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By *agpieman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Hi everyone. I like to be ultra safe when it comes to sex to the point where I more often than not wear a condom when receiving oral sex. Which isn't most people's ideal situation. Am I being over cautious...websites vary with what the risks are for receiving oral sex. What do people think and what do other people know about the risks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try getting an ex mod bio suit if you are really worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading many post on here from people talking about safe sex always using a condom for viginal sex pulling out to come because of spillage then saying oral sex or cum in mouth then I think you should read this I found

It's food for thought

Is Oral Sex Safe Sex?

Oral Sex and STDs

It's all very well and good to say that oral sex is not safe sex, but how much of a risk are you actually taking if you choose to practice unprotected oral sex? What sexually transmitted diseases can be transferred from genitals to mouth, and vice versa?

HIV

Although oral sex is a relatively low-risk activity, particularly when compared to vaginal or anal sex, it is possible to transmit HIV through oral sex. Using latex or polyurethane condoms, female condoms, or dental dams is an effective way to reduce your chances of contracting the virus when engaging in oral sex. If you don't choose to use protection for oral sex, you should know that the risk of HIV transmission increases if the person performing the act has cuts or sores in his/her mouth, if ejaculation takes place in the mouth, and if the individual receiving oral sex has any other sexually transmitted diseases. The risk is primarily for the person performing the oral sex. Unless a partner has significant amounts of blood in his/her mouth, such as from dental surgery, oral sex is unlikely to expose the receptive partner to HIV.

Herpes

Although genital herpes and oral herpes are usually caused by different strains of the herpes virus, HSV-2 and HSV-1 respectively, it is possible for either virus to infect either site. Therefore, it is possible to transmit herpes during oral sex, and the virus can spread from either partner. Herpes is contagious even when symptoms are not present. Even though prophylactic medications, such as Zovirax (acyclovir), can reduce the likelihood of both outbreaks and transmitting the herpes virus to your partner, they can not eliminate the risk entirely. Although they should greatly reduce the risk of herpes transmission, condoms are also not completely effective in preventing transmission of herpes during oral sex, since the virus can spread from skin to skin.

HPV

It is possible to spread HPV through oral sex, and it is believed that HPV acquired while performing oral sex is a major risk factor for oral and throat cancers. HPV can also appear in the oral cavity through vertical transmission (transmission from mother to child during birth). As with herpes, it seems likely that the use of condoms or dental dams during oral sex should reduce the risk of infection, but they will not necessarily eliminate it entirely since HPV spreads via skin-to-skin contact not through bodily fluids.

Gonorrhea

In recent years, teenagers with throat infections caused by gonorrhea have often been in the news. Gonorrhea can be transmitted in both directions when oral sex is performed on a man, and throat infections with gonorrhea are notoriously difficult to treat. There is limited research to suggest that it may be possible for someone to acquire a gonorrheal throat infection while performing oral sex on a woman, but transmission in the other direction is relatively unlikely since the site of infection is the cervix -- a part of the female anatomy not reached during cunnilingus. Condoms and dental dams should be extremely effective in preventing transmission of gonorrhea during oral sex.

Chlamydia

It is possible to transmit chlamydia during fellatio, and both the recipient and the person performing the act are at risk. There has been little research on whether it is possible to transmit chlamydia during cunnilingus, but infection risk is probably similar to that for gonorrhea.

Syphilis

Syphilis is extremely easy to transmit via oral sex. In fact, in some areas of the United States, oral sex has been shown to be responsible for as many as 15% of syphilis cases. Although syphilis can only be transmitted in the presence of symptoms, during the primary and secondary stages of the disease, the painless sores it causes are easy to miss.

Hepatitis B

The research is inconclusive as to whether or not hepatitis B can be transmitted via oral sex. Oral-anal contact, however, is definitely a risk factor for hepatitis A infection, and it may also be a risk factor for hepatitis B. Fortunately both hepatitis A and B can be prevented by vaccines. If you practice rimming, you should talk with your doctor about getting vaccinated. Vaccination is a good idea in any case, and the hepatitis B vaccine is currently recommended for all children and many groups of adults.

The Bottom Line

In summary, unprotected oral sex puts you at risk for numerous sexually transmitted diseases. If you perform unprotected oral sex on your sexual partners, you should mention it to your physician. She may want to check your throat when she is screening you for other STDs

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By *agpieman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Thanks both of you! Will check out the suggested product. Had actually read that info but then found some of it contradicted on other sites?! Confusing!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Any sexual contact with strangers carries risk. If preparing for a meet includes packing a haz mat suit and industrial strength antiseptic I'd seriously rethink this game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt even think of wearing a condom when a woman gives me oral. do you put a femmedom on her pussy when you lick her? I am thinking of taking a roll of clingfilm to my next meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd concur with miss tress there's always risk when having any sexual contact just mitigate as many of the risks as you play as safe as you can and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sand blaster for cleaning said areas I have found helps greatly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always play safe

So you wear a condom through out the whole of your sexual time?

I can not believe that people wear condoms for oral or femmedoms... really? A bit OCD i guess

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter


"You could try getting an ex mod bio suit if you are really worried. "

Lol, full NBC warfare suit, that should do it.

I'd say live your life without restrictions - if your that worried, dont play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo, dont like giving a BJ if the guy has a condom on.. But thats cos i like the feel of warm cum over my tits n face!

Just my preference...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" A bit OCD i guess"

My thoughts too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i trust you all floss after having cum in your mouth too lol

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over a year ago

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter


"Nooooo, dont like giving a BJ if the guy has a condom on.. But thats cos i like the feel of warm cum over my tits n face!

Just my preference... "

Mmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i trust you all floss after having cum in your mouth too lol "

I don't swallow !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jangles ... you need to learn.... hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jangles ... you need to learn.... hehe"

I know, i only do with my favs, but ssshh i never said that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i was a bloody fav... but i would have to spunk about 400 miles as the crow flies through clingfilm.... i am good but fuck me even i have my limits ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wish i was a bloody fav... but i would have to spunk about 400 miles as the crow flies through clingfilm.... i am good but fuck me even i have my limits ...."

lol

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fail to see how you can consider using condom during oral ocd - just trying to reduce the risk.

Im sure everyone who did catch something during oral wishes they had.

Ive tried and is fiddly but can work.

I hear in the near furture gonerarrea will be become untreatable because we are becoming immune to the treatment

question: How would you feel if your meet (male or female)insisted on using a condom during oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet her. Also if she insisted on wearing gloves.. i wouldnt meet her, if she insisted on not kissing incase she gets a cold or a coldsore.. i wouldnt meet her... if she put clingfilm on her pussy before i gsve her oral.. i wouldnt meet her...and if i had to walk through a wash bowl full of chemicals to stop foot and mouth ... you have guessed it.. i wouldnt meet her!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some STI's that show symptoms, most common are HSV 1&2, Warts, Scabies and really bad cases of Thrush, Chlamydia and Syphilis.. I know it sounds strange but I usually have a good look at the general area (I'm qualified in skin diseases and disorders so can spot the signs very quickly)

Always have the lights on; If a person has nothing to hide they wont have any issues with it.. If your not sure don't do it and always wear a condom for sex. The truth of the matter is that a lot of the things you are worried about are just as easily caught through kissing; Yet most of us don't give kissing a second thought... Relax and try not to stress so much, it runs you down and if anything leaves you open to catching something its a low immune system..

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Im surprised that people are being detrimental to someone who takes their health and that of partners so seriously. If condoms during oral are not for you then fine (i don't always but i do sometimes). If a partner said i am more comfortable then as long as between us we had some that taste ok (mates original are slightly sweet with a hint of vanilla) then no pros.

I generally put them on with my mouth and have never had complaints if i keep licking for a while.

I also don't always take them off if we have been having vaginal sex and are changing things up a bit - and sometimes that licking tips them over the edge.

I have known someone (vanilla) who caught gonarhea in her throat from an unprotected bj.

I am also currently having medical treatment (not for anything contagious) which means that at certain times i have to insist on not only condoms for bjs on men but dental dams when they return the favour. I posted a thread asking opinions when i discovered this and got a very different response .

And remember, a bj with a condom on can still end with spunky tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest going to your local gum clinic and finding out more there..

But also remember there are always risks in life whatever we do..

The more common sti's are cleared with antibiotics.. The life threatning ones are a smaller risk and even smaller again through oral without protection.

Its about weighing up the risks for you.

I personally don't meet that many people.. But if I did do a weekly gangbang full of oral I might think again about doing so without as the more people you go with so the risks start increasing..

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By *agpieman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Thanks one and all for your wide ranging views on the matter...especially those sticking up for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own if you feel that's for you then do it as long as the lady likes it to

Good luck

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