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Deleted people off my friends list again. Some new ones and some old ones. They will not be back!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boils my piss too, hate it when you don't get replies from people on your friends list, I delete them too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

well said "

Thank you. was expecting and still am some slagging off messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havent many on mine, and if we done speak withing two weeks, especially if we've both been online, then i hit the delete button... I usually find it takes them a week or so to notice!

I have noticed that fab has blocked me speaking to ppl on my friends, its happened a few times, been reported by both but nothing has been sorted as of yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, how great. 2 guys on my side. thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Havent many on mine, and if we done speak withing two weeks, especially if we've both been online, then i hit the delete button... I usually find it takes them a week or so to notice!

I have noticed that fab has blocked me speaking to ppl on my friends, its happened a few times, been reported by both but nothing has been sorted as of yet "

Ive found sometimes that its only taken them couple of days and they have asked why so i told them, no contact is the reason, so then they come back on talk for a bit then go non-existent again, so then I block them. hope site sorts you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

well said

Thank you. was expecting and still am some slagging off messages "

Your very welcome, my feelings on this subject, is that people try to collect friends like they do on FB lol , and it aint bloody FB

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."
I understand where you are coming from. Do you find sometimes people dont read messages for ages? I mean not a day or two but a week or longer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree totaly..i find many on here just add peeps as friends even if dont chat..i dont see point.

some peeps been here ages and not verified yet have long friend list.

i only have friends of those i see regular..if i dont i delete as no point having them on list if not gonna see them..after all isnt a friend someone u see wether its all time or every now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a friend....???

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What's a friend....??? "

Watch the inbetweeners

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i havent got a clue who is onmy 'friends' list to get all hot and bothered about them not replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

It could be that they were done with you as soon as they had seen your friends pics

Don't wish to sound awful but that's the sole intent of many on here for adding a friend.

I have been here on and off for 18 months and atm have 7 people on my friends list.

Those people would not be bothered if I contacted them for a month and likewise that would work the other way.

We could just pick up where we left off.

People do have a life and priorities outside of this site and others do not demand constant attention from their friends or immediate responses to every mail they are sent.

The lesson here is choose your friends wisely and step off the gas a bit.

It will become apparent who are friends and who are in it for a sniff round your pics to see if you have 'potential'

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

It will become apparent who are friends and who are in it for a sniff round your pics to see if you have 'potential'"
It is one reason why I only accept friends once I have met them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's your friends list so do with it what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a friend....???

Watch the inbetweeners "

The adverts....???

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What's a friend....???

Watch the inbetweeners

The adverts....??? "
No, the scene where they take the mickey of one of them about being "friends" with somebody outside the group, cant remember names as I had a couple of glasses of something nice.

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn


"Well, how great. 2 guys on my side. thanks guys "

Password .(Pixie) am I right ? Would not let me private message you lol x

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Good for you.

Been in the same situation too.

Am sick of being someone's "reserve" friend who only gets a message from so called friends when their other friends are ignoring them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It will become apparent who are friends and who are in it for a sniff round your pics to see if you have 'potential'It is one reason why I only accept friends once I have met them. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, how great. 2 guys on my side. thanks guys

Password .(Pixie) am I right ? Would not let me private message you lol x"

Yes pixie is right. sorry abt pvt msg but its because you are too young

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good for you.

Been in the same situation too.

Am sick of being someone's "reserve" friend who only gets a message from so called friends when their other friends are ignoring them.

"
I have one "friend" on my list who ive met and now only msgs me when I put a status update.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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It will become apparent who are friends and who are in it for a sniff round your pics to see if you have 'potential'It is one reason why I only accept friends once I have met them. "
I exchange msgs and pics before adding or asking to add as friend if I like their message and look of them (bit shallow I know), if they want to meet then its a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just done the same here for the exact same reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just done the same here for the exact same reasons "

Good for you. I mean its not facebook but come on, why have friends list if no chat is going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I exchange msgs and pics before adding or asking to add as friend if I like their message and look of them (bit shallow I know), if they want to meet then its a bonus"

It's not shallow it's your preference and you have the choice of what you are looking out for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I exchange msgs and pics before adding or asking to add as friend if I like their message and look of them (bit shallow I know), if they want to meet then its a bonus

It's not shallow it's your preference and you have the choice of what you are looking out for."
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a running sliding flying one?

I accept friends for the same reason they do me, so we can see each others private pics after chatting. However I do have those I am friends with having met or wish to meet.

BUT I really can't believe so many take it so seriously for so little.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I try to chat with all my friends ..but girls seldom start the chatting . If I see them online I tend to say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a friend is a friend...you dont need them on a list. You'll know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a friend is a friend...you dont need them on a list. You'll know it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have friends on my list that I've met and some I haven't met but would like to.

I don't expect them to message me to chat regularly. In fact I'm not one for chatting on a one to one basis via private pms so I don't do this regularly, I log on mainly to come on forums. Similarly I don't message others on a regular basis either.

Its all easygoing stuff for me. People don't have to abide by a set of rules to keep my friendship and I don't jump through hoops for others either. They are on my list and I theirs because we have built up a rapport and will message as and when we both wish to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have friends on my list that I've met and some I haven't met but would like to.

I don't expect them to message me to chat regularly. In fact I'm not one for chatting on a one to one basis via private pms so I don't do this regularly, I log on mainly to come on forums. Similarly I don't message others on a regular basis either.

Its all easygoing stuff for me. People don't have to abide by a set of rules to keep my friendship and I don't jump through hoops for others either. They are on my list and I theirs because we have built up a rapport and will message as and when we both wish to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

It's your friends list and up to you what you do with it, but maybe if you'd chosen your 'friends' with a little more care you wouldn't have to delete them. Do you do that in real life if someone doesn't answer a text message straight away? It comes across as a tad needy tbh.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

You do realise that Just because it's called a friends list doesn't mean they are your actual friends don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

Maybe you should be more selective about who you add if it's causing you that much anger an upset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

I am sorry but this OP made me chuckle do you speak to all your "normal" friends once every week? Do you contact everyone on your friends list regularly? Do you answer all your messages promptly?

If the answer is yes to all, then that's good!!

I have real friends who I don't talk to for months! But that doesn't make me or them say " your not my friend anymore"

We just pick up where we left off!

Communication is a two way thing, just because they haven't replied to your messages straight away doesn't make them non friend material!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

'they will not be back' did make me smile.

Hey, they will get on with their lives & you enjoy yours..

Win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to go through mine there are a few i don't really speak to as they bored me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete everyone on my friend list that doesn't mail me every 6 hours and everyone that won't shag me every other day.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I delete everyone on my friend list that doesn't mail me every 6 hours and everyone that won't shag me every other day. "

Fair weather friend.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I delete everyone on my friend list that doesn't mail me every 6 hours and everyone that won't shag me every other day.

Fair weather friend..... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'they will not be back' did make me smile.

Hey, they will get on with their lives & you enjoy yours..

Win win. "
I will but 2 of them have already looked at me this morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

I am sorry but this OP made me chuckle do you speak to all your "normal" friends once every week? Do you contact everyone on your friends list regularly? Do you answer all your messages promptly?

If the answer is yes to all, then that's good!!

I have real friends who I don't talk to for months! But that doesn't make me or them say " your not my friend anymore"

We just pick up where we left off!

Communication is a two way thing, just because they haven't replied to your messages straight away doesn't make them non friend material!

"

Im glad I made you laugh. Yes I do speak to my real friends regularly and they to me. I like to chat and the guys on my list know that, but if they are online does it hurt for them to say hi, I do it and get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

Maybe you should be more selective about who you add if it's causing you that much anger an upset? "

I thought I had been more selective but there you go. They were just want to perv pics, which I accept is what happens, I do it too, whether to them or new ones, if I like the look of someone new I will say hi and will keep chatting if they want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You do realise that Just because it's called a friends list doesn't mean they are your actual friends don't you? "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as soon as you delete them. They MSG you asking why you've deleted them?.... Wtf???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

It's your friends list and up to you what you do with it, but maybe if you'd chosen your 'friends' with a little more care you wouldn't have to delete them. Do you do that in real life if someone doesn't answer a text message straight away? It comes across as a tad needy tbh."

I aint needy, just honest.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You do realise that Just because it's called a friends list doesn't mean they are your actual friends don't you?

Yep"

Good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say it seems rather dramatic if being honest. Friends as i see it whether here or real life are forever unless something major happens.

I do see the frustration side of it but if something as trivial as this bothers you then the world is doomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

well said

Thank you. was expecting and still am some slagging off messages

Your very welcome, my feelings on this subject, is that people try to collect friends like they do on FB lol , and it aint bloody FB "

Keep saying this about 'Friends' on here. A lot of people think the way I use my friends list is a tad ruthless, but it certainly stops a lot of what the OP is on about.

Like everything else on Fabs, it is just a site tool to use in a way which works for the user - and no more. And you're right - this is NOT 'Bookface'!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've a few friends - sometimes we chat, sometimes we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a newby here its still WOOHOO a message but if friends dont start a conversation every now and then and its one sided then they arent saying on my list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh my god what a laugh reading this thread, who really cares at all, just use the site how you want to but you dont need to tell everyone how your using it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt it called " conversation "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oh my god what a laugh reading this thread, who really cares at all, just use the site how you want to but you dont need to tell everyone how your using it."

I am using it how I want to use it and I have seen more stupid topics on forum than this one. And if I want to tell everyone something then I will. I didnt make anyone read my topic or reply - its a free country or so I thought!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And as soon as you delete them. They MSG you asking why you've deleted them?.... Wtf???"

Yep Ive had that and they also look at you as well. pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

Well said I feel the same as you it seems to be me always making contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh my god what a laugh reading this thread, who really cares at all, just use the site how you want to but you dont need to tell everyone how your using it.

I am using it how I want to use it and I have seen more stupid topics on forum than this one. And if I want to tell everyone something then I will. I didnt make anyone read my topic or reply - its a free country or so I thought!!"

So you get arsey when people don't reply to your private messages, and you get arsey when people DO reply to your forum threads. You're not an easy person to please, I suspect.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Looking from the other angle.

I am not a prolific messenger and friends do take the piss from time to time that they always have to message me first. However, I don't think I have any friends that are that needy that they require constant communication to maintain our friendship.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Entirely up to you how you manage your own account.

Genuine question though - why do you add people as friends in the first place? What is your motivation for doing it?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

At most we had around 8. Now we have 2. We regard one as a friend and one we all hope becomes one. We don't see any point in adding anyone until friendship is established and trust. We still get friends requests and all we do now is accept them when they're offline and bat out between us if we'd look to meet. It's your list, your choice x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i havent got a clue who is onmy 'friends' list to get all hot and bothered about them not replying "

Because you have a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a friend....???

Watch the inbetweeners "
lol.i love that program.friends

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"oh my god what a laugh reading this thread, who really cares at all, just use the site how you want to but you dont need to tell everyone how your using it.

I am using it how I want to use it and I have seen more stupid topics on forum than this one. And if I want to tell everyone something then I will. I didnt make anyone read my topic or reply - its a free country or so I thought!!

So you get arsey when people don't reply to your private messages, and you get arsey when people DO reply to your forum threads. You're not an easy person to please, I suspect."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

It's your friends list and up to you what you do with it, but maybe if you'd chosen your 'friends' with a little more care you wouldn't have to delete them. Do you do that in real life if someone doesn't answer a text message straight away? It comes across as a tad needy tbh.

I aint needy, just honest. "

So you message people just because you see them on line. Take exception to them not replying. Delete them and publicly beaten them for not replying and keep an eye on them via looked at me. And thqt's not needy?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i havent got a clue who is onmy 'friends' list to get all hot and bothered about them not replying

Because you have a life!"

I do indeed.

I also think it's Rude to impose myself on others. I'm surprised that the op's friends didn't delete her after constantly messaging them when they pop on line and not waiting for them to reply to the initial message

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I ain't time messaging everyone on my friends lol...and certainly don't speak to them everyday....I rarely delete apart from if they have annoyed me or whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them.

It's your friends list and up to you what you do with it, but maybe if you'd chosen your 'friends' with a little more care you wouldn't have to delete them. Do you do that in real life if someone doesn't answer a text message straight away? It comes across as a tad needy tbh.

I aint needy, just honest.

So you message people just because you see them on line. Take exception to them not replying. Delete them and publicly beaten them for not replying and keep an eye on them via looked at me. And thqt's not needy?"

* berate not beaten

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I had a ham sandwich for lunch....

Discuss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a ham sandwich for lunch....

Discuss!

"

White or brown bread?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I had a ham sandwich for lunch....

Discuss!

"

Parisian? Parma?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your opening post does read as if you feel guys should respond to you straight away because you've bestowed the honour of befriending them. And if they don't that's it, they are off, never to be allowed that privilege again (but you'll keep checking the looked at me to see if they've noticed that you've punished them by removing them).

Like I said previously, I don't demand how often friends message me. if there's one thing that does get my goat though is people asking me why I haven't responded when I've been online for such and such length of time. I don't do requests, ill message when I want to and ill read messages when I want. I am not beholden to anyone on here and if people question me about the use of my own time, then I don't take very positively to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

NICE PEOPLE. TAKE THE FUCKING PISS THEN

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your opening post does read as if you feel guys should respond to you straight away because you've bestowed the honour of befriending them. And if they don't that's it, they are off, never to be allowed that privilege again (but you'll keep checking the looked at me to see if they've noticed that you've punished them by removing them).

Like I said previously, I don't demand how often friends message me. if there's one thing that does get my goat though is people asking me why I haven't responded when I've been online for such and such length of time. I don't do requests, ill message when I want to and ill read messages when I want. I am not beholden to anyone on here and if people question me about the use of my own time, then I don't take very positively to that. "

I dont message them asking to speak and dont look at them once I have deleted them to see if they are checking for whatever. I dont question people either. They dont want to reply to my messages then I delete them. Its all I was trying to say. But its now turned into a pisstake for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore the piss takers! They troll most the forums. I do the same as you Hun, it's your choice who's on the list. A couple of people I've blocked too for being what I feel is pathetic. Other might not agree but who cares.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just ignore the piss takers! They troll most the forums. I do the same as you Hun, it's your choice who's on the list. A couple of people I've blocked too for being what I feel is pathetic. Other might not agree but who cares. "
Thank you for your support. Yes I will make my choice re friends.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fuck me! I never knew I was supposed to CHAT to them!

I just keep them in the little list so I can find them easy when I want them.

Shit ..... I've never demanded that they massage my fragile ego ...

Frit it!

You two ! You know who you are and you know you posted on this thread.

Get messaging me .........now !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who really cares? Virtual friends are like confetti, they flutter on the cyber winds and end up in the bin when the place is swept..........that is deep?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Just a rant to get it off my chest. Not looking for comments but feel free - no doubt I will get some.

Have deleted old and new friends off my list. Am sick to death of them being on there and not speaking. Admittedly, I dont speak all the time but have done and either waited days for a reply even though ive seen them online. Am done with them."

The fact you feel the need to rant about it is very telling.

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