FabSwingers.com forum: Fab users at their best

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No names (unless you know for a fact that they won't mind) but can you describe a time when your fellow Fab users showed the site at its best - maybe you had support after sharing a problem, said something that gave you confidence, or found other users with the same geeky interest as you and ended up in a fun conversation about it. Anything you like.

I've had support and encouragement from Fab users when I've mentioned issues with anxiety on here which was very welcome and appreciated.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

There always decent people who will try and help. Nice banter and a bit of a laugh often passes the time and helps too. You get the ocassional ones that can't help themselves but there you go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Right after I joined I landed in hospital. The one person I'd met for a social before that kept me company over the phone and virtually held my hand through frustration, pain, and fear. Pretty much instant friend for life.

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By *CLM87Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

There are some amazing people on here... and I think the difference with the people on the forum, is generally they are swingers and not just using it as a hook up site and see women as something to use.

I'm not saying that's everyone, but there are alot.

Have also met some amazing people from fab, who have been a friend in my struggles and in my celebrations... even if we never played again I know they are there for me and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple years ago when it was full of funny people. Good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few users (they’ll know who they are) were joking about me being Dean Gaffney the other month and it really tickled me up

I’d had a really bad day in work and was shattered so wasn’t in the best of moods. But the daft back and to’s and clever Eastenders puns helped put a smile on my miserable face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS. I’m not Dean Gaffney

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"PS. I’m not Dean Gaffney"

*JUST* the story of thing Dean Gaffney would say...

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

*sort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I hear this question, a woman stands out as a massive shoulder to cry on and the support i needed when I needed it most.

Thank you x

I won’t name her, she would cringe.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Many people last year were absolute diamonds when I needed support and a pick me up.

Checking in, meeting for coffee, going out for drinks and making sure I had a blast at group social.

The site is full of hidden (and not so hidden) gems.

Always has been. Always will be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"PS. I’m not Dean Gaffney"

Well I've never seen the two of you in the same room, so...

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By *m-BatmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

100%

There are two camps. The winkers, who are happy to wink in public and support you - they have a sense of humour and are jolly good fun.

And then there are the rest, that carry immediate hatred and rage of contacted in any form and will block on first sight of anyone coming within their vicinity.

I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a thread posted today about self-image and confidence. I didn’t post in it but I thought it was a very gallant and an inspiring thing to read.

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