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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester

But no one to hang out with, you realise how few friends you actually have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I hear you!!!

It’s a tough time op when it goes quite.

but, modify knows what you like to do more than you. … so just do it alone.

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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Yep. I hear you!!!

It’s a tough time op when it goes quite.

but, modify knows what you like to do more than you. … so just do it alone. "

Just gonna go to bed instead lol.

I just finished work and gotta be up again in the morning

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"But no one to hang out with, you realise how few friends you actually have "

I'm about 3 hours away from family and most of my friends.

I get it..

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Realised this yesterday, sorry Thursday, when at work do, wandering about by myself, as I'm not really friendly with anyone at work...

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I feel the same but then I jump on the ps5 and worries go out the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company "

I coulda gone out for a couple of hours but it’s 6 days before payday so I’m broke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company "

That’s me. I know I can do this all alone. But I like sharing the ooohhs and aaahs and those fantastic things about life with someone or other people.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

I coulda gone out for a couple of hours but it’s 6 days before payday so I’m broke "

In my last job I worked a shift pattern where I had 5 days off in a row. It hit me that in those 5 days off I might not actually speak to anyone at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

I coulda gone out for a couple of hours but it’s 6 days before payday so I’m broke "

Going out alone is even less fun when you can’t spend

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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

I coulda gone out for a couple of hours but it’s 6 days before payday so I’m broke

In my last job I worked a shift pattern where I had 5 days off in a row. It hit me that in those 5 days off I might not actually speak to anyone at all. "

Luckily I only get one day off a week but on that one day I often won’t speak to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

That’s me. I know I can do this all alone. But I like sharing the ooohhs and aaahs and those fantastic things about life with someone or other people. "

It’s nice to have someone tag along with you isn’t it. Stops all the funny looks when I start talking to myself in shops

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Felt this so hard today!

I only have two friends to hang out with and my sister.

One had a baby yesterday

One was working

One already had plans

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

I coulda gone out for a couple of hours but it’s 6 days before payday so I’m broke

In my last job I worked a shift pattern where I had 5 days off in a row. It hit me that in those 5 days off I might not actually speak to anyone at all.

Luckily I only get one day off a week but on that one day I often won’t speak to anyone "

Didn't you fancy putting up a meet?

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By *WB85Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I have lots of acquaintances but only a small number of friends.

I went through a really rough patch last year caused by work stress and the people around me saved my life.

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By *m-BatmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

Free time??

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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Free time??"

Yes, that 2 hours after finishing work and before going to bed lol

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By *m-BatmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

Wow! You get two hours for real??!! I need to speak with both my employer and God about this asap

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Yup. I can spend weeks not seeing people outside of work and it’s really lonely.

I “know” a lot of people and I was always available to them but I really need someone to talk to there is nobody there.

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By *loomy Girl OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Wow! You get two hours for real??!! I need to speak with both my employer and God about this asap"

Not every day. It was only cos my son had been home for the weekend. Usually i have to just go home after work cos of my dog

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By *m-BatmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

Ahhh this sounds more in-line with normality and real life, phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spare time on my own is bliss. So much so I frequently choose to spend time alone rather than meet that hot guy for sex.

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom


"Yup. I can spend weeks not seeing people outside of work and it’s really lonely.

I “know” a lot of people and I was always available to them but I really need someone to talk to there is nobody there. "

if you ever need a coffee or tea I'm not that far from you and I get plenty of free time and I love to chat x

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By *rill PhilMan
over a year ago

Crediton


"But no one to hang out with, you realise how few friends you actually have "

I spend most of my time by myself so, I completely understand this feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…

I sat in twiddling my thumbs. I could have gone out and done something alone but I wanted company

That’s me. I know I can do this all alone. But I like sharing the ooohhs and aaahs and those fantastic things about life with someone or other people.

It’s nice to have someone tag along with you isn’t it. Stops all the funny looks when I start talking to myself in shops "

I buy two coffees when I order to pretend that my friends are in the bathroom.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"But no one to hang out with, you realise how few friends you actually have "
you've always got me

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

I have very few friends and that exactly how I like it.

People are too needy!

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

0 freinds since moving to the south coast from London over 10 years ago leaving only a handful of genuine friends which have since slipped through my fingers so I totally get you OP

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