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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I feel rather uneasy when people younger than me call me "sweetheart" etc.

Does anyone else feel this way?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel rather uneasy when people younger than me call me "sweetheart" etc.

Does anyone else feel this way?!"

Why’s that my love?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My favourite terms of endearment are cumdumpster and Princess.

But I dislike terms of endearment from anyone I don't have an endearing connection to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Ah I know what you mean, dearie. It implies a level of familiarity or gives a patronising tone.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I don't like some of those terms to be honest even though lots of people think are acceptable. O mentioned a number of times I find it rather uncomfortable when the young guy at the local coop calls me mate when I go to pay and sometimes pal. I sort of let it go though do feel sometimes replying with something like sweetheart, see how he feels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got told. ‘Love’ today.

- Go ahead love!’

… I had nothing

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Do women use any terms of endearment towards men?

I am always immediately distrusting of anyone who utilises the term ‘dear’.

Mind you, I am a mistrusting sort of dude at the best of times.

A miserable git in actual fact….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a young lad at work who calls everyone “Kid”……… ffs mate, I’ve got socks older than you

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"I feel rather uneasy when people younger than me call me "sweetheart" etc.

Does anyone else feel this way?!"

I only call Alexa that. I’m trying to stop saying ‘thanks sweetheart’ to it

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!"

A dear, a female dear. Ray, a drop of golden sun. Me, a name I call myself. Far, a long, long way to run.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!

A dear, a female dear. Ray, a drop of golden sun. Me, a name I call myself. Far, a long, long way to run. "

That spelling is attrocious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel rather uneasy when people younger than me call me "sweetheart" etc.

Does anyone else feel this way?!"

Good movie Terms of Endearment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they don't call me by my real name then can call me whatever.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

The old timers in my neck of the woods traditionally employed, ‘Duck’ as a term of endearment.

‘Ey up duck.’ ‘Ow do duck?’

Why ducks, I sadly know not.

Why not pigeon? Or possibly goose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they don't call me by my real name then can call me whatever."

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!

A dear, a female dear. Ray, a drop of golden sun. Me, a name I call myself. Far, a long, long way to run.

That spelling is attrocious "

I don't remember that line ^^ in the song, MB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alrite Babe come on my dear my love..alrite kid..move over darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!

A dear, a female dear. Ray, a drop of golden sun. Me, a name I call myself. Far, a long, long way to run.

That spelling is attrocious

I don't remember that line ^^ in the song, MB "

Could do a variety on a hills are alive..

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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Do women use any terms of endearment towards men?

I am always immediately distrusting of anyone who utilises the term ‘dear’.

Mind you, I am a mistrusting sort of dude at the best of times.

A miserable git in actual fact….

"

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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"As long as they don't call me by my real name then can call me whatever."

Yep! Special name etc

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Soho

It is a tad cringe-inducing isn't it? I tend to recoil when they call me "babes". I call them Squirms Of Endearment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends what area they’re from, for me the norm is ‘chick’ or ‘bab’ I don’t think they are on the endearment level though lol but I notice around the country it changes so much x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I use 'duck' rather a lot

People generally seem to let it pass but maybe I'm a marked woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use 'duck' rather a lot

People generally seem to let it pass but maybe I'm a marked woman "

i had a friend from derby that said that often also. He called me "dread", which i quite liked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, it doesn't even register most of the time. People get offended over anything these days. Someone smiles and says 'thanks love' with a smile, and someone gets offended, I don't personally get it.

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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"It is a tad cringe-inducing isn't it? I tend to recoil when they call me "babes". I call them Squirms Of Endearment.

"

Good one!

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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Alrite Babe come on my dear my love..alrite kid..move over darling "

Horrid, isn't it?!

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By *nnocentOne OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Ah I know what you mean, dearie. It implies a level of familiarity or gives a patronising tone."

Exactly that!

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"I've been called dear a few times by 20 something men on here, makes me feel so bloody old!

A dear, a female dear. Ray, a drop of golden sun. Me, a name I call myself. Far, a long, long way to run. "

Tartan army trips and hearing that for days solid - doh a fecking dear off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a work colleague who was genuinely an awesome guy and got on so well with him... But he'd always use the word "buddy" and it never didn't sound condescending

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I feel rather uneasy when people younger than me call me "sweetheart" etc.

Does anyone else feel this way?!"

I like it when he calls me beautiful or baby. I have been princess in the past.

I love it when those who mean something to me call me terms of endearment, it means something. However, I don't object to someone calling me Hun or something like that if I'm in a shop, it's friendly and invariably harmless. You can generally tell by the tone. Cumdumpster or similar would not be appropriate in that situation so would take umbridge at that.

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

I've got a customer who insisted on calling me "chap" all the fucking time!!!

Despite me telling him not to, he still does it bh accident a couple of days, which makes me want to instantly put my tools back in my van, and tell him to royaly get fucked!!!!

But obviously I don't, because I'm faf too nice for that

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't mind them as long as they come from a good place. But them I use them loads and I love that different regions have different terms, I find it kind of endearing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I had a work colleague who was genuinely an awesome guy and got on so well with him... But he'd always use the word "buddy" and it never didn't sound condescending "

Do you use 'duck' Joe? I listed it above as 1 I use a lot

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Being called babe or hun makes me cringe

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Alright! Calm down pet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a work colleague who was genuinely an awesome guy and got on so well with him... But he'd always use the word "buddy" and it never didn't sound condescending

Do you use 'duck' Joe? I listed it above as 1 I use a lot"

I can't say I use duck at all! It's too Derby even for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd really love to be able to say 'dude!' and 'bro!' without looking and sounding ridiculous

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"I'd really love to be able to say 'dude!' and 'bro!' without looking and sounding ridiculous "

I can't even say the f word. Not cut out for 'swearing' apparently

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

When a young guy calls me princess or baby girl

Or if a young person tells me to be a good little girl for daddy or mommy I can’t take it seriously these people still have cradle marks on their ass cheeks

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If I don't know them I hate anything.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd really love to be able to say 'dude!' and 'bro!' without looking and sounding ridiculous

I can't even say the f word. Not cut out for 'swearing' apparently "

I have found myself saying it more easily recently. I put my previous reluctance to swear down to never having even heard the word 'shit' until I started school. Then when I said it at home my mum threatened to take me to the police station

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes or baby, even worse when someone refers to me as dear. I'm not 80 lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long ago there was a bit of a thing in the media about calling women 'love' and how it was patronising and often belittling. And I absolutely understood that because I've definitely seen it used that way online in particular ('Listen love').

But at the same time, it's entirely common where I'm from, and it's not just men who use it. If you're served by a woman in a shop she may well say 'There you go my love' as she hands your item over. If you see someone in the street who seems unsure where they're going it's considered perfectly acceptable to say 'Are you alright my love?'

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Princess

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