FabSwingers.com forum: Flowers or not?

By *lickingFingers OP Man
26 weeks ago

Wilts

Would you send flowers to somebody anonymously if they were married and the hub is never around or shows any interest in his wife?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If I knew yes I'd send them flowers infront of the husband

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By *uby StarCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

No I wouldn't.

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By *a LunaWoman
26 weeks ago

South

If you’re going to dilly dally in those kind of waters then own it and don’t do it anonymously.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
26 weeks ago

South Down

Absolutely not. You never know the effect doing that might have.

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By *rucking-HellMan
26 weeks ago

Northampton

No.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
26 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No! That’s an awful thing to do.

Also that might just be a line she’s spinning you

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By *lue RascalMan
26 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Nah, bit weird that.

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By *quirrel!Man
26 weeks ago

Don’t even go there!

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
26 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

No. You never know what’s going on in someone else’s marriage

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
26 weeks ago

North Wales

Oh.. I can see you think you're doing a good thing. But please for everyone's sake including your own, don't!

I think it may be wise to take a back seat in this situation OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Erm…no

Don’t get yourself involved.

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
26 weeks ago

North Wales

I wouldn't.... its not a nice thing to

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By *estarossa.Woman
26 weeks ago

Flagrante

The fact that you even have to ask is concerning.

Why would you?

The potential damage you could cause is huge.

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By *entleman JayMan
26 weeks ago

Wakefield

No.

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By *midnight-Woman
26 weeks ago

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Only if it is a normal thing like a birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It could make an unhappy situation become dangerous. You don't know how either party will react & behave within the marriage. I would not.

If I knew the husband I'd be a friend to him, see what's going on and support him to be better. Or same for the wife. If either wanted to leave, I would support them with that too. It's their decision to stay or leave though and I would respect that, support them either way. That's it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

Why? What would the person hope to achieve?

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By *ythenMan
26 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"Would you send flowers to somebody anonymously if they were married and the hub is never around or shows any interest in his wife? "

Definitely not .. putting that person in potential very tricky situation

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'd find it a bit creepy if I got flowers anonymously tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Yeah think it’s probably not the best idea as can cause problems for the person you’re sending them but also may fuck up the husband if he finds out that way. Just cause he’s not giving attention doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her, sometimes people just get in a rhythm of being comfortable with their long term partner and forget/don’t put as much effort into mixing things up.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
26 weeks ago

wonderland.

No. Getting flowers anonymously could cause many issues and is creepy

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By *ames250122Man
26 weeks ago

Worcester

"Would you send flowers to somebody anonymously if they were married and the hub is never around or shows any interest in his wife? "

No, definitely not. Doesn’t matter what the situation is. If they are with someone else then for me personally, I see it as I have no business trying to pursue or seduce them. Not a home wrecker of any kind, there a plenty of single people out there and they’re relationship will go it own natural course without others trying to prey off it

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I only send flowers to myself anonymously. My neighbours get to think I’m realy popular

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