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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Im new to this,but I'm straight & not into trying men either lol

I've been on here for over a week & no one will talk to me let alone meet lol

So now I'm verified is there a chance for someone to take me under there wing & show me the ropes lol.

Thanks in advance for any help or advice

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hi all

Im new to this,but I'm straight & not into trying men either lol

I've been on here for over a week & no one will talk to me let alone meet lol

So now I'm verified is there a chance for someone to take me under there wing & show me the ropes lol.

Thanks in advance for any help or advice "

Rule one. Never mention being shown the ropes unless you want more than you bargained for. Welcome to theforums and just join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

Im new to this,but I'm straight & not into trying men either lol

I've been on here for over a week & no one will talk to me let alone meet lol

So now I'm verified is there a chance for someone to take me under there wing & show me the ropes lol.

Thanks in advance for any help or advice "

Hey dude! Welcome.

Only thing I can say (been here a while and not had a meet) is don't post "woe is me" posts.

Your best bet is to get to socials and get to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pmsl ok ill rephrase that... ok I'm into any things goes but with females only

& thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 week is a short time.. I would also improve ur pictures

the site IS real..very real, dont go assuming because u havent had much responses that others arent genuinely meeting

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys. Not saying it's not real but I find u get further by being introduced to things in life. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a look into clubs and social events..its how I started years ago..

again...improve ur profile..1 cockshot really isnt that different from the multitudes of thousands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ano the pic is crap but I didn't want to go throwing loads of pics on at first lol

But thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok since u asked for help (and this is creative critism not me "havin a go at you) here goes;

1. Change the username it screams desperation and inexperience to me (sorry to be blunt but it does)

2. Get rid of the "no-one meets"line from your profile negativity like that will get you no where

3. Fill out your profile text, you seem to have put more thought into this post than than considering its only 4 lines long. You need a little but about what you like, who you are, and what you are looking for, any fantasises you hav get to fulfil or things you have tried and would like to do more of or expand on. Doesn't have to be an essay but does have to give people a feel for who you are and wot you will bring to excite an enhance a meet (and please try to do it without making yourself out to be gods gift to women and couples)

4. Ensure you have a face picture to send with your initial messages (;especially when it isn't openly displayed on your profile. Don't over do the cock pictures go for more tasteful and teasing shots like bum n torsos with unbuttoned shirts or jeans so you are generating some intrigue to make us want more!

5. Avoid text speak and try to use good grammar as you will be surprised how many people this annoys

6. Read entire profiles and if you are what they are looking for send a polite well thought out message to show you have read the profile and believe you are a suitable playmate, avoid mundane ("hi how are you") or vulgar ("fancy a fuck") one liners.

7. Be patient this isn't insta shag dot com. (A common mistake most single guys make) some guys wait months for a first reply let alone meet. The fact is you are a small fish in a big pond as a single guy n women and couples get unindated with messages so can afford to be very picky on who they choose to play with, so you need to stand out! Don't get frustrated by no replies n moan they are rude in status' etc again this is negativity, while it would be nice to get a reply take a delete as a thanks but no thanks and move on graciously

8. Due to the reasons in number 7, most single guys have more success at socials or in clubs, photo verification isn't highly respected by a lot of people so getting verified through these kind of meets is easier and more valued. Cam verifications can help too.

Hope this helps and good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Thats a nicer pic for your avatar

Welcome to the forum....I would say fill out your profile a bit, try and be positive on it though and maybe add a couple of pics, it doesn't have to be face pics.

Join in in chat or the forum and don't expect miracles....patience is the key.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou that really helps especially from a woman's point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou that really helps especially from a woman's point of view "
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Your welcome and love the new profile pic much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right changed a few things.... any better lol. Criticism welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right changed a few things.... any better lol. Criticism welcome lol "

much better pic...however if im showing off my cock...I show it hard lol

the back pic is good...itll show and give more of an idea about ur physique

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