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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I’m relatively new to this and not very successful. I am on this site because I’m a horny bastard NOT because I’m desperate.

I’m always respectful to people, never vulgar etc but still I seem to get nowhere. Advice anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Start getting desperate

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By *agnar73Man
25 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I’m relatively new to this and not very successful. I am on this site because I’m a horny bastard NOT because I’m desperate.

I’m always respectful to people, never vulgar etc but still I seem to get nowhere. Advice anyone?"

Stay that way. Longer term having a reputation as not a dick might pay off, people can change their minds if most messages are dick pics or the usual banal stuff.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

Have a wank before chatting to anyone

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By *CLM87Woman
25 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Get verified.. it shows that you are who you say you are.

Unfortunately your up against it as most women on here have a massive amount to choose from and so can be really picky.

Also the amount of messages women get you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Have you tried clubs?

Have you tried going to socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Also I don’t think anyone on here is desperate.

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By *CLM87Woman
25 weeks ago

Derbyshire


"Also I don’t think anyone on here is desperate. "

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito

Patience. 5 months is not a long time on here.

Go to clubs or organised socials and start meeting people there. Then you’ll start getting to know more people in the scene.

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito

And I just read your profile, I like it cos it’s funny. Stay respectful, patient and humorous and I’m sure you’ll be great at clubs and socials. And get involved in the forums to keep up to date on local events.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Patience. 5 months is not a long time on here.

Go to clubs or organised socials and start meeting people there. Then you’ll start getting to know more people in the scene."

See! Clubs and socials!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
25 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

OP you’re onto something with your status.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
25 weeks ago

Llanelli

Hang some weights from your balls OP while you wait for a meet

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By *red333Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

Welcome and good luck my one piece of advice..... Stand out or get nowhere

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I won’t bother reading your profile but I can tell you now - if you think with your little brain over your big brain then there’s where you are going wrong.

Women like to see what’s going on in the big brain before they get to see the little brain.

Good luck

K

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands


"I won’t bother reading your profile but I can tell you now - if you think with your little brain over your big brain then there’s where you are going wrong.

Women like to see what’s going on in the big brain before they get to see the little brain.

Good luck

K"

Where's the big brain?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Has anyone suggested being attractive? That’s the best advice I ever got

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
25 weeks ago

Merseyside


"I’m relatively new to this and not very successful. I am on this site because I’m a horny bastard NOT because I’m desperate.

I’m always respectful to people, never vulgar etc but still I seem to get nowhere. Advice anyone?"

Your profile is funny maybe add some interests from the tick list and stay you - that will

Pay off

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
25 weeks ago

North West

Sorry OP, all I can hear in my head is this: https://g.co/kgs/BH9scDy

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I won’t bother reading your profile but I can tell you now - if you think with your little brain over your big brain then there’s where you are going wrong.

Women like to see what’s going on in the big brain before they get to see the little brain.

Good luck

K

Where's the big brain?"

I meant bird…I always think what big bird would do

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
25 weeks ago

manchester


"I’m relatively new to this and not very successful. I am on this site because I’m a horny bastard NOT because I’m desperate.

I’m always respectful to people, never vulgar etc but still I seem to get nowhere. Advice anyone?"

You’d be better on a dating app given your age.

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By *partharmonyCouple
25 weeks ago

Ruislip

Show yourself to be somebody women would enjoy meeting. That's about all you can do. There are many more men on this site than women and there isn't the desire to cater for all men here. That's just how it is I'm afraid.

You can only put yourself in the position of being worth meeting and hope for the best. Just don't be one of those men who thinks you thinks all you have to do is show cock and say "Hi".

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By *ot to giggleWoman
25 weeks ago

Coventry

you lot scare him he hidden his profile !

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