FabSwingers.com forum: cancelled meet to drink with mates.

By *ensible lady 1960 OP Woman
41 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

Last week a man i hadnt met up with since my accident arranged a meet with me tonight. All was sorted (or so i thought) i contacted him yesterday (got no reply)and today,and finally he told me.he had made arrangements with mates to go out for drinks with them and had forgotten about it.do i block him?

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By *ife NinjaMan
41 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Fuck. Him. Right. Off.

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By *rill PhilMan
41 weeks ago

Crediton

Seems like rather a dick move.

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By *ascaIMan
41 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

If he can’t be arsed taking 10 seconds out of his day to let you know he can’t make it then I wouldn’t waste any more of your time on him. Sack him off.

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By *itygamesMan
41 weeks ago

if you like him , try again..

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I’d say get rid

I live by my calendar for the purposes of not making the mistake of double booking anything and I’d fail to imagine someone would “accidentally” forget a drinking session with mates

Live and learn sweets

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wirral.

Yes

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By *ora the explorerWoman
41 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Get rid. I would

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By *icolerobbieCouple
41 weeks ago

walsall

It’s up to you. He’s been honest with you and didn’t make up some cock and bull story about his hamsters migraine.

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By *loriouscurvesWoman
41 weeks ago

wild west lothian

BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK

You deserve much better lovely x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
41 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

He knew yesterday he'd double booked and still didn't bother to tell you so you had time to make other plans.

Chuck him right in the bin.

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By *TK421-Man
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Douche.....

Block

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Yes, block, however perfect you thought he was, he gave you no thought & ‘forgot’

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By *ussieChrisMan
41 weeks ago

Walsall

Entirely up to you, but to me sounds like you're arrangement was an afterthought.

As someone mentioned already though, if you do like they guy, then by all means give him the benefit of the doubt, but i'd only do it once.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

You dont forget about a meet! Had his chance, a wouldnt even block him just move on and let him see what hes missing out on xx

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By *ensible lady 1960 OP Woman
41 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

thanks for all your comments. Now blocked.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
41 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

He had a reminder from you yesterday, but didn't let you know til today ? I wouldn't tolerate it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

He doesn't seem that interested so I wouldn't dignify it with a response and just block and move on.

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By *ellhungvweMan
41 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If you like him and think it is a one off / he genuinely got it wrong (it happens) then give him the benefit of the doubt. If you don’t like it he does it again then just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Doesn’t sound like he had any intention of giving you forewarning…I’d not be entertaining him in any which way Darl, there is no way he didn’t know/remember until that point! It’s just common courtesy of which he seems to have none!

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"thanks for all your comments. Now blocked."
well done lovely, be strong, they’ll be another who hopefully won’t mess you about

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By *TG3Man
41 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Last week a man i hadnt met up with since my accident arranged a meet with me tonight. All was sorted (or so i thought) i contacted him yesterday (got no reply)and today,and finally he told me.he had made arrangements with mates to go out for drinks with them and had forgotten about it.do i block him?"
I'd marry him

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
41 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

No don't block him.

Take it on the chin. Be reasonable.

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By *ornycougaWoman
41 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"If you like him and think it is a one off / he genuinely got it wrong (it happens) then give him the benefit of the doubt. If you don’t like it he does it again then just block and move on."

Strongly disagree with this. I would assume that he wasn't that interested and therefore is not worthy of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
41 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Nah, Mate. I have no patience for that kind of behaviour.

Plenty of cocks in the Fab sea who would jump at the chance to meet you and not just treat you as an option.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
41 weeks ago

Stratford

Tbf this is something I’d be up doing forgetting it was a long weekend. He messaged with plenty of time to spare and not 15 minutes before you were meeting and didn’t lie.

Not ideal granted but it could have been worse

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Block and move on.

If he was treated the same he would no doubt be throwing his toys out of his pram.

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By *ust John nowCouple
41 weeks ago

South West

Definitely bin him, sounds a selfish dick.

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By *eroLondonMan
41 weeks ago

Mayfair

Forgive him, message him and arrange to meet him with all the heightened expectations and anticipation.

Then just don't turn up.

Blocking is just a slap on the wrist for him and he still won't remember what he did to you.

Payback, however, and he won't forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

What a total twat face, block his sorry ass.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
41 weeks ago

Cumbria

Yes.

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By *uckurcumMan
41 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

In today's world sadly,arrangements along with people are deemed disposable should a better offer come along ...

Until someone actually turns up arrangements count for nothing ...

The internet ....has many good aspects but it allows people to totally have no moral compass !

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I would block him and he'd never be seeing me again

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
41 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'd say his priorities are great. Friends or family should always come first.

However, he's an asshole for not letting you know. I'd personally block him. Time wasters always do it again.

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By *ags73Man
41 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Yes. Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

"I'd say his priorities are great. Friends or family should always come first. "

This is true however his priority should’ve been to let her know straight away and either apologise or rearrange

But as you said, defo block lol

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By *iking_WitchWoman
41 weeks ago

Hinckley

You do what YOU want to do. Don't feel pressured or guilty or shame in giving a second chance. If that's what you want to do.

I have been stood up again this evening (That's 3 from FAB this week) My opinion is that if we have agreed a time, place and then you ignore my message and call after a 15-30min grace period... You are blocked. End of.

If someone cannot make time for me, agree to the most basic part of a 'date ', they are showing that they don't respect me, don't want to follow expectations and boundaries that have been set. And that gives me all the red flags considering we are meeting relative strangers for sex.

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By *WB85Man
41 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Sadly this seems very common behaviour on here.

My partner has been let down several times. It's very frustrating and makes it harder for genuine men to find people.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Central

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Hugs on that yip don’t give him a chance at all

And funny this post has came up

Not funny on what happened to you just funny in a way that’s very quince that I had the same thing this week well technically didn’t happen this week happened years ago but they re contact me this week told them no

We chat on fab arrange to meet phoned him to confirm and tell him whare I stayed

When I told him he told me that’s to far and I am in the pub anyway and hug up

But he did try and re contact me this week for a meet

Let’s just say I sed no and sed aren’t you to busy in the pub anyway

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