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By *lack Orchid 0204 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do yeah. Just more out of curiosity I think x

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
over a year ago

Arlesey

Yeah, I look now and again

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Very rarely.

Only because most days it doesn't show anything at all so if suddenly one day it says someone looked at me I might go to see who because it is such a rarity.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

I do. Just because I can. If I see someone I like who has looked but not messaged I'll harass them till they tell me why.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
over a year ago

Arlesey


"I do. Just because I can. If I see someone I like who has looked but not messaged I'll harass them till they tell me why. "

I don't know what you're talking about lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I do, it’s where I block most people from.

The mr

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We do..

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

not all the time because if i have the filters on then it only shows couples

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By *issmeltingpotWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Now and again

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I do, it’s where I block most people from.

The mr "

Yep this too, especially if too many red flags around the profile... It's an extra handy filter for that haystack / needle finding effort

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's just curiosity, it's a great feature as not everyone decides to message first with nerve's

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I do. Just because I can. If I see someone I like who has looked but not messaged I'll harass them till they tell me why. "

You’re in touch with your masculine side

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Yeah I use it to see who has been looking, it might be the start of something where someone checked out your profile and you hand t seen them before

What would be useful would be a count of the “ninjas” just a number

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc"

Just to see if there are any women or couples foolish enough not to be in ninja mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do yeah. Just more out of curiosity I think x"

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London


"Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc"
. It's the only reason we are site supporters we tend to go months without being a soporter but then curiosity gets the better of me. Mrs muff x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I use it as it's interesting to see who looks, it satisfies a curiosity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The looked at feature is pointless. Or at least that’s how I see it.

One day I can have 10 anothe 5o views. Last week I had 250+ for a few days … and no messages. Go figure.

So what does it mean? I exist and people can find me or see I am logged in.

Until my inbox lights up, I don’t move from this forum. It’s pointless.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

didnt know about it but will now lol

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it as a filter mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more intrigued to see who has looked at my profile. Usually a 5 second job as it's all men

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By *ommy2125Man
over a year ago

down

I check it, but probably lot less views than women and couples as a single chap. I don't like the ninja function no point having it if people can be hidden IMHO.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I check it, but probably lot less views than women and couples as a single chap. I don't like the ninja function no point having it if people can be hidden IMHO."

If you’re a woman or couple it’s essential, unfortunately. A lot of men seem to take us looking at their profile as an invitation to send us a message. They don’t stop to think that if we’d wanted to speak to them after looking at their profile we would’ve messaged them.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

Another vote for using said feature as a filter.

It’s brilliant.

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By *lack Orchid 0204 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's just curiosity, it's a great feature as not everyone decides to message first with nerve's "

So you'd message someone who appeared on your looked at me list because they might be shy/nervous ?

There's a post a bit further down that says that's why They're in ninja mode

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc"

I do as I get a lot of the same people lurking me and not messaging and I find it amusing

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I never use who looked at me as an opportunity to message people tho as surely if they were interested they would have winked or messaged. This is the reason I also use ninja mode myself as men definitely seem to think if you look at them you want to jump on their cock

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We look now and again…

Some people might be busy, too shy so maybe a message from us could get a conversation started.

Even if it’s just to say we like their profile, if it’s intriguing. But most of the time, it’s just interest to see who’s looked.

K

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, if they look numerous times but don't msg I block them or if I've politely declined and they keep looking, I block them.

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By *ldbluMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I always check it as it's nice to know some people do look at me

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By *endalshaggersCouple
over a year ago

Lake District

Yes we look just out of curiosity. Sometimes people who look we have a quick look back at.

Although most people if they do like what they see follow it up with a wink or message

C xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always check it as it's nice to know some people do look at me "

Exactly that

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

When we occasionally lift our filters it’s quite a surprise to see the number of guys that have looked.

Sometimes, when we’re looking for a new guy it helps to see who has been looking multiple times.

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By *irmelaterMan
over a year ago

Telford

I look

Then discover

I'm out of the age range

Not tall enough

To far away

Not big enough

Wrong body shape

Etc etc

The list is endless

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

I think the 397 ladies who checked my profile must have all been in ninja mode as they haven't shown up on my "who's looked" thingy. Strangely the 15 men who have looked do show Strange that!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Rarely but yes sometimes out of curiosity! X

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Occasionally

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Do you use the looked at me feature?

Ignore the fact there be ninja's

When you're not a supporter it just gives a count.. Is it curiosity a need to know whom? They loooked so I wanna look at them?

I've always thought it pointless if the person(s) were interested they would message / wink etc"
I look yes and sometimes message

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By *nnocentOneWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I do, it’s where I block most people from.

The mr "

Yep, I do this too.

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By *aabmanMan
over a year ago

bognor regis


"I look

Then discover

I'm out of the age range

Not tall enough

To far away

Not big enough

Wrong body shape

Etc etc

The list is endless

"

Know exactly what you mean with this

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It's just curiosity, it's a great feature as not everyone decides to message first with nerve's

So you'd message someone who appeared on your looked at me list because they might be shy/nervous ?

There's a post a bit further down that says that's why They're in ninja mode "

Not everyone but some of those have lead to something as well as becoming extremely great friends

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By *dc1Man
over a year ago

essex and all over the south

Im in ninja mode as then people wont know if ive looled at them or not. Just because i look at people doesnt mean im interested in them either

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No I never look at this.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have always thought the same OP

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By *laytime_13Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

Well surely the only way to tell if someone might be of interest is to look at the profile in the first place? Seems reasonable that not all will take your fancy.

And then if you’re anything like me you forget why you weren’t interested and click on them again… hence Ninja mode is very helpful indeed. Well, for that and perving of course

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Used to alot but it's rather depressing to see the same people looking and they never say anything

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