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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" I've looked worse I guess. Better now I've put some weight back on. And what makes me feel unattractive? Looking in the mirror before I've had my first coffee of the day and not cleaned my glasses.  | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" Being unattractive makes me feel unattractive. I have had too many rejections purely based on my looks to last me a lifetime. I'm generally the guy in the team who ends up going home alone | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut " Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it. " Do you feel attractive? " No, not in every day life. Not at all. " Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)?" Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially! " What’s makes you feel unattractive?" I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair. | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it. Do you feel attractive? No, not in every day life. Not at all. Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially! What’s makes you feel unattractive? I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair. " YOU are sexy and you know it  | |||
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"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes " I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe. | |||
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"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe. " Rare though because I’m alright looking   | |||
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"Sometimes I take a selfie and I think look good (like my profile pic) other times I look at myself and think I look like a bag of potatoes I hate when I take a selfie and I literally look like a big toe. " I hate it especially when the day before I took a pic and I look good (I rarely look at myself and think I look attractive, I just do the best I can | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut Get that confidence back boy, as the title suggests, you’re sexy and you know it. Do you feel attractive? No, not in every day life. Not at all. Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? Whaaaaaaaaat?! No, no, no, no, no. Always luck rather than judgement initially! What’s makes you feel unattractive? I’m just a big ole lump of aged sass and silly now, so a rather unique flavour that doesn’t match many tastes. Difficult to pair. YOU are sexy and you know it "I’m spexy, I know that much! | |||
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"Having to live with my ex husband. He wears me down every day x" That’s a tough situation to do. | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" It’s bossing what you see in the mirror. Having that little bit of mojo. Not always easy. | |||
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"I make myself feel unattractive , I hate myself everyday. I see every flaw in myself . Also years of being beat down by people calling me fat . " Insults have never bothered me. My long term partner calls me his fat bitch | |||
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"I make myself feel unattractive , I hate myself everyday. I see every flaw in myself . Also years of being beat down by people calling me fat . Insults have never bothered me. My long term partner calls me his fat bitch "Starts to hurts after a while though x | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" Blimey...multiple bits to follow. Do I feel attractive? So, in person, my charisma can be too attractive - people start getting a bit jealous when they fall "into it" and realise I prefer to share it. It can get awkward. Physically attractive, less so. That's mostly excess weight, although I have to add that when I've been fit, that and the charisma thing do take a lot of conscious managing from me so others don't get even more possessive etc. Being fat has kept me safe from too much hunger in others, since childhood. Confident for the sexy stuff? It's much more about being confident they're not going to need to dine out on me too frequently. So I hint at "no thank you but you're a very nice person" far more than I let it get to "yes". What makes me feel unattractive? Poverty has limited my options, but it's had the benefit of not meaning I have to manage a bit too much "hunger" from others to have me in their lives, so it's been double-edged. It's been a barrier to socialising, but that barrier brings other benefits. So I don't think I have attractiveness issues, but I do have issues about how I can fit the best of "me" into the best of someone else's world without their emotions taking them into wanting too much "me" into "them", because I prefer to have most of "me" for "me", and that "me" includes very much a political motivation for "all" to benefit from whatever I can think or do, rather than romantic possessiveness. And that's the short version Pickle . | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" I feel attractive sometimes. Other times no. But I do think I can entice a person to do the Sex with me, yes. Just the odd one, anyway. What makes me feel unattractive? My hot sweats and my belly apron | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" I feel attractive sometimes, when I feel like I’m putting the effort into my appearance. I’ve been so busy recently that I haven’t had time to, so I’m sure once I have a new hair colour/more fillers I’ll feel better about myself | |||
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"Having to live with my ex husband. He wears me down every day x" That must be a difficult situation. I couldn’t do it. Mrs x | |||
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"I’ve recently had a dip in confidence. But feeling better again after a haircut. Do you feel attractive? Do you feel confident you can get a person you desire to do the sex with you (or more)? What’s makes you feel unattractive?" Yes I feel attractive (that's not to say that I think other people feel that I am). I don't feel confident that I can get a person I desire to have sex with me. See above. I feel unattractive if I haven't washed my hair in a couple of days of if I'm feeling a bit low. | |||
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 if anyone has any sexy potion please send it my way. Not that kind of sexy potion though  | |||
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"Well having an empty inbox would suggest I'm unattractive haha" And I'm not going to let that one kill the thread, because that only adds to your concerns. So I'll kill it instead . | |||
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