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By *oldfish69 OP   Man
30 weeks ago

near you

Me and ex were swinging for a number of years and I lo ed it trying to introduce my wife she seems to be into the fantasy of it but really nervous about the reality she not confident enough for a club visit any one any suggestions how can make fantasy into reality

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By *CLM87Woman
30 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Firstly I would suggest starting a couples profile.

That way she can have a look around and see what she thinks... also looks less red flag than if you are asking from a singles profile.

Also a social first... she can talk to the guy and make sure she's feeling happy and doesn't get put in a room where she may feel she can't say stop or no.

I hope she enjoys it

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

Maybe try a social where you can both talk to like minded couples without any pressure of doing anything

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Talk to her. Work out what she might be comfortable with. Go slowly.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Give it some time. Anything that feels like pressure is really off-putting. It took at least a year from B planting the seed of the idea for me to even consider going anywhere. And even then we went to a club in Amsterdam because it felt less like real life.

J

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By *offiaCoolWoman
30 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?"

Well, what can possibly go wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago


"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?

Well, what can possibly go wrong there "

Sitcoms cannot compete.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
30 weeks ago

Kidsgrove


"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?

Well, what can possibly go wrong there

Sitcoms cannot compete."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

See how you get on in Weston super mare, with the 3 sum. Then talk

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By *oldfish69 OP   Man
30 weeks ago

near you

Don't judge unless you know full story/situation

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Don't judge unless you know full story/situation "

You've said she's nervous and yet you're thinking about setting her up.

That's enough for me to judge

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds


"Judging by your status update you already have a plan ? Advertising which hotel you are going to be in, and advertising for a man to come chat her up ?"

Advice - don't do your status!!

Couples profile and show her around, don't try to set her up without her consent.

Some people just aren't into it and that's ok.

Mrs

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