FabSwingers.com forum: Is it good to share though?

By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

Are you more likely or less likely to strike up ‘something sexy’ with someone who already has a fb/Fwb? Or are you only hoping for someone pure?

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By *ellinever70Woman
45 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Less

I don't want to be an additional plate to spin

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

If you want pure woody this may not be the right site.

I prefer guys that are married/gf/etc etc

Mainly because neediness just creeps me out and I don't want to be centre of attention. Secondly, it's hot knowing they have sex elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

"If you want pure woody this may not be the right site.

….

I never said I do.

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By *ags73Man
45 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Are you more likely or less likely to strike up ‘something sexy’ with someone who already has a fb/Fwb? Or are you only hoping for someone pure?

Pure as driven snow?

I’m not worried as people around my age will have a story/reason for it as I do

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By *eliWoman
45 weeks ago

Pure.

No Woody, no.

As long as it feels like the person has time and energy and I'm not just a beautiful quim, I don't particularly care. If it feels like a person is Fab/polysaturated, I don't find myself interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I have a fwb, and we meet together - I love to watch him with other people and he loves to watch me.

I don’t meet on my own as I’m getting enough from him.

We will only meet with bi people so we can all play together

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By *bi HaiveMan
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45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are you more likely or less likely to strike up ‘something sexy’ with someone who already has a fb/Fwb? Or are you only hoping for someone pure?

Makes no odds to me as long as they're not married and playing away.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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45 weeks ago

East Sussex

Probably less. Don't ask me why because I don't know

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By *mmaleiaWoman
45 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Makes no odds to me as long as they're not married and playing away. "

This, as long as everybody is open & honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I’m not into meeting married/attached guys, so apart from that it’s all good

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By *ora the explorerWoman
45 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Less likely if they already have someone or someones

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
45 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Someone Pure on Fab ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

"Pure.

No Woody, no.

As long as it feels like the person has time and energy and I'm not just a beautiful quim, I don't particularly care. If it feels like a person is Fab/polysaturated, I don't find myself interested. "

Haha. Okay. Pure is a bit cringeworthy … let’s try

Someone who is unclaimed…

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By *iscean_dreamMan
45 weeks ago

Llanelli

Lots of guys are trying to get in my fwb knickers, she's not been pure for quite a while

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
45 weeks ago

Essex

"Someone Pure on Fab ??

I’m pure

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

"Someone Pure on Fab ??

I’m pure

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

As long as there is a mutual understanding, anything is possible

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By *rHotNottsMan
45 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Arranging to meet someone with existing FB/FWB’s is always more effort.

So many people on here, myself included are pretty happy with what we have and have busy lives so it takes something very special to get on the train, go out in the cold etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I mean we can always roll play and pretend I don’t been banged more times that a 40 year old car door if that’s what your in to

Ok ok jokes aside we’ll sort off the roll play part was the banged more times that a 40 year old car door well that’s just the truth but on to your question

Really makes no odds to me if someone has one or not

As long as they in the moment with me and not putting me off for someone else then what they do / see when I am not with them is up to them

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By *oodmessMan
45 weeks ago

yumsville

It's weird swingers have hang-ups about meeting people that have met people. Its weird swingers have hang-ups about getting into relationships with people in relationships.

People must just want fuck n go.

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By *TG3Man
45 weeks ago

Dorchester

Would you share your last egg rolo i wouldn't

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By *icecouple561Couple
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45 weeks ago

East Sussex

"It's weird swingers have hang-ups about meeting people that have met people. Its weird swingers have hang-ups about getting into relationships with people in relationships.

People must just want fuck n go."

You think swingers are weird for being people with common issues?

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By *ags73Man
45 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Someone Pure on Fab ??

I’m pure

Indeed.

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By *a LunaWoman
45 weeks ago

South Wales

Less. I don’t like sharing. Unfortunately my last FWB had another FWB and he kept “suggesting” a threesome with her. Got tiresome in the end.

Binned him off.

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By *ea monkeyMan
45 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I don’t care, as long as they have the time and energy for our interactions. If we’re meeting for sex and there’s a connection between us I don’t care who else they’re seeing.

If I get the sense that they’re stringing me along or they’re not eager though, that’s when I step away

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By *riar BelisseWoman
45 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

More likely as I know he's able to, hold that type of relationship, I've had enough of the "I can share" brigade, but when "they" are not the centre of attention, the green eyed possessive monster comes a knocking.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
45 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"It's weird swingers have hang-ups about meeting people that have met people. Its weird swingers have hang-ups about getting into relationships with people in relationships.

People must just want fuck n go."

Not everyone on here is a swinger though. In fact most people I know aren’t.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
45 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Someone Pure on Fab ??

Oi!

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By *oodmessMan
45 weeks ago

yumsville

"It's weird swingers have hang-ups about meeting people that have met people. Its weird swingers have hang-ups about getting into relationships with people in relationships.

People must just want fuck n go.

You think swingers are weird for being people with common issues?"

Compared to regular relationships, swingers are usually more liberal they're not usually one-to-one people. They're more open sexually, less judgemental and more keen to explore their sexual horizons, they don't have common issues around 'you have a partner so I'll wait'. As much as my post was a little sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
45 weeks ago

"Would you share your last egg rolo i wouldn't

I did t eat egg rolls

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

100% less likely

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By *hoirCouple
45 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I mean... For the sake of corruption then pure is fun for a short while. I'd much rather someone more like me though for longer time shenanigans.

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