FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a swinger or do you just like sex

By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
25 weeks ago

Winchester

With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
25 weeks ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm both

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

I'm not a swinger.

I am ENM. Poly.

Someone used the word libertine recently whilst we were talking. I quite like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I haven't got a husband so need someone else's hanging out the back of me.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

I don’t have time for a husband if my own, so I’ll borrow other peoples

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By *ouple4u1Couple
25 weeks ago

epsom

Not really swing as my wife plays with who she wants but I’m not allowed

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By *lik and PaulCouple
25 weeks ago

Flagrante

We are swingers who also like sex...a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Dunno. Sounds hot, I’m in

I’ve asked and thought that exact same question before, single people on here, just using it as a hook up site.?

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By *ouple4u1Couple
25 weeks ago

epsom

"I don’t have time for a husband if my own, so I’ll borrow other peoples

What a great idea, my wife has me but still borrows others

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"Dunno. Sounds hot, I’m in

I’ve asked and thought that exact same question before, single people on here, just using it as a hook up site.? "
or just more understanding of ENM, I don’t want quick 1offs, but I don’t want a boyfriend either

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By *stwo2023Couple
25 weeks ago

Worcester

"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people. "

Define swinger

Evie

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By *dc1Man
25 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.

Define swinger

Evie "

That is a good question.

I think a swinger is a person/ persons that make a connection before sex. Socials, drinks and chats at clubs, etc. The person that just wants sex is wambam see you latter person. But nobody should judge as some want exactly that. You could say are greedy girls club nights not swingers then. Cause they are. Its just what people want

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
25 weeks ago

Heathrow

"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.

Define swinger

Evie

That is a good question.

That means we’re not swingers! So what have we been doing since 2001? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Dunno. Sounds hot, I’m in

I’ve asked and thought that exact same question before, single people on here, just using it as a hook up site.? or just more understanding of ENM, I don’t want quick 1offs, but I don’t want a boyfriend either"

Yeh. Maybe. I always explained it, that’s swinging appeals to me because I have a hippie vibe about me. That’s my view in a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm not a swinger.

And I barely like the sex.

I don't know why I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"I'm not a swinger.

And I barely like the sex.

I don't know why I'm here."

I'm probably not a swinger.

And I like the sexy sex.

I don't know why I'm here.

I might put this on my profile

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I'm not a swinger.

And I barely like the sex.

I don't know why I'm here."

I do.

You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
25 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We don't consider ourselves swingers.

We just enjoy 3somes with friends

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"I'm not a swinger.

And I barely like the sex.

I don't know why I'm here.

I do.

You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave."

This is a little heart warming.

You are not my favourite this morning Sam.

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By *imply DeeWoman
25 weeks ago

Wherever

Neither.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

I am single but do like joining couples sometimes. I stay on this site for a the forums and b i tend to find more of the kind of people i like than on any other app. Plus they tend to understand with enm means here.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I like using other men’s wives so I’m a genuine something. Swinger sounds better then other more obvious, pejorative nouns for men like me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I'm not a swinger.

And I barely like the sex.

I don't know why I'm here.

I do.

You’re here because you feel welcome, you like that people like me enjoy your sarcasm and you miss us everytime you leave.

This is a little heart warming.

You are not my favourite this morning Sam.

You lie.

I’ve always been your favourite.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
25 weeks ago

cardiff

Definitely not a swinger and i prefer a nice cup of tea to sex. So maybe just here because its a nice distraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

East Sussex

What's the difference?

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
25 weeks ago

Heathrow

"What's the difference?"

Are you asking what the difference is between swingers and people who just like sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Can't you be both?

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By *ellinever70Woman
25 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I think an awful lot of swingers prefer socialising over sex

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
25 weeks ago

Lurgan

We are only starting out, but I think we are swingers alright, though we like sex a lot too

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people. "

I've always struggled a little when anyone tries to define what swinging is.

Some couples still feel you can't be a single and swing without a partner. That could just be seen as wife swapping.

Some singles are literally just looking for one off hook ups. That could just be seen as casual sex.

Some people, couples and singles, have no interest in clubs or socials and just want pure anonymous physical interactions. Is that swinging or again just casual, sometimes extra marital sex?

Then there's the swinging/kink crossover. Is it more about fetishes than sex?

What about the ENM/poly community?

What about the doggers, the pure exhibitionists or voyeurs, the campers, those that just socialise but only ever physically interact with their own partners?

Who do you include in any definition of what a 'swinger' really is?

Because I'd honestly hate to have that job.

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By *viatrixWoman
25 weeks ago

Redhill

I think I’m just a horny slut

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"I'm not a swinger.

I am ENM. Poly.

Someone used the word libertine recently whilst we were talking. I quite like that."

In France swinging clubs are called libertine . I also like it.

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By *r TriomanMan
25 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm a swinger, I'm looking for community, a sense of belonging... Yet to find it but I'm not giving up.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm not a swinger but I definitely enjoy sex

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By *ony MannMan
25 weeks ago

Wallop

Sex with friends is not the same and 20 people in a room fucking and swapping.

Both are good for different reasons

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By *issmorganWoman
25 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm a swinger, just not a very frequent one these days.

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

Swingers don't like sex. I knew it!!

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By *elboy1978Man
25 weeks ago

Jarrow

Both

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By *r TriomanMan
25 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Pearl's a swinger....

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By *ealitybitesMan
25 weeks ago

Belfast

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"I think I’m just a horny slut

Amen to that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
25 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely not a swinger

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By *eys00Man
25 weeks ago

have boots will travel

Not a swinger, just really love sex. Sure who doesn't!?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
25 weeks ago

Glasgow

"I think I’m just a horny slut

… who smiles a lot.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
25 weeks ago

outside belfast x

I would say am a single bi swinger I like meeting couples and group fun and sometimes that doesn't even lead to full blown sex and that's ok I like to tease and please all the same..if there's sex happy days it's a bonus...but never expected I don't have a high sex drive ...

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
25 weeks ago

Bradford

Don't understand swinging as such going to clubs and having sex with strangers . we only brought other women into our dynamic .because female wanted it .I don't need any other women when I got one .but Maya can't have sex now

So now i have another lover so I've got the best of both worlds .but have no desire for others .

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
25 weeks ago

Hull

Have a regular FAB FB who I play 1-1 with, play MMF usually, MFF if I've been lucky or 1 to many occasionally if I'm at a party.

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
25 weeks ago

Walsall,Reading

I’m still finding out if I’m a swinger……. I need connection which makes the experience so more exciting.

I do love sex not that I get a lot of it. I’m trying to put myself out there x

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By *viatrixWoman
25 weeks ago

Redhill

"I think I’m just a horny slut

Amen to that

When’s the repeat? Been a while since Windy City…

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By *viatrixWoman
25 weeks ago

Redhill

"I think I’m just a horny slut

… who smiles a lot.

The cat’s gotta smile when she’s got the cream!

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
25 weeks ago

Walsall,Reading

"I think I’m just a horny slut

… who smiles a lot.

The cat’s gotta smile when she’s got the cream!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Stockport

Don't swingers have parties where the men throw car keys into a bowl and the ladies pick one at random? What, not since 1973? Well that's blown my chances of swapping the Ford E$cort for an E-Type Jag...

As a solo trans woman (non-op) I think that I'm excluded from any definition of swinging that accepts couples only.

Quick meets and one-offs with people I know very little about - yes, but not really my preference. I'd much rather get to know people so that if and when sex occurs there is a possibility of it being more than just physical grunt and groan. At the same time though, I'm certainly not looking for any exclusive attachments, I feel too old and battered by life...

I'm probably just complicated and hard work.

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By *dc1Man
25 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

"With so many single men on here, I wonder if there are actually that many swingers or just people who fancy sex one on one with people.

Define swinger

Evie

That is a good question.

That means we’re not swingers! So what have we been doing since 2001? lol "

I did say we are all different.

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