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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?

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By *bi HaiveMan
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37 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

I've looked worse I guess. Better now I've put some weight back on.

And what makes me feel unattractive?

Looking in the mirror before I've had my first coffee of the day and not cleaned my glasses.

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By *ore_Please81Woman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Having to live with my ex husband. He wears me down every day x

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By *r Black 85Man
37 weeks ago

nottingham

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

Being unattractive makes me feel unattractive. I have had too many rejections purely based on my looks to last me a lifetime.

I'm generally the guy in the team who ends up going home alone

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By *edeWoman
37 weeks ago

the abyss

Everything

I'm all about the clear concise answers tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

What makes me feel attractive? Filters op, filters.

What makes me feel unattractive? The look in their eyes when they first see me.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
37 weeks ago

M1 J22

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut "

Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it.

Do you feel attractive? "

No, not in every day life. Not at all.

Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?"

Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially!

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Some days I think “yeah bloke, you’re quite attractive”

Other days I think “uuurrrggghhh what an ugly pig”

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By *ubikslongswordMan
37 weeks ago

Rubiksville

Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut

Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it.

Do you feel attractive?

No, not in every day life. Not at all.

Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially!

What’s makes you feel unattractive?

I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair. "

YOU are sexy and you know it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes "

I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
37 weeks ago

"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes

I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe. "

Rare though because I’m alright looking

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I love it when I get the time to exercise properly

And a haircut

Both make me feel good

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By *ubikslongswordMan
37 weeks ago

Rubiksville

"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes

I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe. "

I hate it especially when the day before I took a pic and I look good (I rarely look at myself and think I look attractive, I just do the best I can

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By *nsatiable n baldCouple
37 weeks ago

somewhere only we know

If I feel fantastic I look more attractive and I’m sure I’d catch his eye at the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I do not feel attractive at all ATM. Hormonal acne, rosacea, and eczema are all jostling for space on my stupid face.

Nell

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
37 weeks ago

M1 J22

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut

Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it.

Do you feel attractive?

No, not in every day life. Not at all.

Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially!

What’s makes you feel unattractive?

I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair.

YOU are sexy and you know it

I’m spexy, I know that much!

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Having to live with my ex husband. He wears me down every day x"

That’s a tough situation to do.

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By *hortarseWoman
37 weeks ago

Norfolk

When a partner says something to put you down or you find he on site looking for sex when he not having sex with you.

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

It’s bossing what you see in the mirror. Having that little bit of mojo.

Not always easy.

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By *etal and KinkMan
37 weeks ago

Malice

I am so far past feeling that way I've forgotten what it feels like. I spent a long time feeling ugly, fat, not good enough etc. But now I know other people have the same frailties I don't suffer them anymore. Life is too short to care. Might as well just crack on with it.

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
37 weeks ago

Bradford

I never feel attractive, n never have

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By *ad NannaWoman
37 weeks ago

East London

I rarely feel attractive.

I'm flabbergasted that good looking, and not insane, men find me attractive enough to want to see me naked.

I think it's because I don't care what I look like and I never have.

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By *ostAirmenMan
37 weeks ago

crewe

I make myself feel unattractive , I hate myself everyday. I see every flaw in myself .

Also years of being beat down by people calling me fat .

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By *ad NannaWoman
37 weeks ago

East London

People tell me I'm pretty etc and I think "meh, as long as I'm pretty enough for you, I don't care"

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By *ad NannaWoman
37 weeks ago

East London

"I make myself feel unattractive , I hate myself everyday. I see every flaw in myself .

Also years of being beat down by people calling me fat . "

Insults have never bothered me.

My long term partner calls me his fat bitch

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By *andynecklaceWoman
37 weeks ago

Someplace

Yeah, I think I'm pretty attractive, I feel confident most when I'm going out and I'm all dressed up. I try not to think negatively about my looks so I rarely ever feel unattractive.

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By *emorefridaCouple
37 weeks ago

La la land

Do you feel attractive?

Erm yeah kind of ish, depends on the day.

Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

If I really wanted them, yeah fairly confident.

What’s makes you feel unattractive?

Over use of filters and shit like that. Yeah it's nice to post those pictures and get positive reactions but your not fooling yourself when you look in the mirror. Think this is a major source of people feeling shit about themselves.

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By *ostAirmenMan
37 weeks ago

crewe

"I make myself feel unattractive , I hate myself everyday. I see every flaw in myself .

Also years of being beat down by people calling me fat .

Insults have never bothered me.

My long term partner calls me his fat bitch

Starts to hurts after a while though x

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
37 weeks ago

St Leonards

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

Blimey...multiple bits to follow.

Do I feel attractive? So, in person, my charisma can be too attractive - people start getting a bit jealous when they fall "into it" and realise I prefer to share it. It can get awkward. Physically attractive, less so. That's mostly excess weight, although I have to add that when I've been fit, that and the charisma thing do take a lot of conscious managing from me so others don't get even more possessive etc. Being fat has kept me safe from too much hunger in others, since childhood.

Confident for the sexy stuff? It's much more about being confident they're not going to need to dine out on me too frequently. So I hint at "no thank you but you're a very nice person" far more than I let it get to "yes".

What makes me feel unattractive? Poverty has limited my options, but it's had the benefit of not meaning I have to manage a bit too much "hunger" from others to have me in their lives, so it's been double-edged. It's been a barrier to socialising, but that barrier brings other benefits.

So I don't think I have attractiveness issues, but I do have issues about how I can fit the best of "me" into the best of someone else's world without their emotions taking them into wanting too much "me" into "them", because I prefer to have most of "me" for "me", and that "me" includes very much a political motivation for "all" to benefit from whatever I can think or do, rather than romantic possessiveness.

And that's the short version Pickle

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

I feel attractive sometimes. Other times no. But I do think I can entice a person to do the Sex with me, yes. Just the odd one, anyway.

What makes me feel unattractive? My hot sweats and my belly apron

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By *naswingdressWoman
37 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *emidemiWoman
37 weeks ago

basingstoke

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

I feel attractive sometimes, when I feel like I’m putting the effort into my appearance. I’ve been so busy recently that I haven’t had time to, so I’m sure once I have a new hair colour/more fillers I’ll feel better about myself

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By *obilebottomMan
37 weeks ago

All over

Never felt it to be honest even in my hey days but don't overthink ot either. I was also not ever brilliant at receiving compliments - too shy

Well at least back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Having to live with my ex husband. He wears me down every day x"

That must be a difficult situation. I couldn’t do it.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

It depends on my mood I think?. Rarely though.

Mrs x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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37 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut.

Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?

What’s makes you feel unattractive?"

Yes I feel attractive (that's not to say that I think other people feel that I am).

I don't feel confident that I can get a person I desire to have sex with me. See above.

I feel unattractive if I haven't washed my hair in a couple of days of if I'm feeling a bit low.

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By *exySiren01Woman
37 weeks ago

RCT

On a daily basis I don't feel attractive but I think I'm not bad for my age when I'm dressed up ready to go out with my hair done and slap on

What makes me feel unattractive is my belly apron there's no hiding that lol

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By *issBellaWoman
37 weeks ago

Wales

I've been stuck in a rut about how I look for sometime now. But the icing on the shit cake yesterday was a non padded bra. They just sort of lay there loosely swinging around like tennis balls in socks.

I'm trying to dress more for my new shape (I call it the globe) but I just look a mess most days

if anyone has any sexy potion please send it my way. Not that kind of sexy potion though

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By *eviewerMan
37 weeks ago

Louth

Well having an empty inbox would suggest I'm unattractive haha

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
37 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Well having an empty inbox would suggest I'm unattractive haha"

And I'm not going to let that one kill the thread, because that only adds to your concerns.

So I'll kill it instead

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