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They go silent when you ask for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago

A 'face' photo of themselves, lol.

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By *amierebelMan
41 weeks ago

My own little world


"A 'face' photo of themselves, lol. "

Dont ask then

Problem solved.

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Do you send first? It’s you asking…

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By *ucka39Man
41 weeks ago

Newcastle

Have one public then no need to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…"

I always send 1st.

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…"

I always find that strange. If you ask girst, you show first surely.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
41 weeks ago

Essex

Yup

You show me, I show you.

Your fucking funeral mind

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

I always send 1st."

I’d sadly take it as not attracted to you enough to return if you’ve sent one. If it’s from a verified real account that is, I’d never send a face pic to someone who was just photo verified, too many fakes

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By *a LunaWoman
41 weeks ago

South Wales

I sometimes don’t bother if I’m not actually going to be meeting them.

Just in case I win the lotto. I don’t want Dave in Scunthorpe choking on his tea when he sees me on This Morning with my cheque and then blabbing his chops off!

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

I always find that strange. If you ask girst, you show first surely."

Fab etiquette in my mind

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
41 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"A 'face' photo of themselves, lol. "

Just ask for vag......

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"I sometimes don’t bother if I’m not actually going to be meeting them.

Just in case I win the lotto. I don’t want Dave in Scunthorpe choking on his tea when he sees me on This Morning with my cheque and then blabbing his chops off!"

Haha, best forum post of the day!! ()

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

We don't send face pics unless we want to. If someone messages out of the blue with a face pic attached, that's their choice. We've not asked for it and we won't necessarily be replying, or attaching our own faces, unless we deem it appropriate.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
41 weeks ago

chichester

Wait till you tell them you only meet people after a quick 2min video call to prove we are ego we say we are

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Unless your in a job you need to keep pics away from and there private it’s always best to just send a pic xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake "

We're probably fake

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

We're probably fake "

Who knows?

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

We're probably fake

Who knows? "

I am fake. My name used to be statictop

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

We're probably fake

Who knows?

I am fake. My name used to be statictop "

Guess it was less work then.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
41 weeks ago

Markfield


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

We're probably fake

Who knows?

I am fake. My name used to be statictop "

Took me a second.

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By *obilebottomMan
41 weeks ago

All over


"Sent first without them asking?

Maybe they’re not interested.

Maybe they’re fake

We're probably fake

Who knows?

I am fake. My name used to be statictop

Took me a second. "

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By *ermite12ukMan
41 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

I'm also fake, as I haven't a picture to my name. (Can't be arsed tbh. As 2 years displaying a pic resulted in null points. So can't see the point.)

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Hard no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I am happy to send face photos to people if I'm interested in meeting them, otherwise I don't see the point in sending one.

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…"

•

I've never sent a first in over 3? years.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

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I've never sent a first in over 3? years."

Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

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I've never sent a first in over 3? years.

Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving "

I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

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I've never sent a first in over 3? years.

Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving

I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly "

Oh really? Haven’t followed his green arrow, in that case no way would I return a face pic! My mug is only being shown to people I genuinely know I’m meeting for a social first

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…

•

I've never sent a first in over 3? years.

Same (second profile) genuinely intrigued to know if OP is just sending face pics with first message then asking to get one in return or he means, after chatting a few hours, days etc then asking for one and not receiving

I think he means with first message if I recall another thread correctly

Oh really? Haven’t followed his green arrow, in that case no way would I return a face pic! My mug is only being shown to people I genuinely know I’m meeting for a social first "

Just from recalling another discussion on showing face/sending face pic but that’s my memory sort of thing.

I think I’d either do it if asked or say if a chat was going okay. I’m sort of unsure around just sending

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

You can ask for what you want but there's potentially no correlation between what you're asking for and their lack of interest.

You will find many dead ends when engagingz just because most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Expect that and you're being realistic

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
41 weeks ago

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I don't share face pics with people that don't fit what my profile is looking for, and I never ask for any. What's the point if I have no intention of meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Do you send first? It’s you asking…"

You can see his face in first pic on his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago


"Wait till you tell them you only meet people after a quick 2min video call to prove we are ego we say we are "

Wow, stunning pics.

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By *CLM87Woman
41 weeks ago

Derbyshire

If I'm interested and I've been speaking to them a while and I know I won't likely have to work with them, then I send a face pic.

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
41 weeks ago

east coast

The amount of times we have sent ours after being ask to and then don't get nothing back so H put on our profile don't ask to see ours if your not sending one first lol and we still get ask to send them first lol x J

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I can message someone for days/weeks and I never ask for one. And I'd only send if I thought I might want to meet them, if they aren't my type I wouldn't.

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By *irtymCouple
41 weeks ago

Scotland

We don't send faces pics until there's small vibe as many times we are rejected just off bat as I'm not photogenic -male

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

If you've sent one & asked and they've gone silent they aren't attracted enough to send one back.

I'd you've asked without sending one then that's why.

I wouldn't send my face to someone I wasn't attracted to, there's zero point.

Mrs

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