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"What is a genuine swinger OP?" That's what I was thinking. I've been here about 8 years. I wasn't a swinger when I first come on here. | |||
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"Is this a swinging site… yes or no? It’s not a hard question to answer… Let’s start with the name of this site "Yes it's a swinging site but swinging isn't one size fits all. | |||
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"Se the responses I have had?? You obviously don’t know what the term swinging means That’s why I’m saying it’s not a swinging site anymore With most of your replies you answered the question "I know exactly what it means and I'm not one and have no wish to be either. I have made lots of friends through this site and don't plan on leaving anytime soon regardless of it's name | |||
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"Se the responses I have had?? You obviously don’t know what the term swinging means That’s why I’m saying it’s not a swinging site anymore With most of your replies you answered the question "I've been here twice that length of time. Back when I joined there were couples who swung, singles who swung, people looking for random hook ups and one offs, people who just liked to cam or use the forums, people who did or didn't go to clubs, people who just went to events and parties, people crossing over from the kink/from community and people who just seemed to like browsing profiles and never meeting. Some of all those categories considered themselves swingers and some just considered themselves as users of the site and didn't care for any given definition of what 'swinging' meant to others. All were correct. | |||
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"So been here near on 8 years, okay I got older etc etc But is it me or has this site become something that isn’t really a swinging site? Just think it’s lost its usp? Seems like every every one thinks… they are a genuine swinger…. When they clearly are not???" Why do you care how others use the site? It has no impact on you and how you use fab. We've been on here over 10 years and like the site. We don't particularly use it for meets though. Nita | |||
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"Se the responses I have had?? You obviously don’t know what the term swinging means That’s why I’m saying it’s not a swinging site anymore With most of your replies you answered the question "Honestly with your responses, I'm surprised you've had so many verifications as you seem very passive aggressive Mrs | |||
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"Does it really matter, OP? For me, it's a community of people who share an interest in sex beyond the conventional. Swinging is part of that but not the only part. It's a broad church and I oike that. I've met lots of people I wouldn't have met if we just stuck to the definition of swinging as mentioned above - couples swapping only." Church?  | |||
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"You’re so right. There’s alot of people here just looking for people to talk to. We’ve had someone expect us to pay for their whole night out before. This is a site for sex not for a date. I wish those people would get off here and onto tinder. The other problem with swingers here is those who put a list of demands in their bio and insist you put a certain word in your subject to show you’ve read the bio like your following their orders straight away… it’s a massive red flag." Why should people that want to date others in the lifestyle leave. I’m a regular club goer and want to find someone who has the same interests as me and on the scene. I can’t find that on any dating apps they are dire! Fab and clubs works for me | |||
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"You’re so right. There’s alot of people here just looking for people to talk to. We’ve had someone expect us to pay for their whole night out before. This is a site for sex not for a date. I wish those people would get off here and onto tinder. The other problem with swingers here is those who put a list of demands in their bio and insist you put a certain word in your subject to show you’ve read the bio like your following their orders straight away… it’s a massive red flag." So people in this lifestyle can't date as well? Lots of people have met their other halves on here, then again everyone's idea of swinging can be different. I wouldn't go to tinder if I wanted a date, I've had more from here and happy to continue doing so. | |||
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"So been here near on 8 years, okay I got older etc etc But is it me or has this site become something that isn’t really a swinging site? Just think it’s lost its usp? Seems like every every one thinks… they are a genuine swinger…. When they clearly are not???" It would be interesting to hear "your" definition of what a swinger is. | |||
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"So been here near on 8 years, okay I got older etc etc But is it me or has this site become something that isn’t really a swinging site? Just think it’s lost its usp? Seems like every every one thinks… they are a genuine swinger…. When they clearly are not???" Agree Mr Ben completely but there’s not a lot the site or swingers can do but I believe that there are still many fabbers that still enjoy the lifestyle. T | |||
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"I've been here over 12 years and I've come to the conclusion that people who go on about it not being a swinger or site or loosing it's meaning, are actually just hacked off they can't find anyone willing to have sex with them. " Haha yeah... so true lol | |||
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"Se the responses I have had?? You obviously don’t know what the term swinging means That’s why I’m saying it’s not a swinging site anymore With most of your replies you answered the question "Oh you're one of those .....asks a question they don't really know the answer to and then get defensive and sarcastic when their question is challenged or requires clarification. I see you. Evie | |||
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"So been here near on 8 years, okay I got older etc etc But is it me or has this site become something that isn’t really a swinging site? Just think it’s lost its usp? Seems like every every one thinks… they are a genuine swinger…. When they clearly are not???" Well in the name of the app fabswingers it suggests it should be for swingers keys in the bowl etc but its developed to a dating site where love is in the air everytime you look around | |||
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"Let's be honest, they can't really call it FabSex as a lot of people would want their money back for false advertising "I mean how very dare you | |||
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"Let's be honest, they can't really call it FabSex as a lot of people would want their money back for false advertising I mean how very dare you "It had to be said | |||
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"Let's be honest, they can't really call it FabSex as a lot of people would want their money back for false advertising I mean how very dare you
It had to be said "lol | |||
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"The only swingers on here are couples. Singles cant be swingers because they dont have a partner to swing with. Ive lost count at the amount of singles on here who have coupled up and then promptly announced they are 'just staying for the forums' because they dont want to cheat (lol). The site hasn't changed at all from a couples perceptive. If you are a couple who want to meet other couples and singles then its as good as its always been. If you're a single guy then its going to be difficult and if you're a single woman its going to be extremely easy to get meets. Mr " I’d beg to differ as single woman. | |||
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"Am not a swinger, bit of a singer though "blaming you for the rain then  | |||
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"No at all just my honest opinion " If you use quote and reply we'll know who you're talking to | |||
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"No at all just my honest opinion If you use quote and reply we'll know who you're talking to" My bad  | |||
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"Hey op, press the right hand button instead of the middle one when you reply, then it copies the post of the person you’re replying to. A we can understand what you’re talking about (maybe)" I got it!! Sorry | |||
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"Have we established what a genuine swinger is yet, and who is or is not one, and how anyone knows?" AI has the answer | |||
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"Have we established what a genuine swinger is yet, and who is or is not one, and how anyone knows? AI has the answer " We're fucked then  | |||
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"I see you too … boring love What Yes " Your replies didn't make sense as they were not quoting anything. Just looked like you were talking to yourself*shrug* | |||
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