FabSwingers.com forum: Do you take ages to fancy someone

By *rHotNotts OP Man
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can think of at least two occasions where someone I go absolutely wild with desire for but I barely noticed them at first or even disliked them , constantly argued/ fought with them in real life in one example then thinking she’s totally gorgeous .

Once I didn’t realise how great she was until our last day working together

then she spent several years in the wank bank of girls I never asked out

What’s occurring ? Anyone else have this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I either instantly want their penis or I think they are a total dickhead to start with.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Like a typical bloke, I tend to not pay attention because I assume women wouldn’t be interested. Then when they *are* interested in me I get a bit surprised and it takes me a while to switch tack and realise that yes, I totally would.

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By *ellinever70Woman
30 weeks ago

Ayrshire

If I take an instant dislike to someone that won't change to being overcome with lust

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By *WB85Man
30 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I either instantly want their penis or I think they are a total dickhead to start with.

I agree with this.....excluding the penis part lol

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

I never really thought about it , lol

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
30 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

No, there are very few people I have grown to fancy.

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By *arialoueWoman
30 weeks ago

bradford

Not to fancy someone no but to have strong feelings n trust them yes

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I never really thought about it , lol"

Same.

Though thinking about it, im fairly sure I either just fancy someone straight off or not.

I cant think of anyone ive disliked then fancied down the line.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
30 weeks ago

your head

Definitely times I've barely noticed someone or not noticed them at all until I have. But if I take an instant dislike to a person, that doesn't change.

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By *dam1971Man
30 weeks ago

Bedford

Some people are a bit of a slow burn; it takes a while for their personality to show (or I’m slow to notice it)

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By *iscean_dreamMan
30 weeks ago

Llanelli

No I know if I like someone enough to want sex with them and I'll let them know I fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I guess so, with my being single out of choice.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It's incredibly rare for me to be remotely attracted to anyone based purely on aesthetics or a short conversation.

It happens occasionally. But most times I start to feel the draw as I get to know them and see those flashes of chemistry.

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By *oo..Woman
30 weeks ago

Boo's World

Like/attracted to them for whatever reason is usually quick.

But, fancy them properly takes longer as I like to get to know them more first.

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By *agpie SaluteMan
30 weeks ago

bridgwater

I can look at someone and think they are attractive and then just the smallest of things can make them irresistible.

Just a funny comment, smile in a certain way and then I am smitten.

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

Yep. It's very very rare I fancy someone immediately. A handful of times in my life. Normally I have to be talking to/know them for some time/have a certain level of friendship.

And then there's a moment where I realise one day that actually I rather fancy this person. And then I think 'how did I not notice them before?'. I don't think I fancy people the right way.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
30 weeks ago

Somewhere

If I've argued with someone I'll rarely change my opinion. I'm not a very confrontational person. So they must have pissed me off a lot to get there.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"Yep. It's very very rare I fancy someone immediately. A handful of times in my life. Normally I have to be talking to/know them for some time/have a certain level of friendship.

And then there's a moment where I realise one day that actually I rather fancy this person. And then I think 'how did I not notice them before?'. I don't think I fancy people the right way.

This ...although sometimes I do think straight away.. oh I so would lol

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By *agnar73Man
30 weeks ago

elsewere

I don’t think I’ve went from dislike to like, more normally I start liking someone and then I see things that put me off them and gradually back away.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

I rarely notice people straight off, then they do something dickish and that's it - switched off !

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By *quirrel!Man
30 weeks ago

Nearby

Taking ages to fancy someone usually leads to deeper feelings! x

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Yes it takes me ages. It's rare I have a strong like or dislike for someone till I've got to know them also. I tend to have little interest in people who make snap judgments about others.

There's only been a few instances where I have experienced early attraction and they have had a very direct energy about them. I've still felt a strong desire to get to know them.

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By *sWyldWoman
30 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It varies. Some people are growers. I like to think I am

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Initial yes I find them attractive but that can go either way from there as I get to know them.cam be physically attractive but an unpleasant personality etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

No.fab is for cold meets get it over with release that pent up tension.

Fancying anyone got to be nuts..depends what kind of fancy you want. Fancy pants of them for sex yes.

But not for relationship fancying fab is a cold place

Meet greet fucc

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
30 weeks ago

Wales

"Like/attracted to them for whatever reason is usually quick.

But, fancy them properly takes longer as I like to get to know them more first. "

Exactly this

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