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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I looked for some because they are becoming more widespread but do YOU know what these mean. NO PEEKING

1. Ghosting

2. Marleying

3. Breadcrumbing

4. Submarining

5. Shaveducking

6. Sidebarring

7. Sunday Night Fever

10. Freeclimbing

11. Printing

12. Sexting the Waters

13. Cryptomancing

14. Lining

No cheating

what do you THINK they mean ?

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By *stwo2023Couple
37 weeks ago

Worcester

Game playing in all cases

Evie

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By *estarossa.Woman
37 weeks ago

Flagrante

I don't recognise half of them, but Evie is right.

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By *agerMorganMan
37 weeks ago

Canvey Island

1. Ghosting - disappearing suddenly

3. Breadcrumbing - leading someone on m

12. Sexting the waters - no sex talk

The rest, not a clue.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
37 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I’ll have a guess at no4 submarining, being something to do with radio silence and not responding.

As others have pointed out they are probably terms for manipulative behaviour of some kind.

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By *ild_oatsMan
37 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

Apart form ghosting and breadcrumbing I really don’t know about the others.

Though I learnt about these terms last week

Benching

Orbiting

Kittenfishing

Phubbing

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By *eliWoman
37 weeks ago

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That someone's a bit shit and people need to make it a Big Thing when it's more A Little Shit.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
37 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I know ghosting and I’ve heard of breadcrumbing mentioned on here but can’t remember what it means

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I forgot about Caspering ....... I sort of like the term .

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
37 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"I know ghosting and I’ve heard of breadcrumbing mentioned on here but can’t remember what it means "

It means they are currently preparing the ingredients to do a batch of scotch eggs

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Game playing in all cases

Evie "

Not necessarily.... i'd need to think more about that though

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I know ghosting and I’ve heard of breadcrumbing mentioned on here but can’t remember what it means "

Stringing someone along e.g. maintaining their interests by giving them 'bits' or 'crumbs' at a time but the whole loaf never arrives.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’ll have a guess at no4 submarining, being something to do with radio silence and not responding.

As others have pointed out they are probably terms for manipulative behaviour of some kind. "

Coo! 5/10 Huggy, for submarining...

It's radio silence then surfacing weeks later as if nothing has happened.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"1. Ghosting - disappearing suddenly

3. Breadcrumbing - leading someone on m

12. Sexting the waters - no sex talk

The rest, not a clue. "

Pretty good guess on number 12 but not quite.....

12. Sexting the waters .. it's starting slowly to test out your chances before going for the full on text sex session. e.g. seeing how willing the 'other' is without you asking outright .... e.g. starting with something like .... which room are you in right now ? are you alone ? etc

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By *ellinever70Woman
37 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Do they all mean that someone hasn't quite evolved yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I know 1

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Do they all mean that someone hasn't quite evolved yet?"

The opposite. The most progressive daters will have a deep n thorough understanding of what is involved

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I looked for some because they are becoming more widespread but do YOU know what these mean. NO PEEKING

1. Ghosting

2. Marleying

3. Breadcrumbing

4. Submarining

5. Shaveducking

6. Sidebarring

7. Sunday Night Fever

10. Freeclimbing

11. Printing

12. Sexting the Waters

13. Cryptomancing

14. Lining

No cheating

what do you THINK they mean ?"
only know ghosting sorry

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I looked for some because they are becoming more widespread but do YOU know what these mean. NO PEEKING

1. Ghosting

2. Marleying

3. Breadcrumbing

4. Submarining

5. Shaveducking

6. Sidebarring

7. Sunday Night Fever

10. Freeclimbing

11. Printing

12. Sexting the Waters

13. Cryptomancing

14. Lining

No cheating

what do you THINK they mean ?only know ghosting sorry "
and that means to make a date then disappear /block

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Don't need the dating bit Fred Ghosters just disappear without reason ....

Could be your ma that ghosts you doesn't have to be a love interest

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By *TG3Man
37 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Don't need the dating bit Fred Ghosters just disappear without reason ....

Could be your ma that ghosts you doesn't have to be a love interest"
lol well its the only one I've heard of

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By *ad NannaWoman
37 weeks ago

East London

I think I've been approached by cryptomancers.

Are they people who woo you, chat about how they've become rich from investing in crypto currency, then try to get you to invest £200 through them?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
37 weeks ago

Wirral

Marleying: someone humping your leg and chewing your feet in an annoying but cute way, and the end of it will leave you sobbing and heartbroken?

Bit niche, I grant you.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
37 weeks ago

Wirral

Shaveducking: a bloke whose best feature is his facial hair refusing to shave for fear of revealing his weak chin.

Or: me when I claim my bush is a feminist statement rather than the result of my neglecting my grooming.

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By *rpeggioCouple
37 weeks ago

Baughurst


"I think I've been approached by cryptomancers.

Are they people who woo you, chat about how they've become rich from investing in crypto currency, then try to get you to invest £200 through them?"

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Really interested to learn what's Sunday night fever.

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By *illy IdolMan
37 weeks ago

Midlands

Breadcrumbing is where you place a trail of food for greedy girls right up to your bedroom.

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By *2000ManMan
37 weeks ago

Worthing

1. Ghosting - You turn up to a date with white sheet covering and 2 eye holes.

2. Marleying - You serenade your date playing music.

3. Breadcrumbing - You break several slices of bread,start throwing them and ask date to make quacking noises.

4. Submarining - You take date on a submarine and shout things like "fire torpedo!" or "dive dive dive!" then get saucy with "raise periscope!".

5. Shaveducking - You make quacking noises while shaving your dates pubes.

6. Sidebarring - You ask date to walk like a crab (sideways) then ban them from doing so.

7. Sunday Night Fever - You ask date to dance like in the film but on a Sunday.

10. Freeclimbing - You find a massive hill and both climb up it. Last one gets oral from the other. Note, this can take a long time.

11. Printing - You reprint your favourite porn mag then read it together.

12. Sexting the Waters - You both send saucy text messages to Roger Waters of Pink Floyd.

13. Cryptomancing - You spend the date searching for that hard drive containing bitcoin dumped on a rubbish tip by mistake.

14. Lining - You both line a duvet with sex juices after a first date session.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Game playing in all cases

Evie "

Spot on. Fab does not have any right all good behaved people?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"1. Ghosting - You turn up to a date with white sheet covering and 2 eye holes.

2. Marleying - You serenade your date playing music.

3. Breadcrumbing - You break several slices of bread,start throwing them and ask date to make quacking noises.

4. Submarining - You take date on a submarine and shout things like "fire torpedo!" or "dive dive dive!" then get saucy with "raise periscope!".

5. Shaveducking - You make quacking noises while shaving your dates pubes.

6. Sidebarring - You ask date to walk like a crab (sideways) then ban them from doing so.

7. Sunday Night Fever - You ask date to dance like in the film but on a Sunday.

10. Freeclimbing - You find a massive hill and both climb up it. Last one gets oral from the other. Note, this can take a long time.

11. Printing - You reprint your favourite porn mag then read it together.

12. Sexting the Waters - You both send saucy text messages to Roger Waters of Pink Floyd.

13. Cryptomancing - You spend the date searching for that hard drive containing bitcoin dumped on a rubbish tip by mistake.

14. Lining - You both line a duvet with sex juices after a first date session."

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Marley... The Ghoster.

Marleys was a diy shop those old enough to remember

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"I’ll have a guess at no4 submarining, being something to do with radio silence and not responding.

As others have pointed out they are probably terms for manipulative behaviour of some kind. "

No one on fab has behaviour like this all good here.. No?

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Marleying could be two

Bob - no woman no cry. Ie you’re talking to a man pretending to be a woman

Jacob - you’re at the end of a chain and getting yanked?

Shaveducking - I presume is a man shaving his arse to pretend it’s lady boobs

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Sidebar is an American court term like you’re not the main lawyer but taking part in a case that doesn’t directly involve you sort of thing?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Stockport

Marleying. Is this a reference to the ghost of Marley, from A Christmas Carol? So it's when you are being haunted by somebody? On fab, it's when you get that person looking at your profile every single day, maybe fabbing your photos, but whenever you try to look at them they are hidden.

Sidebarring. Is this when someone has been talking with you, maybe seeing you, then they put you on one side for a while to go after another person, then come back when that falls through?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Granny have you made these up

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Submarining - likes oral sex?? Can go down for hours using sonar to find their way in the darkness

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Stockport


"Submarining - likes oral sex?? Can go down for hours using sonar to find their way in the darkness "

Breathes through a snorkel?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Stockport

Sunday night fever - when you've got a nasty infection from your saturday night shag?

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By *eroLondonMan
37 weeks ago

Mayfair

Some of these obscure and arcane terms...jeez, I'm going to have to buy a new (t)urban dictionary.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry


"Marleying could be two

Bob - no woman no cry. Ie you’re talking to a man pretending to be a woman

Jacob - you’re at the end of a chain and getting yanked?

Shaveducking - I presume is a man shaving his arse to pretend it’s lady boobs"

thats a thing? Wow

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By *ot to giggleWoman
37 weeks ago

Coventry


"Some of these obscure and arcane terms...jeez, I'm going to have to buy a new (t)urban dictionary."

Can you scan and share

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By *eroLondonMan
37 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Some of these obscure and arcane terms...jeez, I'm going to have to buy a new (t)urban dictionary.

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Can you scan and share "

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PDF okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I got ghosting & bredcrumbing. Now I feel old. Never heard of the rest.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think I've been approached by cryptomancers.

Are they people who woo you, chat about how they've become rich from investing in crypto currency, then try to get you to invest £200 through them?"

Yesssss Top marks .... they ask you if you want to buy bitcoins.

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


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Shaveducking - I presume is a man shaving his arse to pretend it’s lady boobs

thats a thing? Wow "

I’ve seen something like that where they put bras on their arse and stuff but it’s very odd. No idea on name for it.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Granny have you made these up "

No ! how very dare you ...... No !

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Marleying: someone humping your leg and chewing your feet in an annoying but cute way, and the end of it will leave you sobbing and heartbroken?

Bit niche, I grant you."

Marleying is where an ex gets in touch at Christmas out of the blue .... like the ghost of Christmas past.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Shaveducking: a bloke whose best feature is his facial hair refusing to shave for fear of revealing his weak chin.

Or: me when I claim my bush is a feminist statement rather than the result of my neglecting my grooming."

Cooooo very close.... Shaveducking is when women are only attracted to blokes with beards....

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Shaveducking: a bloke whose best feature is his facial hair refusing to shave for fear of revealing his weak chin.

Or: me when I claim my bush is a feminist statement rather than the result of my neglecting my grooming.

Cooooo very close.... Shaveducking is when women are only attracted to blokes with beards.... "

So reverse of usual pogonophobia?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
37 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Ghosting is when you've been in a proper relationship with someone and then they just dissappear of the face of the earth

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By *rispyDuckMan
37 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

What is “shaveducking”? Haha

Someone enlighten me please

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Shaveducking: a bloke whose best feature is his facial hair refusing to shave for fear of revealing his weak chin.

Or: me when I claim my bush is a feminist statement rather than the result of my neglecting my grooming.

Cooooo very close.... Shaveducking is when women are only attracted to blokes with beards.... "

May use that one.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Sidebarring is when you rudely text your friends/others during a date ......

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By *evils PuddingCouple
37 weeks ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

Marleying - when an old friend reminds you to stop being stingy with the minge or you'll get ghosted 3 times

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