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 I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view! | |||
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"I'm unsure what paying for premium has to do with anything "Well he’s paid for three years. | |||
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now…. "As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… | |||
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "Like previous comments your profile is nothing special….. So clearly not followed the tips…. Unless you have a sense of entitlement | |||
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "Fella - we have looked at your profile and you clearly haven't | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? " I'd do me  | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me "We'd all do you PD  | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
We'd all do you PD "This is why I like you so much, always honest  | |||
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"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst. "So kind Nero | |||
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"I'm unsure what paying for premium has to do with anything "Shsssh! We need people to pay for premium in order to keep it free for the rest of us! | |||
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"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst. "So I'm just sloppy seconds? Thanks a bloody lot [Flounces off in a huff] | |||
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"There's nothing wrong with your profile, OP. Nice photos. And remember, many women look at profiles in ninja mode, so you'd not know whether you've been viewed by them. You've had an in person verification, so you're doing something right. Don't give up xx " • Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant. | |||
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"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst.
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So I'm just sloppy seconds? Thanks a bloody lot
[Flounces off in a huff] "• I'm saving/savouring the best until last, my pocket-sized nympho!  | |||
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"Also the fact you have been on Fab 3 years, means must have read this type of topic at least 47,593 times so you really should know the drill by now….
As I said, I’ve followed the guidelines and taken on board the “tips”… "If you feel like you’ve done it all, I’m unsure on what it is you want us to tell you? | |||
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" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant." I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! | |||
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"I would do them ^ both, but not at the same time. PD f¹rst.
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So I'm just sloppy seconds? Thanks a bloody lot
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I'm saving/savouring the best until last, my pocket-sized nympho! "Be still my beating foof  | |||
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" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant. I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! "Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs? | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs? "Dogs? | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?"If you know, you know | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?"When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate "It now says "can accommodate, but must be comfortable with a dog." (which i think is the best bit ) | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate "It said “can accommodate but must be comfortable with a dog” that’s never changed. | |||
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"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile. Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!! Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see! Thanks guys! "I was my usual sarcastic self on this thread but good on you OP.... that looks much better imho 
Happy hunting! | |||
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"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile. Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!! Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see! Thanks guys! "Just join in and blether … here, chat … dunno folk say socials and clubs… meh just join in lol x | |||
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"I’ve taken everything on board and changed my profile. Thanks to everyone who commented- including the comment about the dog- but some people don’t like em and I’m an upfront sort of guy and he’s lived with me for 9 years… no woman is changing that!!! Maybe things will change, maybe things won’t… we shall see! Thanks guys!
Just join in and blether … here, chat … dunno folk say socials and clubs… meh just join in lol x" | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate
It said “can accommodate but must be comfortable with a dog” that’s never changed."Sorry it hasn’t changed, and defo leave it! The profile is much better OP, happy fabing | |||
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" Err this is the revamped one??
Maybe they don't like dogs?
Dogs?
When he started the forum post his profile said “must like dogs” which I get as a dog owner if he wants to accommodate
It now says "can accommodate, but must be comfortable with a dog." (which i think is the best bit ) "I agree, nice touch  | |||
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site. Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate. I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers. " There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why | |||
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site. Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate. I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers. There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why "Lucky if the message even gets opened haha | |||
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" Agreed. To be honest, before you commented his profile was a million miles from what you can now see (cock photos etc). This thread is now pretty much redundant. I took onboard what everyone was saying and without sharing too much private stuff, revamped it! "Much better photos! I actually love the cheeky grin P | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me "I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it. PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face "I might pop my cheeky face in your box | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face "To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
I might pop my cheeky face in your box "It would be most welcome  | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing "I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me
I’m seeing it now post changes. It’s just a bit meh for me. Also, fab being a swingers site, your profile says you’re looking for females or FF couples only, in my head I’m wondering why you’re not just on a swipey app. If you got some kinks that are your reason for being here, hint at it.
PD here that I’ve quoted - now that is a profile!
That said, if you sent me a decent PM I would probably reply as you’ve got a cheeky face
To be fair, I’m only interested in male bodies and no one has suggested I leave because of that. Being straight (like real straight, not fab straight) is a thing
I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x"Ah sorry, my bad. Thanks for explaining xxx | |||
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x" Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!” I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm. You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference | |||
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"..what kind of dog? "Only a lab-springer, but he’s the expert on that position
Some people aren’t a fan, so that’s who I include it | |||
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"..what kind of dog? "• A dachshund, your Lådyship. | |||
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A dachshund, your Lådyship. "Would appear the only kind is “sausage” | |||
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!” I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm. You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference "Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation  . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x | |||
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!” I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm. You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference
Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x"Genuinely love your support in this- thank you
Where do you normally go to? | |||
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" I never said anyone had to leave, just that it raises the question in my mind. No hate intended x Nobody ever thought you intended any hate- maybe you’re just sexy as hell and they all thought “damn!” I’m on the other apps you mention, but long term stuff isn’t my thing atm. You ask why I’m not looking for couples, like you, I’m straight- I don’t want to share a room with another hard cock- I’d rather mine was the only one- just my preference
Oh I’m not straight - lover of all human forms, but appreciate the explanation . Go to a club, I’ll introduce you to some people who play solo x
Genuinely love your support in this- thank you
Where do you normally go to?"Quest. Message me if you want to arrange x | |||
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"You have 1 public picture and virtually no text...maybe this needs expanding a little. Good luck." This | |||
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"I don’t reply to profile pic with a dick, you’ve sent me it unsolicited just by messaging me (I’ll handle the hate for that) have one public if you must but not as profile pic. The name is pretty awful, sorry and the “single Pringle” comment a bit cheesy but that only my opinion" so would this be like saying you sending ass pics to everyone who commented then as your dp is of your ass just wondering as this makes no sense to me? | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? I'd do me "I'd do.yoh too. | |||
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"Unfortunately being on this site isn't a given mate. It's hard work to get interest especially as there are so many men on this site. Profile seems fine, I've only seen it since you've changed a few bits. Someone will come along mate. I've been on this site since I was 18, I've only grabbed the interest of a small handful of lovely fabbers. There was no “given”. Just wanted to increase the reply and message rate where, even if it’s off the cuff, I do t even get a profile view when it’s personable to someone and they’re local- just couldn’t work out why "Like it was pointed out earlier, you can't possibly know whether you get a profile view or not. A high percentage of women do not show up on viewed profile lists as they look in hidden mode. | |||
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"Most will look we just look in stealth mode, saves the hassle of messages asking if we like what we'd seen (obviously not or we'd have messaged.) Anyway your bio is short, doesn't give much away about you at all, you like eating pussy great, not all women like receiving oral & that's the only thing you've put. Mrs | |||
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Also use your Tag line to describe and attract, rather than just "looking for fun"
And a add little more location detail.
As some never go beyond "last looked at me" so that's your first shot.
I also appreciate the mention of the dog, you'll find some dog lovers will see as a bonus, whereas I won't go into a home with a dog so appreciate the info up front.
But, at the end of the day, it really is a numbers game... hang in there!!
Definitely recommend socials to meet a number of people in a short time and saves a lot of leg work!
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"How do you know people have/n't viewed ?.its one of the reasons the viewed feature is worthless. some be ninjas  .
Who was it that said 'to do the same things over and over again a6nd expect a different result is insane"
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"Not sure your profile seems fine to me, patience is the key | |||
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!"Nothing unique about your cheesy grin pics or profile description. Same as every other guy. | |||
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"I’ve followed all the tips… I have information, I’ve kept enough back to keep people interested, I have a photo, “friends only” photos, age parameters, I pay for premium, I message 3-8 people a week with personable messages… but even messaging somebody, they don’t even view my profile I’ve paid for premium for 3 years and hardly had a single view!
How do you know people have/n't viewed ?.its one of the reasons the viewed feature is worthless. some be ninjas .
Who was it that said 'to do the same things over and over again a6nd expect a different result is insane"
"I think it's attributed to Einstein that doing the same thing repeatedly expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. | |||
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"Hiya op Firstly being a site supporter isn't the gateway to getting loads of naughtiness " WTF!!!! What a wasted £5… I feel r0bbed | |||
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"Hiya op Firstly being a site supporter isn't the gateway to getting loads of naughtiness WTF!!!! What a wasted £5… I feel r0bbed" lol me to | |||
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"Well this thread is a refreshing change.... More pics, newer pics, better pics, more text, better text. Look at your profile... Would you be tempted to fuck yourself? " I'd fuck myself | |||
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"Hiya op Firstly being a site supporter isn't the gateway to getting loads of naughtiness WTF!!!! What a wasted £5… I feel r0bbed" Exsctly hardly splashing the cash (barely blowing a wad). The whole argument of OP smacks of the single guys going to spas/ events etc and complaining they didn't even get a blowjob despite the high cover cost for singles.... entitlement and chattle methinks. | |||
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"..what kind of dog?
Only a lab-springer, but he’s the expert on that position
Some people aren’t a fan, so that’s who I include it "No wonder you are not getting results. you are on the wrong site. You should be on 'lab Springers'! | |||
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"Oh yes and the mentioning of the dog, dog owners don't always realise their home stinks of dog a perfectly normal thing for a dog owner but to the sensitive noses of non dog owners that smell would put them off so great that you mentioned it "Also, dog hairs all over you clothing, when returning to the marital home, can take rather a lot of explaining! | |||
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It's also a pretty desperate status. 'it's my birthday, will someone suck me off' | |||
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"Who gives a toss what you pay
It's also a pretty desperate status. 'it's my birthday, will someone suck me off' "Not particularly a typical birthday present either. What happened to chocolates and flowers or a bottle of champs | |||
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