FabSwingers.com forum: favourite red flag

By *ool Couple OP Couple
37 weeks ago

Richmond

what's the obvious red flag when contacting someone ? Ill start , there first question is 'does she do anal?'

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By *ex HolesMan
37 weeks ago

Up North

The Chinese one

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By *obilebottomMan
37 weeks ago

All over

'Free now?' of a day old profile

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands

Rex Holes is my favourite red flag!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
37 weeks ago

Wherever

Anything suggesting they haven’t read the profile.

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By *ex HolesMan
37 weeks ago

Up North

"Rex Holes is my favourite red flag!

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By *aizyWoman
37 weeks ago

west midlands

"Rex Holes is my favourite red flag!

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
37 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"Moving to your area in a few months and want to make connections now..."

Oh what area is that exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

“Address??” In a first message

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By *ullyMan
37 weeks ago

Near Clacton

What you into? Really gets me, do they think were on here to sell flowers or something?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

"Anything suggesting they haven’t read the profile. "

So 80% of all messages?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
37 weeks ago

Wherever

"Anything suggesting they haven’t read the profile.

So 80% of all messages?"

I’d say more than that.

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By *herry delightWoman
37 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Couples profile that don't have pictures of the male half.

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By *cunnylassCouple
37 weeks ago

Exeter

When they inform us that they will be parked up in their lorry on a trading estate just down the road..

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Want to send a friends request when we ask for pics of Mr as they have none of their profile

Just send some - we don’t need to be friends

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By *allandathleticMan
37 weeks ago

Asgard

"Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase."

Damn it.

*highlights all. Delete*

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By *od ThrusterMan
37 weeks ago

Newport Pagnell

"Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase."

I had a message from that Houdini fella too!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm in your area for a couple of hours,

Or what size?.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
37 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

You fancy a massage, I'm trained.

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By *ileyandOhCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"Can i fuck your mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I pick up a bid vibe.

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By *irthandgirthMan
37 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Snow parties

I can only meet between the hours of... every 3rd Monday.

I know your profile says you are straight but..

HnH

I need a lift to...

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By *WB85Man
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

""Can i fuck your mrs" "

This one on our couples account!!!!!!

Does my head in

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By *naswingdressWoman
37 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase."

The ones I've had end up with me squirting so much I flood greater Manchester, or involve a secluded area alone telling no one (I can already envisage the eccentric hunky television detective tutting over my corpse because my bra and knickers don't match)

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By *reative-mindMan
37 weeks ago

Exeter

Owner of an axe and plenty of land would probably rouse a red flag from me.

That or they can't string a sentence together in their reply.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
37 weeks ago

Darwen

The Soviet Union had a pretty cool flag

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By *antam AvershiresMan
37 weeks ago

Falme

"Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Central

"“Address??” In a first message "

Sometimes that's the whole message

'Address?'

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
37 weeks ago

manchester

A single male profile with pics of women and sending a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Anything suggesting they haven’t read the profile. "

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By *rispyDuckMan
37 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Posting nagging ‘status updates’

lol

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By *ommander_StraxMan
37 weeks ago

Telford

Absolutely zero attempt to read the profile but chance it anyway, only to send the most insanely poor, badly written bastardisation of the English language known to man. I’m all for typos, I make them all the time… but “hy bbe wuut” isn’t really going to catapult my underwear elastic across the room now is it.

Also dick pics. Get the net!!!

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By *J the bullMan
37 weeks ago

Washington

Couples seeking a guy with no pics of wife or partner...

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By *naswingdressWoman
37 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"“Address??” In a first message

Sometimes that's the whole message

'Address?'"

I've had messages reading approximately

"I've got an hour window. 123 Example Street, Faketown, green door, mind the dog, be here in 20 minutes"

I'm not sure if I hope they're giving a stranger their address or not. If they're not, I feel sorry for whoever lives there.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

STI's / STD's

Others would be: signs of narcissism, aggression, victimization, abusive behavior, etc.

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By *reative-mindMan
37 weeks ago

Exeter

"The Soviet Union had a pretty cool flag "

Had a bit of yellow on it so does it count still?

How much red does a red flag need to be a red flag?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
37 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"what's the obvious red flag when contacting someone ?

A response.

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By *edphoenix666Couple
37 weeks ago

Cheshire

Do you play bareback?

Run for the hills!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Is this any good for you?

With an attached dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

people who spam over and over again because we haven’t replied within 2 minutes x

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By *orthern BeardMan
37 weeks ago

Preston

‘Anyone want to send me a site supporter pass’

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By *ommander_StraxMan
37 weeks ago

Telford

"‘Anyone want to send me a site supporter pass’"

I see that a lot in status updates. I don’t get it, it’s a fiver. It’s begging… This isn’t Only Yams. That and openly asking for drugs, or showing them in pics. Barf.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I'm not racist but...

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By *tsJustKateWoman
37 weeks ago

London

When it's clear that they haven't bothered to read my profile

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By *uckyNineMan
37 weeks ago

prescot

Joined 1hr ago and the only profile info is their snap addy

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By *ommander_StraxMan
37 weeks ago

Telford

There’s currently a profile near me (I won’t link it) that’s asking people to do cum tributes. Fair enough. But these tributes are to random women this person decides, and then they are sent “anonymously” to them. They have asked dozens of times of the last few days alone.

Whoever does that… well, enjoy the court proceedings I guess! You could be sending anything to anybody without consent… think on people!

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By *hristopherd999Man
37 weeks ago

Brentwood

[Removed by poster at 10/04/24 08:53:53]

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By *hristopherd999Man
37 weeks ago

Brentwood

'Will you fuck my wife hard?' when chatting to a 'couple'

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By *hosetwo200Couple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

'I always play safe'

Every pic is their cock in a different woman with no condom

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Any profile looking for "Exceptional Men only"

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By *astcoast2000Man
37 weeks ago

Newcastle County Down

Face pic

When they have a blank profile

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

A ton of bareback pics hanging out of lots of people.

Couples profile with an invisible man.

Mrs

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By *oldyoudown41Man
37 weeks ago

caledonian

"When it's clear that they haven't bothered to read my profile"

Apologies

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By *iddlesticksMan
37 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"what's the obvious red flag when contacting someone ? Ill start , there first question is 'does she do anal?'

Does she?

Sorry couldn’t resist.

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By *CLM87Woman
37 weeks ago

Derbyshire

When my profile states don't be crude and I get messages saying what they are going to do to me in graphic detail.. erm right ok then

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By *WINGStars23Couple
37 weeks ago

Northwest

[Removed by poster at 10/04/24 10:46:31]

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By *WINGStars23Couple
37 weeks ago

Northwest

Messages from MF couples, but their profile only shows content of him. Obviously, not read the profile he's just messaged.

Females, either full-on what would you do to me. Or one word answers.

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By *otswoldBiGuyMan
37 weeks ago

Stroud

...keeping it classy

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

All red flags are green to me

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By *rcoupleCouple
37 weeks ago

Mid Glam

"Meat 2nite"

Never reading the profile.

Getting arsey if we don't insta reply.

"What will she do"

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By *hoccaMan
37 weeks ago

local

All the photos look like they were taking in 1992 ….on accident

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By *agdoll-and-BonedaddyCouple
37 weeks ago

Halloween Town, Belfast

Profiles that are like:

Username: BigJohn

Male: John Female: Mary

Pics:

-John flexing in the bathroom mirror.

-John's cock

-Couple more of John.

-Blurry picture of Mary from behind while she's changing or something.

Description: "I'm John, here are all my positive attributes, interests and likes" (spanning several paragraphs)

"Oh and my Mary's hot," Physical description that doesn't match the details what's above), "and she's definitely on board for all of this too".

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
37 weeks ago

at work

Swiss

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
37 weeks ago

at work

"what's the obvious red flag when contacting someone ? Ill start , there first question is 'does she do anal?'

When the profile says it’s a couple but then states in the description that they arent a couple. There is no couple. It’s a single man that sometimes hooks up with different women.

When the profile says the female half of the couple is a voyeur but the pics are lots of pics of different women sucking different cocks

When the cocks in the pics look like they have active herpes or other stis

Just a lil bit of red flag bunting for ya to consider op.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

When she calls be daddy without checking how I feel about being called that. That’s my favourite one

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

When she says she’s not poly or couldn’t do poly. Another favourite red flag for me. Love getting involved after they say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Older women.

Another red flag that I can’t help but love.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Women in Hampshire! BIG red flag!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
37 weeks ago

Trowbridge

47 public pics, all of their dick in different angles

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
37 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Aint no red flags on fab....

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By *onguesandpunsMan
37 weeks ago

East Midlands

Male and female couple profiles which consist of 12 photos of the woman and one of the man, where the profile is clearly written by the male. Does your partner really want to be in this scene and should we be concerned for their wellbeing and safety?

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By *orl1971Couple
37 weeks ago

Glasgow

A “How are yous” message

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By *gent CoulsonMan
37 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Try anything, I have no limits.

Big red flag

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By *lossomTreeWoman
37 weeks ago

Ipswich

Couples profile over a year old, zero verifications.

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

Being asked if I want to swap pics of our partners or exes

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Anything goes/no limits.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Women in Hampshire! BIG red flag!

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

Saying they only do bareback, especially when they've got loads of photos/videos of them doing it and a massive amount of meet verifications where it has been done

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By *anJenny 181Couple
37 weeks ago

Preston

Can't accommodate

Can't travel

Might have to go round and shag them in the street then

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
37 weeks ago

on the move

Made absolutely no attempt to read the profile / ignored all the filters.

Or, posting conspiracy theories/hateful stuff.

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By *cLovin2Man
37 weeks ago

Reading

"47 public pics, all of their dick in different angles

You think I need a few more?

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

"Erotic fantasy ideas that will ultimately end up with me inside a suitcase."

What??? I'm assuming this is based on personal experience being sent that sort of fantasy idea?

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By *nnCeeWoman
37 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"47 public pics, all of their dick in different angles

You think I need a few more?

Yeah, round it up to 50 x

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
37 weeks ago

Birmingham

As soon as we see it's a couple or lady that's messaged. We don't have to open it... it's an instant red flag for us

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By *ools and the brainCouple
37 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Women in Hampshire! BIG red flag!

Why????

Is that a dig at someone??

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Women in Hampshire! BIG red flag!

Why????

Is that a dig at someone??"

Twas a private joke between two friends. Wasn’t that the point of the thread?

(Some people always see trouble I guess even when it’s flirting)

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By *ools and the brainCouple
37 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Women in Hampshire! BIG red flag!

Why????

Is that a dig at someone??

Twas a private joke between two friends. Wasn’t that the point of the thread?

(Some people always see trouble I guess even when it’s flirting)

How are we supposed to know it's an in joke between friends?

I'm not blessed with the gift of mind reading !

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By *lik and PaulCouple
37 weeks ago

cahoots

"Anything suggesting they haven’t read the profile. "

Same for us

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"what's the obvious red flag when contacting someone ? Ill start , there first question is 'does she do anal?'

Oh why is that a red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

420 friendly

Instant red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I’ll bring the snow

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
37 weeks ago

Arlesey

"I’ll bring the snow "

Definitely agree with both of yours

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By *uriousKinksters00Couple
37 weeks ago

London

Couples accounts with 90% dick pics and one or two of the female just getting dressed with her back to camera (clearly unaware she's being snapped)

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By *mily36CWoman
37 weeks ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Any profile that's been active over a year but with no veri ...(or just one veri from a hidden profile) with no avatar pic, and yet still a site supporter

...really, why?

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By *ove2lick27Man
37 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Can't accommodate

Can't travel

Might have to go round and shag them in the street then

There's not an emoji on here for an emoji response lol but you've hit the nail on the head with this one haha

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By *ove2lick27Man
37 weeks ago

Sheffield

Can someone send me a code and you'll be my first fuck .

Really

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By *umbriaman1962Man
37 weeks ago

outside of penrith

If sounds too good to be true

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By *ommander_StraxMan
37 weeks ago

Telford

Another one I just remembered, as I just saw it again…

User is none smoker but clearly has a ciggie on the go in their pics.

If you can’t even tell the truth about that, what else are you fibbing about?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

One of the best messages I received.... It was early hours of the morning, they messaged, I'm in a layby come meet, popped out for an early morning walk

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By *inochioMan
37 weeks ago

Derbyshire

"Im married", its on my profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Central

"Another one I just remembered, as I just saw it again…

User is none smoker but clearly has a ciggie on the go in their pics.

If you can’t even tell the truth about that, what else are you fibbing about?"

Pics may not be as recent, as so many of us would expect. If they gave up smoking a month ago, the day after taking the pic with a fag, it would still be more recent than many of the pics people have had before meets, when the attendee is more like the great grandfather of the man in the pic.

It's common sense to keep profiles current but it's easy to miss stuff

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