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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford

I’m less obnoxious in person. Also taller.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m less obnoxious in person. Also taller."
same. But shorter and fatter (which I’m learning to love )

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Nobody meets me. So nobody knows.

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes they are, I'm even more sarcastic in person!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Nobody meets me. So nobody knows. "
Well… I think you’re needed at a picnic in London this summer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Yes they are, I'm even more sarcastic in person! "

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton

I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Nobody meets me. So nobody knows. Well… I think you’re needed at a picnic in London this summer"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me "
when I’ve met you- you’ve been just as lovely and genuine but I think you’re more confident in person? Maybe that’s the wine?

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By *orace99Man
25 weeks ago

York

I am more likely to talk to someone online than in person.

Definitely not forward in person.

Saying that I have never met anyone on here either

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me "

Are you naked as often in person?

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hope I come across terribly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I hope I come across terribly "

You fucking do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

Are you naked as often in person? "

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By *naswingdressWoman
25 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I hope I come across terribly

You fucking do"

Perfect

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

Are you naked as often in person? "

Absolutely apart from in public or at work ... at home naked all the time

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me when I’ve met you- you’ve been just as lovely and genuine but I think you’re more confident in person? Maybe that’s the wine? "

Oh definitely the wine

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I’m not really constant in either. Sometimes I’m playful, sometimes I like my own space, in both worlds. I think I’m a bit of an old git now and quite comfortable, happy and confident with my online and real world self

Some folks like me, some don’t. Some folks I like, some I don’t. That’s just how it should be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I am more likely to talk to someone online than in person.

Definitely not forward in person.

Saying that I have never met anyone on here either "

I think the screen and the online gives us that little bit of extra confidence and makes rejection slightly easier. For me anyway. So in that sense I get what you mean about talking to people

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By *ornucopiaMan
25 weeks ago

Bexley

I wank far less in person.

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

Are you naked as often in person?

Absolutely apart from in public or at work ... at home naked all the time "

Think of the heating bills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I hope I come across terribly

You fucking do

Perfect "

Makes me want you more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I wank far less in person."

You don’t come across as wanking a lot online. Or a wanker

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

Are you naked as often in person?

Absolutely apart from in public or at work ... at home naked all the time

Think of the heating bills "

They're very low...our flat is like an oven most of the year lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me when I’ve met you- you’ve been just as lovely and genuine but I think you’re more confident in person? Maybe that’s the wine?

Oh definitely the wine "

You should be more confident. Honestly you’re great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m not really constant in either. Sometimes I’m playful, sometimes I like my own space, in both worlds. I think I’m a bit of an old git now and quite comfortable, happy and confident with my online and real world self

Some folks like me, some don’t. Some folks I like, some I don’t. That’s just how it should be "

That’s real

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I’m less monosyllabic in real life

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford


"I’m less monosyllabic in real life"

Aye

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By *oxy jWoman
25 weeks ago

somerset

to be honest im me i dont act up online i dont care about what others think i have a very large vanilla friends base and a even larger swingers friends base so i must be a ok sort of person....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m less monosyllabic in real life"

Oh

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby

From what people have told me at socials, I think I'm the same on here as in real life and come across as someone who will show my emotion on my face/posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"to be honest im me i dont act up online i dont care about what others think i have a very large vanilla friends base and a even larger swingers friends base so i must be a ok sort of person....

"

I’m sure you’re grand

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

Please do the Potato survey thread if you have not done already. We need a bigger sample for accurate results. (Sorry OP for the intrusion). Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"From what people have told me at socials, I think I'm the same on here as in real life and come across as someone who will show my emotion on my face/posts "

Yeah I love that about you. Good vibes for sure

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes"

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Please do the Potato survey thread if you have not done already. We need a bigger sample for accurate results. (Sorry OP for the intrusion). Thanks. "

I thought my site supporter got me ad free

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By *ellroseWoman
25 weeks ago

Solihull


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr "

No comment

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

If I were to guess, I'd say I'm probably more reserved in person, until I know someone better. I have the same propensity for crap jokes though.

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby


"From what people have told me at socials, I think I'm the same on here as in real life and come across as someone who will show my emotion on my face/posts

Yeah I love that about you. Good vibes for sure"

Cheers man, I like to try and match the energy of people around me but always got good vibes from you too

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby


"Please do the Potato survey thread if you have not done already. We need a bigger sample for accurate results. (Sorry OP for the intrusion). Thanks.

I thought my site supporter got me ad free "

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me when I’ve met you- you’ve been just as lovely and genuine but I think you’re more confident in person? Maybe that’s the wine?

Oh definitely the wine You should be more confident. Honestly you’re great. "

I'm trying to be , I have moments of confidence xx thank you lovely xx

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By *sWyldWoman
25 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Mostly I'm the same I think, although less confident in person

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm told I come across as a playa online / dating apps.

I'm lovely irl tho.

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By *WB85Man
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yeah I think so. I only meet a select few people on here but they tend to see me more than once, so I do something right.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
25 weeks ago

North Wales

I think I come across better online than I do in person, I'm not as sarcastic online

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By *icecouple561Couple
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25 weeks ago

East Sussex

Dunno. Really I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I don't really care.

Only those I meet will ever know what I'm actually like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr "

You’re alright on here. Must be ace irl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"If I were to guess, I'd say I'm probably more reserved in person, until I know someone better. I have the same propensity for crap jokes though. "
ah… the jokes come too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Mostly I'm the same I think, although less confident in person "

I hear it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm told I come across as a playa online / dating apps.

I'm lovely irl tho. "

you can be a lovely player

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Yeah I think so. I only meet a select few people on here but they tend to see me more than once, so I do something right. "

The sex. You do the sex right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I come across better online than I do in person, I'm not as sarcastic online "

Fair. Sarcasm online is tough

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
25 weeks ago

your head

I let the crazy out in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Dunno. Really I don't "

I dunno for you either. I genuinely don’t.

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By *arialoueWoman
25 weeks ago

bradford

I'm shy in person than I am online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I don't really care.

Only those I meet will ever know what I'm actually like. "

Fair play

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr

You’re alright on here. Must be ace irl "

We will see one day, when we are at the same social

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I let the crazy out in real life. "

Masking is hard work

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By *dam1971Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford


"I let the crazy out in real life. "

That’s a good thing. Boring can fuck right off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr

You’re alright on here. Must be ace irl

We will see one day, when we are at the same social

Mr "

A threat?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
25 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I think I'm about the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm shy in person than I am online "

Totally get that

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"If I were to guess, I'd say I'm probably more reserved in person, until I know someone better. I have the same propensity for crap jokes though. ah… the jokes come too?"

Yeah, I can't help myself.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
25 weeks ago

your head


"I let the crazy out in real life.

That’s a good thing. Boring can fuck right off."

Boring is, well, boring

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By *ellroseWoman
25 weeks ago

Solihull

I’m told I’m more confident and approachable when they’ve met me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"If I were to guess, I'd say I'm probably more reserved in person, until I know someone better. I have the same propensity for crap jokes though. ah… the jokes come too?

Yeah, I can't help myself. "

terrifying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m told I’m more confident and approachable when they’ve met me "

In

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I come across terrible online, I’m totally different in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I come across terrible online, I’m totally different in person "

Even worse or better irl ?

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By *ea monkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve been told that in person I’m much funnier, silly, and much nicer than I appear online.

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By *aseylee324Couple
25 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I was recently told that I was sooo nice in person, not at all scary as I appear online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’ve been told that in person I’m much funnier, silly, and much nicer than I appear online. "
And taller actually.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr

You’re alright on here. Must be ace irl

We will see one day, when we are at the same social

Mr

A threat? "

No threats, it would be a pleasure to meet me lol....

Mr

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By *iscean_dreamMan
25 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's)

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm quite blunt and opinionated on line and in real life but I seem to be able to fit in and do quite well in a lot of environments both socially and professionally.

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I’ve been told that in person I’m much funnier, silly, and much nicer than I appear online. "

Well I'd better get my arse back to Manchester

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By *edeWoman
25 weeks ago

the abyss

People seems to like my accent which holds their attention for a bit. Until they remember I'm an annoying twat and slowly start inching away

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's) "

You're funny I'll give you that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's) "
fuck them anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm quite blunt and opinionated on line and in real life but I seem to be able to fit in and do quite well in a lot of environments both socially and professionally. "

Love that for you

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By *agerMorganMan
25 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"People seems to like my accent which holds their attention for a bit. Until they remember I'm an annoying twat and slowly start inching away "

You have a face irl. So different to online

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
25 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J

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By *iscean_dreamMan
25 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's) fuck them anyway"

I did, they didn't complain about that part

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here. "

Well I certainly don't think that xx

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By *J the bullMan
25 weeks ago

Washington

I gu3ss I do had my share of meets.. some good some bad. But that's fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here. "

you come across well on here imo

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By *iscean_dreamMan
25 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's)

You're funny I'll give you that "

My humour is a strong point

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
25 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

Fuck knows, but probably alot more approachable irl......tbf I'm a fucking dick on here

Mr "

Never

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I'm a delight online and in person, nobody has said I'm a twat yet (apart from ex's)

You're funny I'll give you that

My humour is a strong point "

I could insert a joke about giving you one ... but I won't

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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I don't know.

Guess it depends on how the other views/feels about me. If I'm having a sensory overload. If I like you. How comfortable I feel around someone.

Oh I waffle as much in real life if I'm not flustered.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Boner in their pants is a give away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J"

agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I gu3ss I do had my share of meets.. some good some bad. But that's fab "
god forbid I have a bad meet

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By *agerMorganMan
25 weeks ago

Canvey Island


"I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here.

Well I certainly don't think that xx"

Thank you xx

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By *ensuallover1000Man
25 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m kind of more three dimensional in person…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I don't know.

Guess it depends on how the other views/feels about me. If I'm having a sensory overload. If I like you. How comfortable I feel around someone.

Oh I waffle as much in real life if I'm not flustered."

To me, you are so lovely and warm irl just like on here.

Also you look good on the dancefloor

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By *ea monkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"People seems to like my accent which holds their attention for a bit. Until they remember I'm an annoying twat and slowly start inching away "

Still here a year later… obviously you’re not that annoying

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here.

Well I certainly don't think that xx

Thank you xx"

You're welcome x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
25 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me "

I best not say hey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m kind of more three dimensional in person…"
like .. what does that mean?

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By *ea monkeyMan
25 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing. "

Was there one there that day?

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton


"I think I'm the same in real life as I am online.. I dunno OP ..you tell me

I best not say hey "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing.

Was there one there that day? "

I’m smol. So you may have missed me

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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"I don't know.

Guess it depends on how the other views/feels about me. If I'm having a sensory overload. If I like you. How comfortable I feel around someone.

Oh I waffle as much in real life if I'm not flustered.

To me, you are so lovely and warm irl just like on here.

Also you look good on the dancefloor "

Except when I decide I need to twerk to WAP and end up twisting my ankle. Tequila and twerking aren't a winning combination.

You're really sweet Pickle. On here and in person.

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By *yesgreenMan
25 weeks ago

north and south


"I’m kind of more three dimensional in person… like .. what does that mean?"
Am funnier in real life so my friends say after I have untied them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"I come across terrible online, I’m totally different in person

Even worse or better irl ?"

A lot better haha

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By *agerMorganMan
25 weeks ago

Canvey Island


"I like to think that I come across the same as in person.

But I have the hunch that people think I’m a bit of a bellend here. you come across well on here imo"

Thanks dude

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...

Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I don't know.

Guess it depends on how the other views/feels about me. If I'm having a sensory overload. If I like you. How comfortable I feel around someone.

Oh I waffle as much in real life if I'm not flustered.

To me, you are so lovely and warm irl just like on here.

Also you look good on the dancefloor

Except when I decide I need to twerk to WAP and end up twisting my ankle. Tequila and twerking aren't a winning combination.

You're really sweet Pickle. On here and in person.

"

Rapping to WAP at UTB is one of my fab highlights.

You have great taste

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I’m kind of more three dimensional in person… like .. what does that mean?Am funnier in real life so my friends say after I have untied them lol "

Do you only tie up your sexual friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I don't know.

Guess it depends on how the other views/feels about me. If I'm having a sensory overload. If I like you. How comfortable I feel around someone.

Oh I waffle as much in real life if I'm not flustered.

To me, you are so lovely and warm irl just like on here.

Also you look good on the dancefloor

Except when I decide I need to twerk to WAP and end up twisting my ankle. Tequila and twerking aren't a winning combination.

You're really sweet Pickle. On here and in person.

"

She wants the D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point "

Email?

Oh -

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point "

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

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By *emorefridaCouple
25 weeks ago

La la land

I'm a heck of a lot more shy in real life. But I'm just as opinionated and forthright in real life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal! "

Proper boomer stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm a heck of a lot more shy in real life. But I'm just as opinionated and forthright in real life. "

Can’t wait to meet you

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By *edeWoman
25 weeks ago

the abyss


"People seems to like my accent which holds their attention for a bit. Until they remember I'm an annoying twat and slowly start inching away

You have a face irl. So different to online"

I have a face for some people on here

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By *iscean_dreamMan
25 weeks ago

Llanelli


"I'm a heck of a lot more shy in real life. But I'm just as opinionated and forthright in real life. "

I loved meeting you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"People seems to like my accent which holds their attention for a bit. Until they remember I'm an annoying twat and slowly start inching away

You have a face irl. So different to online

I have a face for some people on here "

That’s actually crazy talk

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By *yorks4couplesMan
25 weeks ago

doncaster

I definitely dont come accross as i intend. Ive also turned to forums and positive.. mainly lol

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
25 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Hmm, honestly I'm chatty, chaotic and jump easily between mulitple conversations in real life as I do online. Plus I am easily distracted by stuff and at least online I can think before I speak mostly.

So probably about the same. But there are more questions. Random hugs (if people are huggy types) and I'm more confident once I've spoken to someone in the real world.

MrsAbz

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal! "

Your supposed to sign off email

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Hmm, honestly I'm chatty, chaotic and jump easily between mulitple conversations in real life as I do online. Plus I am easily distracted by stuff and at least online I can think before I speak mostly.

So probably about the same. But there are more questions. Random hugs (if people are huggy types) and I'm more confident once I've spoken to someone in the real world.

MrsAbz"

This is relatable.

Random hugs with people you know/ like

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By *oeBeansMan
25 weeks ago

Derby


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

Your supposed to sign off email "

Oh Midders... I bet the kitchen area goes all quiet when you walk into it, right?

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

Proper boomer stuff"

I'm not a boomer you cheeky tw*t

I'm a Gen X!

Rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

Proper boomer stuff

I'm not a boomer you cheeky tw*t

I'm a Gen X!

Rude "

Ok boomer x

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...


"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

Your supposed to sign off email

Oh Midders... I bet the kitchen area goes all quiet when you walk into it, right? "

Ummmmm.....

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

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"Apparently i come across as very short/unfriendly on email, mainly because i never think to start with 'hi, hope you are well'

I'm straight to the point

I bet you don't even sign off with "Kind Regards" you animal!

Proper boomer stuff

I'm not a boomer you cheeky tw*t

I'm a Gen X!

Rude

Ok boomer x"

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By *entlemanrogueMan
25 weeks ago

Motherwell

I think i am consistently my true self online and in real life

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By *ed MartinMan
25 weeks ago

Shefford


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes"

I try to be approachable in all formats, I’m not sure how well I achieve that though. I do know that my humour sometimes doesn’t translate well in written format though. I also find social situations quite exhausting, so struggle to be lively and fun for an entire day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think i am consistently my true self online and in real life"
Excellent!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

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By *ynamicnatureMan
25 weeks ago

Doncaster

For me, up until joining this site I was a social media virgin.

I'm not really sure how I come across to others? But I do struggle to express myself freely on here as compared to face to face.

I'm learning to relax and having a good time overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

We are more physical in a meet, compared to chatting online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Are people pleasantly surprised when they meet you?

Do you come across worse online? Meaner? Less confident? Less fun? Or more confident? More approachable?

You get the vibes

I try to be approachable in all formats, I’m not sure how well I achieve that though. I do know that my humour sometimes doesn’t translate well in written format though. I also find social situations quite exhausting, so struggle to be lively and fun for an entire day!"

shit is hard online fr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito

No. I’m just as terrible in person as I am online.

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By *hrek101Man
25 weeks ago

Herts

More chatty and engaging in real life, dare I say it but even been told charming. I probably pretty bland online, at least that's what the data suggests.

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By *yesgreenMan
25 weeks ago

north and south


"No. I’m just as terrible in person as I am online. "
only lady friends who enjoy my funny naughty nature

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By *eekingfwbWoman
25 weeks ago

kent

I like to think my banter comes across in message, however my last couple of veris (I don’t display so they haven’t seen each others) have both said sassy, funny and confident so must be doing something right I guess.

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
25 weeks ago

Beverley

Online or on here?

Online amongst friends I guess. On here, in the forums people don't read what I write because it's majority males and I haven't got tits, and in messages they get deleted before they're even reas because I've got a dick, so I don't really care I guess?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
25 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J

agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing. "

I like you lots. Be less young.

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"No. I’m just as terrible in person as I am online. "
worse in person even

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By *eekingfwbWoman
25 weeks ago

kent


"Online or on here?

Online amongst friends I guess. On here, in the forums people don't read what I write because it's majority males and I haven't got tits, and in messages they get deleted before they're even reas because I've got a dick, so I don't really care I guess? "

I’m intrigued to know what the third degree is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J

agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing.

I like you lots. Be less young.

J"

Friends is good with me

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By *heGateKeeperMan
25 weeks ago

Stratford

I think I’m relatively the same but also don’t think people know what to expect if they are lucky enough to meet me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"More chatty and engaging in real life, dare I say it but even been told charming. I probably pretty bland online, at least that's what the data suggests."
ah the data

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I like to think my banter comes across in message, however my last couple of veris (I don’t display so they haven’t seen each others) have both said sassy, funny and confident so must be doing something right I guess. "
niceeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Online or on here?

Online amongst friends I guess. On here, in the forums people don't read what I write because it's majority males and I haven't got tits, and in messages they get deleted before they're even reas because I've got a dick, so I don't really care I guess? "

I get you

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito


"No. I’m just as terrible in person as I am online. worse in person even"

Aww I’m so glad you noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I’m relatively the same but also don’t think people know what to expect if they are lucky enough to meet me "

You were way nicer in person. online you’re a prick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"No. I’m just as terrible in person as I am online. worse in person even

Aww I’m so glad you noticed "

I just thought you liked me

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J

agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing.

I like you lots. Be less young.

J"

I’m old. Will I do?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
25 weeks ago

London

I have a face, wrinkles and clothes on in person

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
25 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"I am a total disappointment. Sigh.

J

agreed. Don’t like really attractive, funny, young men from London. That was disappointing.

I like you lots. Be less young.

J

I’m old. Will I do?"

Yes

J (and I'm pretty sure I speak for B too)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I have a face, wrinkles and clothes on in person "
pretty face

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito


"I have a face, wrinkles and clothes on in person pretty face "

And very elegant lady

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
25 weeks ago

ashford

Think I'm same in person as I am online tbh x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Think I'm same in person as I am online tbh x"

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
25 weeks ago

London


"I have a face, wrinkles and clothes on in person pretty face

And very elegant lady "

Thank you sexy

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By *heGateKeeperMan
25 weeks ago

Stratford


"I think I’m relatively the same but also don’t think people know what to expect if they are lucky enough to meet me

You were way nicer in person. online you’re a prick"

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By *nnCeeWoman
25 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I reckon most people think I'm a twat.

In fact, I'm pretty sure most people think I'm a twat.

Possibly more so online, as reading text loses the intonation and delivery I might be able to add in person.

I try to make people laugh, but I think my 'jokes' fall flat.

None of you have met me IRL, so who knows what you'd think.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm the same here as I am in real life but anyone I meet still tend to be pleasantly surprised when they meet me.

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By *inxy777Woman
25 weeks ago

essex

I think I’m the same on here and in person x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I reckon most people think I'm a twat.

In fact, I'm pretty sure most people think I'm a twat.

Possibly more so online, as reading text loses the intonation and delivery I might be able to add in person.

I try to make people laugh, but I think my 'jokes' fall flat.

None of you have met me IRL, so who knows what you'd think."

Intrigued by this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I'm the same here as I am in real life but anyone I meet still tend to be pleasantly surprised when they meet me. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I’m the same on here and in person x "

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone

I used to think I was the same IRL than online. Then I met a few who didn't like me that much IRL. The complete opposite of what I'm used to. I guess that told me.

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By *aizyWoman
25 weeks ago

west midlands

I think I'm pretty much the same tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I used to think I was the same IRL than online. Then I met a few who didn't like me that much IRL. The complete opposite of what I'm used to. I guess that told me. "

I bet you’re actually really nice in person. Nothing like online

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"I think I'm pretty much the same tbh."

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By *agnar73Man
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

Probably not, but who knows?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago


"Probably not, but who knows?"
The people. They know!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thanks for playing x

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By *yesgreenMan
25 weeks ago

north and south


"I reckon most people think I'm a twat.

In fact, I'm pretty sure most people think I'm a twat.

Possibly more so online, as reading text loses the intonation and delivery I might be able to add in person.

I try to make people laugh, but I think my 'jokes' fall flat.

None of you have met me IRL, so who knows what you'd think.

Intrigued by this"

wrinkles are just laughter lines or Squinting lines and Personality it’s always nice to have a cup of coffee in person with clothes on

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone


"I think I’m relatively the same but also don’t think people know what to expect if they are lucky enough to meet me

You were way nicer in person. online you’re a prick"

This is the truth.

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

I really don't know.

I don't behave the same around all people I met online, in person.

I am a bit of an idiot though.

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By *ave0070Man
25 weeks ago

Sleaford

I'm always exactly the same on here as I am in person I don't see the point in trying to be someone I'm not and I let people judge for them selves as to what they think about me but I think that I'm honest and friendly and very easy going if anyone wants to find out for their selves xx

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