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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here a few months and seem to be getting no interest from the gorgeous ladies on here unfortunately! would love to get to know someone here & finally have a fun meet up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Have you tried the ugly ones ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

Oh my God, that's exactly what I was going to write

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

They're just as hard to bag. The average ones are your best chance, often over looked, so are more grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

Hahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect 90% rejection and just shoot your shot bud. Read the persons profile and write a nice message addressing them and their wants/likes specifically and above all be respectful. Plenty of time for dirty talk further down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe get ur willie out and entice them?? Oh wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months is nothing. Most guys can wait up to a year to get their first meet. Some have been here even longer abd still waiting.

Given the ratio of men to women on fab, a lot of guys are going to be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it is said so many times but try to get to a social or swingers club, even if you have to travel. It will get you off to a good start than just firing messages out alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club treat it like a night out without any expectations don't be a knob and you will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people will say improve your profile. It is rubbish tbf.

Some people will say go to clubs. No guarantee there either.

Some people will say make sure you read a person's profile before messaging and make it personal to them. Make it polite with face pics and not dick pics. However there's a good chance they don't even open your message in the first place.

I think the reality is, some people do okay on Fab and in clubs and some don't. Unfortunately maybe you're one of the ones that doesn't do well. And it's not all about status, good looks, a good body etc. I'm pretty average across most aspects and do okay and I couldn't really say why. Just one of those things really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bro got no rizz

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

They're just as hard to bag. The average ones are your best chance, often over looked, so are more grateful "
I'd throw away the shovel now before you start digging a big hole for yourself

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do you think your getting no interest OP?

Reading your profile would you reply to you?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread almost gaurentees no meets. Sorry OP.

Who you are is often more attractive to the ladies than what you have to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will say improve your profile. It is rubbish tbf.

Some people will say go to clubs. No guarantee there either.

Some people will say make sure you read a person's profile before messaging and make it personal to them. Make it polite with face pics and not dick pics. However there's a good chance they don't even open your message in the first place.

I think the reality is, some people do okay on Fab and in clubs and some don't. Unfortunately maybe you're one of the ones that doesn't do well. And it's not all about status, good looks, a good body etc. I'm pretty average across most aspects and do okay and I couldn't really say why. Just one of those things really."

Yes but even if he had no sexual meet in a club at least social verifications can get him off to a start. I have noticed on profiles how the early veris are purely social but you start to see later the actual sexual meets. If I were a struggling straight male on here I would definitely be doing socials and clubs, aside from a good profile

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Just gone on green arrow and found my advice to you on a previous post you done about getting nowhere…you seem to have not acted on it, so I’ve been good and posted it again…

You’re welcome!

Maybe spend time on your profile and trying to stand out from the thousands of other guys trying to get women’s attention.

You’ve wrote one sentence and pretty much have 2 types of pics - face pic, dick pic.

If you think that’s the best way to sell yourself then crack on and good luck

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of it comes down to what you want out of fab.

If you want some friendly online flanter. Then it's fairly easy to come by.

If however, you enter the "room" with your dick hanging out. Literally begging for attention. Most I assume turn their backs and leave you alone.

Expect nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time OP, it'll happen soon enough. There's plenty of cock and pussy for all to enjoy...!

You can always fastrack progress by attending clubs and making friends, and with good communication you'll find anything is possible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

The advice for all single men here is to use the site and its tools to maximise your chances. Afterall, if someone is going to use the site, it's almost pointless not to use the tools provided!

A profile is what sells you. So they should make sure their profile is better than adequate. It needs to show why someone should pick you, instead of the tens of thousands of other single men.

Have you considered what women need to be able to pick you? If you don't give them that - as a minimum - then how they will assess you? Thoughtless, lacking in empathy, not interested in what they need, etc?

Men must make effort and change their expectations so they are realistic. Only you know yourself. You must improve your expectations so that they are realistic for you, not for the general single man. You know what effort you are willing to make and what you actually will make.

None of us know you. You have the power to change this. The buck stops with you, single men!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

Keep the faith man.

Keep the faith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people will say improve your profile. It is rubbish tbf.

Some people will say go to clubs. No guarantee there either.

Some people will say make sure you read a person's profile before messaging and make it personal to them. Make it polite with face pics and not dick pics. However there's a good chance they don't even open your message in the first place.

I think the reality is, some people do okay on Fab and in clubs and some don't. Unfortunately maybe you're one of the ones that doesn't do well. And it's not all about status, good looks, a good body etc. I'm pretty average across most aspects and do okay and I couldn't really say why. Just one of those things really.

Yes but even if he had no sexual meet in a club at least social verifications can get him off to a start. I have noticed on profiles how the early veris are purely social but you start to see later the actual sexual meets. If I were a struggling straight male on here I would definitely be doing socials and clubs, aside from a good profile "

That doesn't make what I said any less true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not being able to accomodate or travel will also reduce down the pool of people you could be considered by.

So if you want to attract ladies you will really have to have something great to offer and not just a picture of your man meat on display.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Lots of good advice but the best is don't be a knob/desperate and if it seems to good to be true ?? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men, usually 6ft and over, muscular or fit, handsome to their standards, Alpha type, competent, have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate. If no man on here meets these criteria then they won't be interested but all the best to you anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

You called

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Just gone on green arrow and found my advice to you on a previous post you done about getting nowhere…you seem to have not acted on it, so I’ve been good and posted it again…

You’re welcome!

Maybe spend time on your profile and trying to stand out from the thousands of other guys trying to get women’s attention.

You’ve wrote one sentence and pretty much have 2 types of pics - face pic, dick pic.

If you think that’s the best way to sell yourself then crack on and good luck

K"

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men..."

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.


"...usually 6ft and over"

Not in my experience.


"...muscular or fit"

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.


"...handsome to their standards"

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.


"...Alpha type"

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.


"...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate."

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats, Embroiderers, and TV/TS software engineers."

Fify

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats, Embroiderers, and TV/TS software engineers.

·

Fify"

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Thank you. Yes, Television and Transistor software engineers.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats, Embroiderers, and TV/TS software engineers.

·

Fify

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Thank you. Yes, Television and Transistor software engineers. "

If I speak to any, I'll definitely send them your way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers."
Yeah maybe in your experience but the exceptions doesnt make the rule when I'm talking about the majority and thats facts

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats, Embroiderers, and TV/TS software engineers.

·

Fify

•

Thank you. Yes, Television and Transistor software engineers.

If I speak to any, I'll definitely send them your way... "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

Oh my God, that's exactly what I was going to write "

We've been together too long now Nanna

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers. Yeah maybe in your experience but the exceptions doesnt make the rule when I'm talking about the majority and thats facts"

Totally disagree, I see many men meeting slim, large, average - as one of the women put off slightly by overly defined muscles - it seems just to be an excuse men tell themselves when they can't get meets - it's only ever the men that say women want greek god types, I think you'll find many are happy with an average dad bod.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers."

This amused me very much. Especially the 'Gamma type offerings.' Keep up the good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers. Yeah maybe in your experience but the exceptions doesnt make the rule when I'm talking about the majority and thats facts

Totally disagree, I see many men meeting slim, large, average - as one of the women put off slightly by overly defined muscles - it seems just to be an excuse men tell themselves when they can't get meets - it's only ever the men that say women want greek god types, I think you'll find many are happy with an average dad bod.

Mrs "
I think you're missing my point. Yes you will come across women who dont care what a guy looks like physyically but the marjority of times people sleep with who they're attracted too and you can't tell me women in general love to sleep with men with big bellies because that would be a lie and again there will be some women who do

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men, usually 6ft and over, muscular or fit, handsome to their standards, Alpha type, competent, have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate. If no man on here meets these criteria then they won't be interested but all the best to you anyways"

I'd settle for a guy that doesn't add a status update seeking older women looking for hung cock

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By *ommander_StraxMan
over a year ago

Telford

I’ve met a lot of women on my own, in and out of clubs. Married, single, MMF situations, not to mention the times I’ve also done it with my wife there too.

And I live in Telford, which is the number one stop for having zero the bare minimum happen.

My advice would be yes of course, visit a club. But also don’t expect things. I’ve also gone long periods without even a profile view never mind a wink, message or meet.

Take a look at your profile, get rid of the cock shots and put them in your friends pics as a trial. It’s 50/50 the people who want to see your Henry Winkler here. But most of all work on your profile text… it doesn’t have to be war and peace, but nothing there suggests you could even manage Mog.

Above all else always remember… you’re not owed anything just for being here. Your a single guy, one an a thousand+ in your immediate area. Stand out.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers."

Zinger. Great answer.

I don’t think there’s a rhyme or reason to it, it’s age bands, your locality, what clubs are around and effort made on profile and messaging.

Sometimes people can be bothered and sometimes they can’t but it’s not gonna fall in your lap.

Travel with a bit of hope, don’t be negative and don’t a dick with anyone and it might happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men, usually 6ft and over, muscular or fit, handsome to their standards, Alpha type, competent, have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate. If no man on here meets these criteria then they won't be interested but all the best to you anyways

I'd settle for a guy that doesn't add a status update seeking older women looking for hung cock "
When I mean status im not talking about what they put on here, I'm talking about their professional position

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don’t think asking for help on here will help. I think it either works well for you or it doesn’t you can’t fundamentally change who you are and become magically in demand to women on fab

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Unfortunately 90% of the women on here want only 5% of the men...

The remaining 10% of the women are living in endless hope with the remaining 95% of the men.

...usually 6ft and over

Not in my experience.

...muscular or fit

Not in my experience with my moth-eaten average 'physique'.

...handsome to their standards

Not in my experience with my sub-standard looks.

...Alpha type

Not in my experience with my Beta and Gamma type offerings.

...have some sort of status and earn a particular income and able to accommodate.

I only make love to Barristers, Diplomats and Embroiderers. Yeah maybe in your experience but the exceptions doesnt make the rule when I'm talking about the majority and thats facts

Totally disagree, I see many men meeting slim, large, average - as one of the women put off slightly by overly defined muscles - it seems just to be an excuse men tell themselves when they can't get meets - it's only ever the men that say women want greek god types, I think you'll find many are happy with an average dad bod.

Mrs I think you're missing my point. Yes you will come across women who dont care what a guy looks like physyically but the marjority of times people sleep with who they're attracted too and you can't tell me women in general love to sleep with men with big bellies because that would be a lie and again there will be some women who do"

I'd hazard a guess the majority of women are more interested in the bloke than the body, yes they're size queens and yes they're women who want toned but looking over every fad bod, body preference thread the women want a decent guy, a belly isn't offensive.

Again an excuse blokes use when they can't meet, especially when the women state this 1000's of times on these forums & it's easy to see guys with plenty of verifications aren't all greek gods.

Any excuse.

Mrs

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Your status definitely isn't the way to go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here a few months and seem to be getting no interest from the gorgeous ladies on here unfortunately! would love to get to know someone here & finally have a fun meet up"

^^ any hole will do

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By *leasure999Man
17 weeks ago

tilbury

Same me i have 1 year and no meet nobody,i try toctalk with hundreds couples or single women but nothink ,the problem here is we are to many singke men and not to many women or couples lyke 95% men and 5% women +couples i coming from europe every month i travel there for meets and is great ,but here on this site you need verification for meet ,try tinder or threesome i meet same there a lot

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By *leasure999Man
17 weeks ago

tilbury


"Expect 90% rejection and just shoot your shot bud. Read the persons profile and write a nice message addressing them and their wants/likes specifically and above all be respectful. Plenty of time for dirty talk further down the line. "

Is not like that ,i write a lot nice to the peoples same ,i invite for social if they are ok with that, if not it ok same i never was a push guy ,how is posible i meet couples on threesome app ,women on tinder and in europa same i got meets but not only single one here on facbswingers,but i receive almost every day 80 messages from gay and bi guys but not only single one from a couple or a women

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

Lol

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By *leasure999Man
17 weeks ago

tilbury


"Just gone on green arrow and found my advice to you on a previous post you done about getting nowhere…you seem to have not acted on it, so I’ve been good and posted it again…

You’re welcome!

Maybe spend time on your profile and trying to stand out from the thousands of other guys trying to get women’s attention.

You’ve wrote one sentence and pretty much have 2 types of pics - face pic, dick pic.

If you think that’s the best way to sell yourself then crack on and good luck

K"

This is your opinion and dosent help with nothink ,i done eveithink what you say ,i was very respectufk i don t have dick pics ,i invite for a social if they want ,i post on forum about social if is avaible around basildon ,tilbury,i am talking very nice to the poeple ,i tru my best i got 1 years and i try to talk with more 700 couple or single women ,i never was a push guy ,but wait:i receive 80 messeges per day from gay ,but not only single one from a couple or sigle women ,in exchange i meet on tinder ,threesome app ,in europa i travel a lot for meets ,so this guy and a lot more i understand perfectly ,if you want to meet in fabswinger you need verifications ,trust me if i got only 1 verificstion from a couple or single women i can guarate i can meet hundreds after but must to be from a couple or women ,this is how works here ,to be honest i don t know why is like that is only here on this site in other site is not like that

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By *leasure999Man
13 weeks ago

tilbury

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By *leasure999Man
13 weeks ago

tilbury


"Your status definitely isn't the way to go..."

Is not true check my profile ,i never meet somebody from here i only meet in tinder threesome app ,really life ,i try to spoke with more 700 people couple and single women very respectful 🙏 i say i am happy to do social first or anithink they want first no neet to meet striaght away for fun if this is is ok for them ,and no meet nobody till now and i have almost 2 years here..but i am invite on tinder by many women or couple ,but here on this site many couples told me i need at least 20 verifcations to meet them ,another couple told me i need 2 verification ,i understand people want security and discretion here happy to do it but nobody here here give you a chance ,by the way i meet a lot people from other country when i travel to spain ,itally roumania,so you don t help with anythink with your comment

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By *leasure999Man
13 weeks ago

tilbury

So many people from this post delete his accounts this site is going down for single guys for meets !!!

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By *akedMMan
13 weeks ago

Witney

Still waiting for my first meeting

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By *eximus MaximusMan
13 weeks ago

Up North

I’m hoping for my first meet soon

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By *rightonsteveMan
13 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…


"I’m hoping for my first meet soon "

Sorry to hear that, however, some uncalled for top tips for a meet.

Do you have a modicum of social skill?

If so, you could arrange a social in a pub - just don’t get pissed and throw up in the lovely ladies handbag.

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By *rightonsteveMan
13 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…


"Still waiting for my first meeting "

You could meet with Mr Holes. Verify each other, chat about not being losers on Fab, discuss foofy techniques, etc. win-win

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By *rightonsteveMan
13 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?"

He did and left the site afterwards. What sort of advice was that? How do you think the bloke felt when he saw his veri?

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By *leasure999Man
13 weeks ago

tilbury


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

He did and left the site afterwards. What sort of advice was that? How do you think the bloke felt when he saw his veri? "

I got 2 years here i try to speack nice with people ,i was happy to go for social first if need it,i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site yet,but in exchange i have meets a lot on tinder ,threesome app ,i am invited by single lady and couples there ,i read on forum this site is a waste of time for single guys we are to many single guys here like 95% and only 5% (women+couples)this is why we dont meet ,and a lot couples they meet after 20 verification ,what a stupid rulls have this site i meet people in spain italy ,roumania ,in uk but on tinder and threesome app i think this site(fabswingers)is not good for single guys like i say we are to many

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair


"i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site.."

•

My dear fellow, the high class ladies and debutantes of Fab won't risk going anywhere near the fringes of Tilbury, let alone Basildon.

Take them to Fitzrovia. There are some lovely cafés there.

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By *leasure999Man
13 weeks ago

tilbury


"i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site..

•

My dear fellow, the high class ladies and debutantes of Fab won't risk going anywhere near the fringes of Tilbury, let alone Basildon.

Take them to Fitzrovia. There are some lovely cafés there."

What high class ladies?😁

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By *teveanddebsCouple
13 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *teveanddebsCouple
13 weeks ago

Norwich


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

He did and left the site afterwards. What sort of advice was that? How do you think the bloke felt when he saw his veri?

I got 2 years here i try to speack nice with people ,i was happy to go for social first if need it,i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site yet,but in exchange i have meets a lot on tinder ,threesome app ,i am invited by single lady and couples there ,i read on forum this site is a waste of time for single guys we are to many single guys here like 95% and only 5% (women+couples)this is why we dont meet ,and a lot couples they meet after 20 verification ,what a stupid rulls have this site i meet people in spain italy ,roumania ,in uk but on tinder and threesome app i think this site(fabswingers)is not good for single guys like i say we are to many "

You spend so much time on this, and ither threads, telling us how well you are doing on other apps why have you stayed here two years?

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By *leasure999Man
12 weeks ago

tilbury


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

He did and left the site afterwards. What sort of advice was that? How do you think the bloke felt when he saw his veri?

I got 2 years here i try to speack nice with people ,i was happy to go for social first if need it,i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site yet,but in exchange i have meets a lot on tinder ,threesome app ,i am invited by single lady and couples there ,i read on forum this site is a waste of time for single guys we are to many single guys here like 95% and only 5% (women+couples)this is why we dont meet ,and a lot couples they meet after 20 verification ,what a stupid rulls have this site i meet people in spain italy ,roumania ,in uk but on tinder and threesome app i think this site(fabswingers)is not good for single guys like i say we are to many

You spend so much time on this, and ither threads, telling us how well you are doing on other apps why have you stayed here two years?"

Because i want to meet here same looking for my fist fabexperience ,and i see many single person here can t meet somebody here and i help them to find other app ,everybody need to have fun no?at least i social on this app here on forum because i post in other forum here if somebody is doing social in basildon ,tilbury i can travel for social and maybe slowly i can meet somebody here anywhay and i like this app because here you can have a history check ,is a good vibe here ,on tinder you can t use the app like here talk like here ,there you only match and have fun ,but here is more complex is a lifelstyle,the only problem here is people they don.t meet without verification

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By *kphooey43Man
12 weeks ago

Barnet


"i post on forum for socialand nobody doing near tilbury or basildon ,and i not meet nobody here on this site..

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My dear fellow, the high class ladies and debutantes of Fab won't risk going anywhere near the fringes of Tilbury, let alone Basildon.

Take them to Fitzrovia. There are some lovely cafés there.

What high class ladies?😁"

Exactly Nero's point, you confine your search to Tilbury and Basildon and you will not meet the high class ladies.

You need to be more adventurous, if you are nervous about Fitzrovia, why not start by ayour adventure in to Newham or Forest Green (not on Nero's scale, but the ladies there are not averse to a rendezvous in a MaccyD.)

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By *leasure999Man
2 weeks ago

tilbury

Still looking for my first fabexperience if is anybody here couple or single lady ,happy to do social if that is your requirement i travel

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"Still looking for my first fabexperience if is anybody here couple or single lady ,happy to do social if that is your requirement i travel "

You seem just fine. Not sure why you haven't cracked it yet

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By *ancman44Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Still waiting too...

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By *leasure999Man
1 week ago

tilbury


"Still looking for my first fabexperience if is anybody here couple or single lady ,happy to do social if that is your requirement i travel

You seem just fine. Not sure why you haven't cracked it yet "

Nobody invite me yet ,i post on forum same everybody told me to go to club ...but i can t it to far and club is open when i work....i am looking to meet in here to be invited at party or privat dosen t matter happy to social first ,but is very hard here for single men we are to many here ,why you don t invite me or i can invite you at hotel happy to social first if this is your wish...by the way i spoke with a lot single men here ,we single men very hard are meeting somebody ,usually i done meets in spain france ,roumania, i meet here in uk same but on tinder and threesome app ,but there is just match and thst it here you can social post pictures is more nice here but the problem is very hard for single men,you like a girl you have a lots meets for single men is very hard....

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

He needs an invitation. Fåçt............................^

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By *leasure999Man
1 week ago

tilbury


"He needs an invitation. Fåçt............................^"

A invitation mean after i try to speack with a lot people saying hi first ,after trying to not be pushy if they don t continue to talk with you or not trying to invite at their place i think it better to not continue taking anymore

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By *leasure999Man
1 week ago

tilbury


"Some people will say improve your profile. It is rubbish tbf.

Some people will say go to clubs. No guarantee there either.

Some people will say make sure you read a person's profile before messaging and make it personal to them. Make it polite with face pics and not dick pics. However there's a good chance they don't even open your message in the first place.

I think the reality is, some people do okay on Fab and in clubs and some don't. Unfortunately maybe you're one of the ones that doesn't do well. And it's not all about status, good looks, a good body etc. I'm pretty average across most aspects and do okay and I couldn't really say why. Just one of those things really."

100% your are a genius,the best answer,he leave the site same like op from here and like other hundreds single men ,i think now it more time wasters here like genuine people

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By *leasure999Man
1 week ago

tilbury


"Still waiting too... "

If you have the possibility to go to club go ,there is the best way and easy ,because here you will never meet somebody only if you are lucky we are 95% single men on this site and only 5%(couple and single women included),i receive every day at least 50 messages from bi guy or gay but not only single one from a women or a couple ,here you need verification to meet people ,but if you want meet people try download tinder ,threesome app, there you can meet somebody but that apps are not like fabswinger is boring apps or travel to spain france the people from there are not like here ,i am looking same make a women partner and play here in fab after, like couple you can meet a lot people from here for single guy here trust me is hard almost imposible only if you are lucky,have a good day !!!

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

Oh my God, that's exactly what I was going to write "
You were not

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By *kphooey43Man
1 week ago

Barnet


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

Oh my God, that's exactly what I was going to write You were not "

I think you will find she was, after all we know that Bad Nanna and Granny Crumpet are one in the same person!

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By *ino200Man
1 week ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna


"Have you tried the ugly ones ?

Oh my God, that's exactly what I was going to write You were not

I think you will find she was, after all we know that Bad Nanna and Granny Crumpet are one in the same person! "
Really ?

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