will be engaged to send out these messages, although AI is currently trained well enough to be able to send better messages already. AI could send hundreds and hour

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
43 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

"Anyone free for tea, cake and a boobie grope at 9:48am and 20 seconds on Sunday the 14th?

Which cake is it?

It can be any cake, except coffee and walnut

Lemon drizzle?"

Only if you share!

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