FabSwingers.com forum: Is it harder?

By *itanic69 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Thetford

Is it harder for us meant to get noticed, or is it harder for the women having to search through loads of mail?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's probably equally as difficult but just different problems

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

But women have an easy solution at hand if they filtered all mail out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"But women have an easy solution at hand if they filtered all mail out "

But then what would we moan about!?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
30 weeks ago

East Sussex

"But women have an easy solution at hand if they filtered all mail out

But then what would we moan about!?"

. The difficulty of sorting through the profiles and getting no reply

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *itanic69 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Thetford

I can think of better things to make you moan

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Is it harder for us meant to get noticed, or is it harder for the women having to search through loads of mail?

If you really wanna know, go to any major city in the world and push ‘boost’ on Tinder. If that’s how it is constantly for women on fab, I’d rather keep it like this….

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *itanic69 OP Man
30 weeks ago

Thetford

I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

Ah bless.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ex HolesMan
30 weeks ago

Up North

Let the mountain come to Mohammed

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rNaughty22Man
30 weeks ago

Doncaster

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

Feel your pain..

Sending 1 reply to 800 people, means they'll run out of there messages on their free account though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

I believe the children are the future

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issYeuxBleusWoman
30 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x

I believe the children are the future "

I wonder if they regret writing that song now.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

You are entitled to believe as you wish. However, that doesn't mean anyone has to act on that. The site FAQs might help you.

Also, when replying to someone, it breaks any future filter you might put on someone. I've had my filters set to fuck off for four years, and some occasionally slip through because I've sent them one message in the past.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

Nope some deserve blocking

Mrs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x

Nope some deserve blocking

Mrs "

Indeed!

Speaking in themes of messages, not specific messages, all of these themes are things that are an immediate block

- I know you, I know who your boss is, what are we going to do about that so your boss doesn't find out you're here?

- human toilet themed messages

- family and animal themed messages

- (as a FIRST message) some wretched shouting about how entitled I am

- offering/ asking for money or services

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Is it harder for us meant to get noticed, or is it harder for the women having to search through loads of mail?

One is considerably less demoralising than the other, so I'd go with that being more annoying than difficult

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh. Also sperm donors. I've read "happy mothers up and down the country" more often than I want to.

I mean ok fine, you want to bareback me and then to hell with the consequences, even if that consequence is a child? how about no, goodbye, block.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issmorganWoman
30 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

What even if they've been abusive, crude or sent cock pics?!

No not all messages deserve a response, if they haven't read my profile, it's a delete, it works both ways.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *red333Man
30 weeks ago

Dorchester

Women have it easier they have the pick of the litter just filter out the rest or block

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iscean_dreamMan
30 weeks ago

Llanelli

"I believe all messages deserve at least one reply x"

Screw that OP, I don't reply to everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Is it harder for us meant to get noticed, or is it harder for the women having to search through loads of mail?

Harder? We notice you lot but the attitude of some single men (and some single women) absofuckinglutely stinks. Sadly the good few get lumbered with the baggage created by this idiots.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I think it is harder being a man

Women have it easy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread