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By *orneySlut69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

stroud

Y do the single guys think any kind of an attuide will help lol if you give me a bicthy message y would we meet? Talk bout shooting yourself in the foot a lol some of em think if we on a swing site we wana screw every guy who messages us, WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just message people like I message anyone else. No attitude. Don't see the point

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

single women/couples are just as bad..

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By *orneySlut69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

stroud

I try to be nice ( no thanks or not ATM ) but some act like I just hit em with my car lol an messaging over an over again, don't like the block, but sometimes it's needed lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I try to be nice ( no thanks or not ATM ) but some act like I just hit em with my car lol an messaging over an over again, don't like the block, but sometimes it's needed lol"

Well take control and block, saves you having to share your angst!

I only meet single guys, talk to the ones that interest, ignore the ones that don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice ( no thanks or not ATM ) but some act like I just hit em with my car lol an messaging over an over again, don't like the block, but sometimes it's needed lol"

Saying that I reply everytime and say not for me etc but even that doesn't deter nasty unwanted messages

Swings and roundabouts

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I try to be nice ( no thanks or not ATM ) but some act like I just hit em with my car lol an messaging over an over again, don't like the block, but sometimes it's needed lol

Saying that I reply everytime and say not for me etc but even that doesn't deter nasty unwanted messages

Swings and roundabouts "

If I get a nasty message from a no thanks then it just confirms I was right to turn them down.

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By *ark NoirMan
over a year ago

London

With me I like to chat and build a rapport, no way after just 2 messages(for example) should anyone think it's gonna happen.

As we are on the subject of bad attitudes I would say that some couples on here shouldn't be so obnoxious, respect goes both ways.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is not an excuse but I do wonder sometimes if 'user names' drive certain responses & behaviours from people who write to them

as I say, not an excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is not an excuse but I do wonder sometimes if 'user names' drive certain responses & behaviours from people who write to them

as I say, not an excuse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice guys finish last!

Don't think they put attitude on purpose, they probably just have an attitude problem in real life.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Y do the single guys think any kind of an attuide will help lol if you give me a bicthy message y would we meet? Talk bout shooting yourself in the foot a lol some of em think if we on a swing site we wana screw every guy who messages us, WTF"

Desperation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is not an excuse but I do wonder sometimes if 'user names' drive certain responses & behaviours from people who write to them

as I say, not an excuse"

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Im sure it must be annoying/hurtful, but Im guessing women and couples get hundreds of messages on this site; out of all of those how many are actually abusive? I think it's probably safe to assume the majority are not otherwise why would you stay on a site where most msgs are personally offensive.

Focus on the good points and dont give the negatives any more of your time or energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try to be nice ( no thanks or not ATM ) but some act like I just hit em with my car lol an messaging over an over again, don't like the block, but sometimes it's needed lol"

Being nice is good - but if by doing that you get abuse/questions/grief - the block button is just another site tool, so don't ever worry about using it.

You guys know what you're looking for and if those messaging don't meet your needs it's up to you whether to reply (there's never an obligation !) and whether to ignore, delete or block.

And if those sending messages don't like it - it's more their problem than yours!!

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By *rT30Man
over a year ago

Munster


"single women/couples are just as bad.."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"it is not an excuse but I do wonder sometimes if 'user names' drive certain responses & behaviours from people who write to them

as I say, not an excuse"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the attitude that you project from within your profile is partly to blame for any attitude that people have when they message you ?

Just a thought ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the attitude that you project from within your profile is partly to blame for any attitude that people have when they message you ?

Just a thought ...."

Good point!

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