FabSwingers.com forum: I gotta leave right now...

By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

I think the only thing that could possibly make me leave for good was if I was bombarded with abuse or harassed constantly, other than that I don't think anything could...

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By *iss DevilWoman
38 weeks ago

Bedford

Probably if I got a permanent forum block. As being able to post on forum is important to me.

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

Yes, darn you OP.

No, teasing aside it would either be because of a ban or because I wasn't happy on here and would be happier without it. For whatever reason but a big one.

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By *ake_or_deathMan
38 weeks ago

Manchester

I left once because I felt it was taking up too much of my time and distracting me from other things that needed my time. But to permanently leave it would need to be because I'd met someone for a relationship that didn't involve openness, or if I just lost my mojo to the point that I had no interest in sex or chatting.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
38 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

A ban. Or if I got totally pissed off with it

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Love isn’t the holy grail for me.

Even if I found that ‘twoo wuv’…( I shouldnt mock by using that silly voice, because I like the idea of finding love. ..)

Anyway, even if I did find someone, the Fab forum would still be here, probably still come back to it and chat shite. Maybe I wouldn’t want to swing with my new partner, but that doesn’t stop me from talking to swingers does it? I don’t have to do anything, I would just be hanging around with you weirdos.

I always said I would leave Fab when I don’t need Fab anymore, and what that is, I don’t know?

I tried it once. And I returned so there that!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
38 weeks ago

Cheshire

I generally hide my profile when I’m in a relationship, if it was gradually getting more serious then I’d consider deleting it.

Can’t see it happening though as I am now embracing being single.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
38 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

If I was banned permanently is probably the one reason or the site folding.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
38 weeks ago

ashford

Can't honestly think of anything! Having to much fun here x

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

I would never leave, OP.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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38 weeks ago

East Sussex

Our profile is set to self destruct on my 99th birthday

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
38 weeks ago

Wherever

I think it would be the moment when logging in doesn’t bring as much excitement and joy as it used to be.

When it feels like a chore.

Possibly a permanent forum ban.

Something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

If it got to the point where it was making me genuinely unhappy or I lost interest completely or banned. Probably the last one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"Probably if I got a permanent forum block. As being able to post on forum is important to me."

More so than all the pretty penises??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"A ban. Or if I got totally pissed off with it "

I get pissed off with it regularly, but enough to never come back? Never ever?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
38 weeks ago

Worcester

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

I’m very much in love and still here.

I guess if I couldn’t have sex anymore then I’d leave.

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

If I found the love of my life so we could commit to each other

Gotta long wait as I'm not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"Is love the holy grail?"

I think it is to be honest. I don't think it will happen, but I know that if it does and I truly feel like I've found the right person, then I think I could pretty happily leave Fab

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By *zeroMan
38 weeks ago

Glasgow

I once left because I went through a period of depression and had a fab orientated weekend lined up which I was all excited for and it ended up being the most miserable experience of my life.

But in terms of permanent leave it would probably be a forum ban. I like this place.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
38 weeks ago

Trowbridge

A forum ban, don’t think there’s anybody here for me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
38 weeks ago

Leeds

To be honest I'm kind of at the point where I'm not sure why I'm here, but I do like the forums so at the moment I'm staying, I'd say a forum ban or if I decided the decision to not meet was a definite long term one rather than a temporary one while I figure shit out.

Mrs

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By *aizyWoman
38 weeks ago

west midlands

If I got banned or when I decide I've had enough of fab, I do hide my profile and have fab breaks from time to time but, I haven't got to the point where I have deleted my account yet, when I do that I won't be coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

If I met someone genuinely special and fell in love with them

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By *unchalMan
38 weeks ago

Dartford

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

I struggle with some of the right on stuff and I do not believe that everyone believes what they claim. Already had a suspension on this forum and banned outright from the other site! Trying to keep my true thoughts to myself because this is a useful place to meet cock. I truly never expect to meet the demands of the women on here.

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By *WB85Man
38 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When my partner says she's had enough of it all.

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By *unchalMan
38 weeks ago

Dartford

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

Oh, and I am not here for love. Just sex!

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By *unchalMan
38 weeks ago

Dartford

"If I found the love of my life so we could commit to each other

Gotta long wait as I'm not looking

But wouldn’t your dream woman want to be part of this world?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
38 weeks ago

Staffordshire

One night with coyote ugly.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"One night with coyote ugly."

I'm willing to sacrifice myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it."

There you are!!(

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it.

There you are!!("

I’m not stopping. I just had half an hour spare so thought I’d pop in for a quick read.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
38 weeks ago

Home

Thinking about leaving for good at the moment but will wait for my paid subscription to run out first. Unfortunately being a single fella on here is extremely hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it.

There you are!!(

I’m not stopping. I just had half an hour spare so thought I’d pop in for a quick read."

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By *exxyyDy11Man
38 weeks ago

Darwen

When I meet someone I guess or if I'm abducted by Aliens. Will you come and rescue me please if I'm abducted into a UFO. Pretty please *puppy eyes*

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it.

There you are!!(

I’m not stopping. I just had half an hour spare so thought I’d pop in for a quick read.

You know how much I love to disappoint you

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By *ucka39Man
38 weeks ago

Newcastle

"If I found the love of my life so we could commit to each other

Gotta long wait as I'm not looking

But wouldn’t your dream woman want to be part of this world?"

If anything to go by my past relationship's

definitely not obviously before fab. And I don't have a dream woman not saying that I don't have dreams which I'd like to fulfill

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By *ealitybitesMan
38 weeks ago

Belfast

I left the first time because of a really bad experience, the second time out of boredom and the third time to avoid someone else's drama that they dragged me into.

The only thing that would cause me to leave permanently would be that I just couldn't be bothered anymore.

This has always been just a hobby and never a lifestyle choice so walking away would be pretty easy and not a stressful decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"A resurrection (very fitting for this time of year) of anal extravaganza could probably do it.

There you are!!(

I’m not stopping. I just had half an hour spare so thought I’d pop in for a quick read.

You know how much I love to disappoint you

And you do it so well.

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By *cLovin2Man
38 weeks ago

Reading

I guess it would be finding love again, it depends. I don't think I can do vanilla sex anymore though. It's a difficult one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"When I meet someone I guess or if I'm abducted by Aliens. Will you come and rescue me please if I'm abducted into a UFO. Pretty please *puppy eyes* "

Enjoy your new alien family

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By *exxyyDy11Man
38 weeks ago

Darwen

"When I meet someone I guess or if I'm abducted by Aliens. Will you come and rescue me please if I'm abducted into a UFO. Pretty please *puppy eyes*

Enjoy your new alien family

What will be the extraterrestrial version of Fab then I wonder?

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By *TG3Man
38 weeks ago

Dorchester

Yes love for me, i want it all

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By *ools and the brainCouple
38 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

If our real identity was discovered the rest of the royal household won't be happy....oh wait, bugger!

Bye all one has to go

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By *sWyldWoman
38 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Love probably is the holy grail for me.

Sometimes I think I hang round here because I lack self love as much as the love of a significant other, so maybe changes to how I feel about myself would also see me go for good.

Who knows.

I guess ultimately when it stops being fun, its time to run.

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By *hrek101Man
38 weeks ago

Herts

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

Yep you nailed it.

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"When I meet someone I guess or if I'm abducted by Aliens. Will you come and rescue me please if I'm abducted into a UFO. Pretty please *puppy eyes*

Enjoy your new alien family

What will be the extraterrestrial version of Fab then I wonder?"

Fab Wars:

The Fabtom Menace

The Racks of the Clones

Revenge of the Filth

A New Grope

The Empire Strokes Back

The Return of the Bedi

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"When I meet someone I guess or if I'm abducted by Aliens. Will you come and rescue me please if I'm abducted into a UFO. Pretty please *puppy eyes*

Enjoy your new alien family

What will be the extraterrestrial version of Fab then I wonder?

Fab Wars:

The Fabtom Menace

The Racks of the Clones

Revenge of the Filth

A New Grope

The Empire Strokes Back

The Return of the Bedi"

Spin offs for the singles in fab.

Rogue Wand

Hands solo

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By *otuseater11Man
38 weeks ago

IRVINE

For me think if I got into a relationship with someone I would leave.

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By *rHotNottsMan
38 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can’t think of anything ,I’d never be banned because I’m a strict rule follower. Maybe if my cock fell off or stopped working

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

Being invited on holiday at first social.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"I can’t think of anything ,I’d never be banned because I’m a strict rule follower. Maybe if my cock fell off or stopped working "

I have some gorilla glue

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By *rHotNottsMan
38 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I can’t think of anything ,I’d never be banned because I’m a strict rule follower. Maybe if my cock fell off or stopped working

I have some gorilla glue

Some of the stuff I read on here it’s more likely to shrivel up and die than fall off

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By *adCherriesCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

When one of us has had enough

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I would leave if someone came into my life and it developed into a meaningful relationship - then I would then consider giving up Fab altogether if the forums (where I am mostly here for), became of no interest to me.

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By *izandpaulCouple
38 weeks ago

merseyside

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

Boredom and no crackling excitement when driving to parties, meets etc.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
38 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I guess if I didn't want to live in this lifestyle anymore tbh. Im enjoying lots of friends, socials, house parties, clubs for it to be anytime soon

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I can’t think of anything ,I’d never be banned because I’m a strict rule follower. Maybe if my cock fell off or stopped working

I have some gorilla glue

Is that a euphemism? Have you met an alpha dog recently…?

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By *ad NannaWoman
38 weeks ago

East London

When my health means I can't summon the mental or physical strength to meet new people, or attend forum socials.

I'm getting on a bit and my life isn't getting any easier.

I'm fortunate that I have a regular, reliable man in my life, for sex, and he doesn't seem to be going anywhere soon.

Perhaps I'd come back if I lost him and needed another sexual partner in my life.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
38 weeks ago

Liverpool

I suppose if I ever lost my looks it may curtail my hot streak on Fab and render my time on the site somewhat less exhilarating.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
38 weeks ago

Reading

"Probably if I got a permanent forum block. As being able to post on forum is important to me."

This for me too.

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By *hiskasMan
38 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'm confused, so many people in this forum, are saying if they found the 1, fell in love. But am I right in thinking swinging does not stop that!! so many couples are in love today as much as they ever was, some are even closer. So why are you on a swinging site, if you don't want to swing with the 1 that takes your heart!!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
38 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"I'm confused, so many people in this forum, are saying if they found the 1, fell in love. But am I right in thinking swinging does not stop that!! so many couples are in love today as much as they ever was, some are even closer. So why are you on a swinging site, if you don't want to swing with the 1 that takes your heart!!"

Speaking from personal experience, because the one that took my heart is definitely not interested in swinging. And I don’t want her to find out or be told that I’m not 100% only about her, that I have my foot in another camp which involves seeing multiple different women and couples. Like many who don’t follow this lifestyle, she would not understand or approve. So I have a choice, but it’s not really a choice. It’s about priorities in life. For me, that’s not swinging over something long term and meaningful.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
38 weeks ago

Southampton

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

I thought it was just me !

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By *hiskasMan
38 weeks ago

Llanelli

I understand what you mean by others having there own opinions of the situation, but what you have said, is your cheating on your girl, to have the life you want, I'm not judging you, but in my opinion that's not right, if she was to find out, that would hurt her more then the truth or you want to play with others, and she can make a choice, stay or walk. That's how I see it fella

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Unlikely, but if there was a proper long term relationship where the woman understood my situation and could work around the ‘baggage’

Not gonna happen imo.

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I can’t really understand what you mean. But if you think I’m cheating on my partner you have completely misinterpreted what I said.

I met my new partner two months ago and haven’t played with anyone since. Because she’s not into swinging I’ve decided to leave the site. I’m all about her over swinging.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
38 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

Beautiful song. Will Young is underrated!

Mrs TMN x

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
38 weeks ago

Worcester

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
38 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

Beautiful song. Will Young is underrated!

Mrs TMN x"

It is. Once.

All effing Day, Mrs TMN. Every time I've seen this thread. This is obviously a 'my brain' problem. But still...

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By *hiskasMan
38 weeks ago

Llanelli

I can’t really understand what you mean. But if you think I’m cheating on my partner you have completely misinterpreted what I said.

I met my new partner two months ago and haven’t played with anyone since. Because she’s not into swinging I’ve decided to leave the site. I’m all about her over swinging."

Right sorry fella, I definitely got the wrong end of the stick on that then lol. And OK, so having the 1 that doesn't want the lifestyle, was enough to move you away from it, fare enough then

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
38 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

And to answer the OP, I guess if we stopped swinging for some reason and if the forums stopped being fun, then that would do it. Otherwise, you're stuck with me

Mrs TMN x

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By *elix SightedMan
38 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I can’t really understand what you mean. But if you think I’m cheating on my partner you have completely misinterpreted what I said.

I met my new partner two months ago and haven’t played with anyone since. Because she’s not into swinging I’ve decided to leave the site. I’m all about her over swinging.

Right sorry fella, I definitely got the wrong end of the stick on that then lol. And OK, so having the 1 that doesn't want the lifestyle, was enough to move you away from it, fare enough then "

No worries my friend!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
38 weeks ago

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

You are welcome.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
38 weeks ago

Llanelli

If you left and never came back again I'd definitely delete my account and become a monk OP, I know you will always come back eventually though

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
38 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

You are welcome."

It's obviously affected me enough that my post doesn't even make sense unless you work out what I meant to say!

I don't think we'd leave. Unless I stopped liking it here. It irritates sometimes but not enough to leave.

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By *agnar73Man
38 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"This song has put Leave Right Now by Will Young in my head all effing day.

Beautiful song. Will Young is underrated!

Mrs TMN x"

Humming it. Video was great too.

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By *issBellaWoman
38 weeks ago

Wales

Is love the holy grail?

I thought so, and lost contact with good friends on here. If I did ever find someone again, it would have to be someone that accepts I'd still to be here for the forum and friends

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By *eyond PurityCouple
38 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

When we become too old for this lifestyle and can’t attract the people we like.

Love didn’t keep us away…it was and is still exciting to see what fun we can have together.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
38 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'd just stop logging on. It wouldn't really be a conscious decision. I'd just take a break and never log back on

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
38 weeks ago

Bradford

"What would make you leave fab for good?

I'm not talking about those that leave and come back every 5 seconds because they've seen their arse, dam attention seekers.

But what would make you think you know what, I'm done. No more fab for me.

Is love the holy grail?

I found love only stay for forums and friends .

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By *adCherriesCouple
38 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Because singles aren't swingers and when they say things like that it just proves the point.

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