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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?

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By *allandathleticMan
30 weeks ago

Asgard

No i dont,

No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion))

Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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30 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I don't think I have and no I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

I do .... I have had some lovely orgasms when it's been found by a gentleman.... but I am not a squirter

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Yes, yes and yes.

I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"No i dont,

No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion))

Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.

Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.

I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

It took me 27 years for someone to find my G spot.

And as of yet I have not involuntarily lost bladder function.

Saphi

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"No i dont,

No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion))

Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.

Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.

I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."

I hate the come hither thing, it's squirmy and not in a good way. I wish people didn't look for it that way. Just do it with your damn cock.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
30 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Yes, yes and yes.

I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing.

^^ this exactly x

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By *allandathleticMan
30 weeks ago

Asgard

"No i dont,

No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion))

Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.

Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.

I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."

Wouldn't say ALWAYS found them. That's a bit too much for my ego to take.

I think alot of it, depends alot on arousal, the more aroused the more blood flow, the better it is for all.

As we all know, alot can affect arousal. Sleep, food, hydration. Attraction. "The moment"

So I think it's all dependant for each and every single time

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try "

You’ll be gushing come teatime

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"No I don't think I have and no I haven't.

Have you ever tried to find it? A couple of months ago I received a very detailed voicenote from a friend who'd successfully found hers.

Tried the same thing but nope. Zero. Legs akimbo and lube aplenty and I just ended up with bedding that needed to be washed rather than the earth shattering orgasm I wanted.

I really like that I can ask all these questions somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
30 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try

You’ll be gushing come teatime "

In their wanks

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try

You’ll be gushing come teatime

In their wanks

Obviously

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually.

Mrs TMN x

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?

I do .... I have had some lovely orgasms when it's been found by a gentleman.... but I am not a squirter"

Is there a particular technique that these lovely gentlemen employ or is it more stumbled across in the heat of the moment thing?

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By *eart31Couple
30 weeks ago

Broxburn

Yes and yes! Orgasms are much more intense through it and it normally leads to me squirting when it’s touched.

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By *partharmonyCouple
30 weeks ago

Ruislip

My understanding is every woman has a G-spot. Maybe not all women knows where it is. I did a learning session with a sex therapist who showed me on a diagram where it is. It seems unlikely to me that it wouldn't be there on a lot of women.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it."

Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask.

Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually.

Mrs TMN x"

It’s definitely a Boy Scout badge

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By *ubbie300Couple
30 weeks ago

Bawtry

I have a G-spot. Never squirted but I do get extremely wet

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By *odders88Man
30 weeks ago

Northampton

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try "

Disclaimer very much needed no doubt

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
30 weeks ago

Cambs

I do and yes it's quite easy to find, guess I'm lucky that way

I am a squirter too and gspot orgasms definitely set that off for me. Xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
30 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Yes I have a g spot. Yes I used to gush then when I hit the menopause and didn't gush again. Now I don't do anything.

I used to like playing with another woman's and you get just a nice little gush over your hand. I do have small hands though

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Prodding and poking would do nothing for me except make me feel uncomfortable. Let me know if you want me to get detailed Meli. I might do it as a DM though

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it.

Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask.

Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly."

NJoy Pure Wand, yeh.

There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be

Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually.

Mrs TMN x

It’s definitely a Boy Scout badge "

Dib dib dib dob dob dob

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Yes, yes and yes.

I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing.

Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at.

So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc.

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By *ellinever70Woman
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't know

Obviously not if I don't know

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By *ileyandOhCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Yes yes, no but trying x

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?

It took me 27 years for someone to find my G spot.

And as of yet I have not involuntarily lost bladder function.

Saphi"

27 years. Gosh. That's an awfully long time! What changed that made it click? As in, work for you?

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By *ayleePhoenixTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Bristol

I think, biologically, all women have a G-spot. But they will vary in size and sensitivity.

There are many women who have not had their G-spot stimulated for a wide range of reasons. Of those who have, some will enjoy the sensation whilst others will not, as they like different methods of stimulation. With mixed results.

No wrong or right process with the G-spot. Just do whatever makes you happy.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
30 weeks ago

St Leonards

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party.

For my interactions with women - those who have wanted to explore, we've invariably found her G-spot. It tends to reveal itself more happily under arousal and trust. It can also have little friends in other regions that join in sometimes.

Squirting. I'm not sure I set out with "Objective: Secure location and render to squirtblivion", but a lot of responding to cues, intuition, some sort of empathetic connection etc does help the overall pleasure and arousal, my female friends have reported that the G-spot has only been part of their body "building" to something big, and the overall thing has had squirting or gushing as an outcome, not an objective.

It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again.

A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge".

I do like to take them even further into that "beyond" place, because it is very much a different level of consciousness, and when they're there they can finally meet and talk with all my own invisible friends from the past, present, and future (part metaphor, part not).

So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try "

Okay, message received. I won't.

Being serious, I really hope people don't get those messages from this thread. I wanted a space to ask these questions but not in a Sexy Sex way.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
30 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"Yes, yes and yes.

I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing.

Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at.

So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc."

I feel like porn or books give the impression that it's a magic spot that you just touch and boom - instant squirty orgasm. I think that's what I thought.

As I said above, I dislike the come hither thing. It definitely finds my G spot but in an uncomfortable, squirmy, oversensitive way. I will not get turned on. So it's definitely not an inevitable thing.

For me what works is being something with a gentle ridge (a cock is perfect and my tentacle works too) and the outstroke hits just right, way more than the instroke. (Are instroke and outstroke actual words, have I made them up to suit?)

It needs to be a regular rhythm pulling far enough out each time. It will build and build until OMFG time. It does feel like a different orgasm for me, it's very intense but without the oversensitivity that can come with a clitoral orgasm. So it's an AGAIN! MORE! type thing.

I don't squirt/gush every time. It's more likely if there's clitoral stimulation at the same time.

Thank you for coming (fnar) to my G spot Ted Talk.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
30 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"Yes, but never squirted but I’ve tried everything I could to.

Disclaimer; please don’t message me asking if you can try

Okay, message received. I won't.

Being serious, I really hope people don't get those messages from this thread. I wanted a space to ask these questions but not in a Sexy Sex way."

Wasn’t aimed at you Meli

but you know how it is on here.

I’m trying to find a toy I found it’s like a thrusting rabbit, but it doesn’t thrust, it has a coil that spins round under the silicone, it’s the only toy I’ve found that hits it right, I have loads of the curved 1s & they’ve never done anything, but I guess we’re all built differently

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"No I don't think I have and no I haven't.

same!!

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By *icentiousCouple
30 weeks ago

Up on them there hills

Found the curve of the hook and a vibrator extremely effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

What about yourself op..

Men find G spots hard to find and think hours of licking is G spot ..I only squirt water guns in water fights

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Don't know. I have squirted, but I don't really like it. It doesn't bring me pleasure and it just feels like a badge of achievement for the guy. Which isn't what I'm looking for sexually.

Mrs TMN x"

Yes, I think some people see squirting as being the best thing ever and a sign of their incredible sexual prowess. If it's not for you, it's not for you.

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"My understanding is every woman has a G-spot. Maybe not all women knows where it is. I did a learning session with a sex therapist who showed me on a diagram where it is. It seems unlikely to me that it wouldn't be there on a lot of women. "

A sex therapist learning session sounds really quite cool!

I'm not sure that because it's on a diagram it means it exists in a lot of women. Maybe it's tiny in some. I don't know. Clearly thinking out loud here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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30 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No I don't think I have and no I haven't.

Have you ever tried to find it? A couple of months ago I received a very detailed voicenote from a friend who'd successfully found hers.

Tried the same thing but nope. Zero. Legs akimbo and lube aplenty and I just ended up with bedding that needed to be washed rather than the earth shattering orgasm I wanted.

I really like that I can ask all these questions somewhere.

No I haven't. I've tried various dildo type things that are supposed to hit my g spot and found them extremely uncomfortable so I've never really bothered.

I really like that these questions can be asked too.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Well there was that one tame, but it's 50/50 as if it was squirting or just an unfortunate accident.

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By *xFoxyStoatxxWoman
30 weeks ago

Somewhere

I didn't discover my ability to squirt until I was 36.

Plenty of guys had tried before, but it wasn't until I met a lovely guy on fab. He knew I was going to before I even did. Made me do it several times and destroyed my mattress in the process.

Nicknamed him the pussy whisperer after that, really should see if he's still here

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
30 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Can't squirt tried so many ways but definitely have G spot hubby hits it every time xx

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By *itanic69Man
30 weeks ago

Thetford

Yes I found it, but my partner doesn’t like me touching it Too much as it gets way, too sensitive for her

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it.

Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask.

Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly.

NJoy Pure Wand, yeh.

There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be

Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons

Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight.

That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go.

I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?"

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By *ayRyuMan
30 weeks ago

Harrogate

"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it.

Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask.

Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly.

NJoy Pure Wand, yeh.

There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be

Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons

Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight.

That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go.

I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?"

Ask away Meli. And watch your inbox explode

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By *ex HolesMan
30 weeks ago

Up North

I traveled on concord once and we flew so fast the forces created a G-Spot on my face

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By *ries1Man
30 weeks ago

erdington

"I traveled on concord once and we flew so fast the forces created a G-Spot on my face "

Haha

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By *ixie888Woman
30 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Hey x

I have only recently discovered my squirting capability in the last couple of years and it was due to meeting guys with great technical abilities

I haven't looked back! Now I know what my body is capable of I have some degree of control iykwim. Now I know where my g spot is it can have dramatic squirting results including during penetration. For me it was having the right partner with the right experience. Please feel free to ask me any further questions if I can help x

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By *odgerMooreMan
30 weeks ago

Carlisle

Yes Meli I have found many ladies G spots … no particular technique but often standing between a ladies open legs with 2 twigs made of willow and moving them over her sexy place region until the twigs point downward then put a felt marker where they cross and then rummage about inside in that region and you’ll eventually ‘hit the spot!!

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By *hoccaMan
30 weeks ago

local

Moral of the story, sex is a skill rather than just a pleasurable activity. Not a lot have men have studied the game. Instead just spent a lifetime of button bashing

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?

So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party.

It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again.

A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge".

So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better."

What a brilliant detailed response, thank you. It's interesting reading about it from a male perspective in this style - I'm glad you posted. I think arousal and trust plays a rather big part in a person relaxing and thus any likelihood of stimulation in this manner is more likely to occur.

I've heard about the "building sensation" before, I guess that's part of why I wondered if there was a correlation between G-spot stimulation and squirting/gushing.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
30 weeks ago

Leeds

No I don't think I do, I've never found it.

Mrs

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By *sWyldWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes I have one. Some people find it and others don't.

I have squirted and actually I'd far rather I didn't sometimes.

It's just one more thing I end up feeling self conscious about

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By *hilloutMan
30 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been endowed with the perfect, natural G Spot detector

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By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I do, I found it myself and C is excellent at finding it. It is beneficial to squirting but it's actually not totally necessary - squirting requires a number of factors that I can't always predict.

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By *CLM87Woman
30 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Yes I do and yes I'm a squirter.

The misconception that it's piss makes me laugh... not all women can squirt, it's just one of those things.

If it was just piss, then how could myself and others I know manage to squirt multiple times in a session (I mean the whole bed is soaked) then be able to go for a wee after?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much .

No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to.

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By *hoirCouple
30 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much .

No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to. "

The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside

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30 weeks ago

"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much .

No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to.

The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside

Can't believe I've gotten to 55 and didn't know that

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Yes, yes and yes.

I don't know that it's necessarily easy for someone else to find but if they're getting it right I'll let them know. Not with exact words, more a keep going, don't stop type thing.

Hi Julie! Glad you posted, I feel comfortable asking you questions in the unmasked autistic way I excel at.

So, does it feel noticeably different? Does it lead to orgasm for you inevitably? Do you find particular *items* being more effective to find it? As in fingers, penis etc.

I feel like porn or books give the impression that it's a magic spot that you just touch and boom - instant squirty orgasm. I think that's what I thought.

I don't squirt/gush every time. It's more likely if there's clitoral stimulation at the same time.

Thank you for coming (fnar) to my G spot Ted Talk.

You're an absolute star J, thank you. Yes, in my head I thought it would be a couple of strokes of something that's noticeably pronounced? Felt? And then bam. Earth shattering orgasm.

A regular rhythm and that pulling out stimulation makes a lot of sense. Such a star! If I have any more questions I'll just voicenote you.

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

We need to see this diagram

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
30 weeks ago

St Leonards

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?

So...my own equivalent of a G-spot. It's there...it wanders in its location a little, and it equally wanders in how or whether it chooses to dance at the party.

It has also often left them touching an alternate state of consciousness, which I often like to build on and take them there again.

A very, very thin line between "too much, stop" and "I can feel something more wanting to emerge".

So at that point, my female friend understands me a little better.

I've heard about the "building sensation" before, I guess that's part of why I wondered if there was a correlation between G-spot stimulation and squirting/gushing."

Thanks Meli. Yes - G-spot and squirting correlate, but not strictly and absolutely from my/my friends' experience.

Some women can have G-spot orgasms and/or squirt fairly easily - their confident mental presentation and physical make-up will do that.

Generally, I think there's a lot more "finding confidence, experimenting, and giving yourself a break" for a lot of women, because culturally you're not (still) raised in the range of confidence-requiring issues men are.

Hopefully your daughters and granddaughters will be able to have explosive orgasms and squirtfests whilst running their luxury socialist cooperatives this century.

Yeah - it's supposed to sound wrong. That makes it right. Confidence, init xxxx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably and probably.

I have a lot of particularly sensitive points, I've never really bothered to learn which is called what. But it's rare someone manages to miss all of them entirely.

Squirting is rare for me. But it has happened. Not necessarily correlating with the best of the best orgasms, but certainly with strong ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Its damn delicious when you find that spot playing with a woman and you just know, you have got her next orgasm it the end of your finger tips..

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"It's just the back end of the clitoris, right.

I have a good steel toy for poking and prodding at it.

Oh I'm skipping but just seen this as posting another reply and needed to ask.

Is it the Njoy? A lover gifted me one but nothing. Maybe I'm not poking and prodding myself properly.

NJoy Pure Wand, yeh.

There's a whole bunch of variation when it comes to the clitoris, it could well be that yours just doesn't reach that far back. Think about how different the front of it can be

Maybe invite your friend around for some digging lessons

Ah I thought so! That's the one a lover gave. I might try it again tonight.

That's a good point, the variation within anatomy. How deep it can go.

I might ask someone. It feels a bit selfish though saying "Hey, fancy helping me find my g-spot?"

Ask away Meli. And watch your inbox explode

So I was curious and rather than asking people directly and having them say 'pass, thanks for asking' I thought I'd do a general status. Turns out Fabbers are truly a giving bunch.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
30 weeks ago

Wirral

I do have a g spot, and it's very easy to find, one of the reasons I like to be fingered as much as I do.

I don't squirt in spite of several people informing me they can *make* me squirt with their foolproof method.

Mind you, sometimes I tell people I'm a squirter just so they work harder, so I guess it all balances.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"No i dont,

No (but I've found others) ((2 knuckles deep and a come hither motion))

Occasionally this has lead to squirting. But I'm not sure the two are intertwined.

Have you always found women to have them? 2 knuckles deep... I guess it depends on their positioning and your hand size.

I'm not sure if they are but they could be - I've never for the latter and I don't think I have the former."

I don't know what would be worse , Jeremy Beadle trying to find it or the Hulk

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"Mind you, sometimes I tell people I'm a squirter just so they work harder, so I guess it all balances."

I've missed your posts. This is the kind of chaos I strive for, definitely going to try this.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I think so, although I’ve never been able to hit the spot myself.

I have unexpectedly squirted once. While the orgasm felt good, it wasn’t mind blowing. It’s not something I’d be chasing to feel again.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

I haven't explored it much.

I've never been able to make myself squirt, and kind of accepted it was something that was never going to happen with my body. But I fucked a guy a few weeks ago who said he knew exactly how to do it and I wished him luck in trying. Well, he made me squirt four times in 15 minutes.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

G-spot - no, not really. Absolutely not easy to find/might not exist.

And no.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I always had success using the pinky and the thumb to find it, with the three other fingers flapping on the outside and tickling the ballbag…

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By *mmaleiaWoman
30 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Mind you, sometimes I tell people I'm a squirter just so they work harder, so I guess it all balances."

This is perfect

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By *eli OP Woman
30 weeks ago

"I haven't explored it much.

Hey Lemmy

Yay to your squirty fucking!

Maybe that's the secret key to it. Wishing someone luck and thinking zero chance than bam. G-spot discovery/squirting* central.

* I might be tongue in cheek here.

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By *adyBugsWoman
30 weeks ago

cognito

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find? "
Yes but only after a lot of practice and working out how everything feels.

" And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

Yes but only ever on my own. Not sure why I haven’t with someone else involved. Maybe I’m just weird or complex

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By *ira2024Woman
30 weeks ago

South West

Yes, yes & Yesss!

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"All women have one.its called a clitoras. I can find it no problem but men not so much .

No never squirted and if I'm being honest I don't think I'd want to.

The clitoris isn't the G-spot, the G-spot is inside the vagina, the clit is outside

Clitoras - the back side of the clitoris. What a beautiful language we have.

The clit is actually quite big and is mostly inside - I can't share pictures here but looks at the pictures the vagina museum has

(Don't look too much because Wikipedia has a dissection

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

Yes x 3

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
30 weeks ago

Carlisle

"But men, you can join in if you want, I guess.

So. Do you have a G-spot? Is it quite easy to find?

And as a sort of linked question (I think), have you squirted before?"

Yes

He finds it easy enough so it seems

Yes

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