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By *ddie1966 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
33 weeks ago

London

Bad idea. Men are bombarded for “straight” men too.

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By *ex HolesMan
33 weeks ago

Up North

Good question Eddie

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

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By *rcoupleCouple
33 weeks ago

Mid Glam


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?"

Or cpuples where at thrvlast minute the female half.. suddenly can't make it but the male can..

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By *irthandgirthMan
33 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???"

I had a case of this several years ago. I was talking to a 'lady' on here for a couple of weeks, then one Friday night 'she' sent me some pics of 'her'. She was a he, and had waited until I had a few drinks to drop the bombshell hoping that I was intoxicated enough I might decide not to be 100% straight.

He thought that sending me a pic of him being anally fisted might turn me on.

I genuinely believed I was talking to a lady. There were clear pics on the profile. I don't know who they were of, I assume he stole them from another profile.

It is absolutely disgusting behaviour. And I reported it immediately.

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By *ddie1966 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I've never understood fake profiles either, but it's a fact of life.

It appears that many people simply "get off" on the chase, with no intentions of ever meeting.

Personally, ive never been bombarded with endless propositions from ladies, but would a lady consider starting a profile as a "secret" male, so as to be left in the relative peace that she may not receive as a ladies profile?

It intrigues me, that's all, so I thought I'd put it out there.

Call it a talking point for the fair maidens of this lovely site.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?"

Always offer your bum. Works for me.

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By *ad NannaWoman
33 weeks ago

East London

What's the point of doing that?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

Always offer your bum. Works for me. "

But…

But

Butt

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By *naswingdressWoman
33 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've never understood fake profiles either, but it's a fact of life.

It appears that many people simply "get off" on the chase, with no intentions of ever meeting.

Personally, ive never been bombarded with endless propositions from ladies, but would a lady consider starting a profile as a "secret" male, so as to be left in the relative peace that she may not receive as a ladies profile?

It intrigues me, that's all, so I thought I'd put it out there.

Call it a talking point for the fair maidens of this lovely site."

Filters do that job. No need to lie.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

Always offer your bum. Works for me.

But…

But

Butt"

I know - the bare cheek!

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By *naswingdressWoman
33 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

Always offer your bum. Works for me.

But…

But

Butt

I know - the bare cheek!"

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

Always offer your bum. Works for me.

But…

But

Butt

I know - the bare cheek!"

You’re an arse

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

Always offer your bum. Works for me.

But…

But

Butt

I know - the bare cheek!

You’re an arse "

Bummer

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I'd bum 'er...^

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

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By *ris GrayMan
33 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I've never understood fake profiles either, but it's a fact of life.

It appears that many people simply "get off" on the chase, with no intentions of ever meeting.

Personally, ive never been bombarded with endless propositions from ladies, but would a lady consider starting a profile as a "secret" male, so as to be left in the relative peace that she may not receive as a ladies profile?

It intrigues me, that's all, so I thought I'd put it out there.

Call it a talking point for the fair maidens of this lovely site."

Hey if thats their kink some people would say thats their kink, if they don't want to meet some would say how should they meet, their choice they are doing fab their way but to deceive people, to waste their time chatting, to lie to them about their sex is out of order

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
33 weeks ago

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I'm not sure why on earth a lady would pretend to be a man in order to get peace. If you set your filters to how you want them then you can get as much peace as you want anyway.

So if this male profile which is really a lady wants to meet someone, is the person she wants to meet just going to believe it's actually a woman behind the male profile, I doubt it.

The only women I know who go on here using fake male profiles, do it to spy on their cheating partners

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By *rHotNottsMan
33 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wouldn’t rule anything out on FAB. But I think if women on here have alternative accounts , It would be for more sinister reasons, they are cleverer than men.

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By *elix SightedMan
33 weeks ago

Cloud 8

My profile is set to a nonsense location so all anyone knows is I’m in the southeast, which covers about 11 counties and London. I have marked myself as straight and specifically have the words in my bio that I am not meeting anyone at the moment.

And yet I get c50 views a day and at least one message from men asking for some action.

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By *issmorganWoman
33 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No lol, I just use filters to stop the messages getting too much.

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By *enuine MikeMan
33 weeks ago

Guildford


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?"

How about beat the shit out of them? That might teach them a lesson, on how not to not fuck with other people's emotions

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

How about beat the shit out of them? That might teach them a lesson, on how not to not fuck with other people's emotions "

I’m a lover not a fighter

(Kinda)

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"…..

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?"

I don’t remember Keanu Reeves getting this question in Speed

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"…..

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?

I don’t remember Keanu Reeves getting this question in Speed"

It’s in the directors cut

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow / Surrey


"It’s in the director’s cunt "

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"It’s in the director’s cunt

"

Well played, sir

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???"

I imagine there are a few masquerading as men, to catch the men out! Also 'spying' on ladies... Always be mindful that you may be, being catfished

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"It’s in the director’s cunt

"

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I can't get bombarded even when I try!

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I had a woman pretending to be a man msg me.... something never seemed right about 'him' ....it was the way he chatted & refusal to send me new photos & other red flags....I eventually found out 'he' was a 'she' .... She finally admitted it after me asking for quite sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I had a woman pretending to be a man msg me.... something never seemed right about 'him' ....it was the way he chatted & refusal to send me new photos & other red flags....I eventually found out 'he' was a 'she' .... She finally admitted it after me asking for quite sometime "

Did you find out what the motivation was??

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By *eroLondonMan
33 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"I can't get bummed even when I try!"

She's ^ a trier. A Lars Von Trier.

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By *ddie1966 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"I can't get bombarded even when I try!"

Watch out !!!!!

Incoming.....

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???"

I know of a number of women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

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By *iking_WitchWoman
33 weeks ago

Hinckley

I'd never have a fake profile or pretend to be someone I'm not or a couple.

Because it is so common purely for this reason is why I avoid months and months of sporadic messaging. I like a few messages then a verification, and a social/social with play.

I do think a lot of private pics then get recycled by fake profiles and unknowingly become a new profile.

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By *cLovin2Man
33 weeks ago

Reading


"I don’t understand the fake profiles.

When you turn up & are lacking the relevant holes… what do you do?"

Bring a black and decker drill with you

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By *riel13Woman
33 weeks ago

Northampton

There has been a local lady that uses a mans profile to avoid the amount of "traffic" she would get with a woman's... It explains this on the profile but no doubt, if she hasn't been already, she will be reported by someone

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
33 weeks ago

London


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women. "

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
33 weeks ago

North West


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here"

You've seen my cara

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton

As the song goes " I am what I am" I am the same in Real life, see no point being anything different x

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
33 weeks ago

London


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here

You've seen my cara "

Yes and misstress K too

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
33 weeks ago

Southampton


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here

You've seen my cara

Yes and misstress K too "

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By *rHotNottsMan
33 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of a number of women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women. "

How do you know this ?

I mean I believe you I suspect it I know how devious some people are but they would never tell me because they know it would end the friendship

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By *ealitybitesMan
33 weeks ago

Belfast


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of a number of women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

How do you know this ?

I mean I believe you I suspect it I know how devious some people are but they would never tell me because they know it would end the friendship"

I know it because 2 admitted it to me many years ago and a few women over the years have told me that they know of others who have done this.

They had ongoing conversations with some really nice "men" but had their suspicions proven with a few well placed questions.

I also know because at least 2 have messaged me by mistake from the wrong account when I didn't have men blocked from messaging. They literally continued conversations I was having with them on their main profile and I was confused as to who these men were that seemed to know what I was discussing with women.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
33 weeks ago

Essex


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here

You've seen my cara

Yes and misstress K too "

And mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"I had a woman pretending to be a man msg me.... something never seemed right about 'him' ....it was the way he chatted & refusal to send me new photos & other red flags....I eventually found out 'he' was a 'she' .... She finally admitted it after me asking for quite sometime

Did you find out what the motivation was?? "

No, I never found out or understood her motivation for pretending to be a man

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
33 weeks ago

London


"It's been said many times that there are suspicions of men starting accounts, on Fab as ladies, for nefarious reasons, but would ladies be prepared to start an account as a male, so as not to be constantly bombarded by other men?

Discuss???

I know of many women who have single male accounts here that they use to check out the competition by starting conversations with other women.

I would love to see the faces of the women on the forum. It's strange to share so many opinions and stories and don't know how they look. But I'm afraid if I request friendship they going to suspect my intentions or my gender. I would do the same. Already has been seven months posting in the Forum and I just have a couple of female friends here

You've seen my cara

Yes and misstress K too

And mine x"

Your too

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By *CLM87Woman
33 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Was speaking to a friend that I've known for years before fab and he arranged to meet a *woman* had done video call with her.

When he got there it was a man, his friend had done the pics and video call.

He then said well why waste a journey and let me suck you off. So he told him to f off and would rather waste the journey.

God knows how my friend didn't lamp him.

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