FabSwingers.com forum: What kind of message do you like to receive

By *asisfan25 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Essex

Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?

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35 weeks ago

I always remember one message I got from a guy, it was very short along the lines of "I can't be arsed to read your profile right now so I'll just leave this here and I'll be back" attached was a nice video, not the penis kind!

He did come back, about a week later.

I like honesty, humour, the lack of desperation. I HATE compliments.

Also I like ones from hot guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Also more inclined to reply after wine/rum

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By *mmaleiaWoman
35 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Get ready, I’m taking you to the seaside for the day, penny arcades on me!

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By *partharmonyCouple
35 weeks ago

Ruislip

It has to be something that indicates they can hold a conversation. They need to seem like they want to chat, not just shag.

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By *alcon77Man
35 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
35 weeks ago

manchester

"Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?"

Ones from single females.

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By *alcon77Man
35 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

"I always remember one message I got from a guy, it was very short along the lines of "I can't be arsed to read your profile right now so I'll just leave this here and I'll be back" attached was a nice video, not the penis kind!

He did come back, about a week later.

I like honesty, humour, the lack of desperation. I HATE compliments.

Also I like ones from hot guys.

You hate compliments..

That's all I get.

(don't mind them though)

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
35 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

Always nice to get a compliment about a photo and always happy for female message x

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

He did come back, about a week later.

I like honesty, humour, the lack of desperation. I HATE compliments.

Also I like ones from hot guys.

You hate compliments..

That's all I get.

(don't mind them though)"

I just think they are disingenuous on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Woody, .. me and my two friends want to hang out with you on a bed….

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By *tylebender03Man
35 weeks ago

Manchester

I don’t even slide in the DMs anymore I just wait for them to slide into mine

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

With a face pic

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
35 weeks ago

Essex

I’m struggling with the first line of messages if anyone has got any tips.

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By *aughtycouplehCouple
35 weeks ago

Northampton

I don’t like vanilla messages, I like it to be explicit with no limits and to excite me x

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Also more inclined to reply after wine/rum"

I have about £1k of good rum in my living room

Unfortunately I rarely have company and I don't drink alone.

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By *arialoueWoman
35 weeks ago

bradford

Rarely get messages

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By *eyond PurityCouple
35 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You sent us a lovely message so I’d say you are on the right lines.

We want to see a little bit of effort, something to show why you’re interested in us and just be respectful.

Everyone can’t fancy everyone so I guess the first message is just to test whether there’s an attraction and standing out a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Woody, .. me and my two friends want to hang out with you on a bed….

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you get bored of those after a while.

Although still no idea why they call me woody.

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By *arialoueWoman
35 weeks ago

bradford

Rarely get messages

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

I struggle a lot if there’s not much info on a profile, as I’m the kind of person that when I go onto a profile, the first thing I look at is their bio to see if there’s a common interest or something I can say that relates, as that’s more important to me than their photos. I’d be lying though if how they look doesn’t have a role to play if I’m going to message them, as I need to feel an attraction. But that works both ways, as the person or couple I’m messaging will look at both my pictures and/or profile and decide if they feel an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I’m struggling with the first line of messages if anyone has got any tips."

Never say

Wanna fucc with dic pic

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Plus op do not get offended if you get no response. Part of fab life is rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Any messages will do at this stage

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Complimentary messages will always get my attention and a response

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"Plus op do not get offended if you get no response. Part of fab life is rejection "
I don’t mind not getting a response if the message If I’ve put an effort into my message it just means there’s not an attraction.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
34 weeks ago

barnsley

"Hey, question for the ladies and couples on here: What kind of messages do you like to receive, and what would make you more inclined to reply?"

I like the ones I dream of

They go a little like “ hey big boy , come eat my pussy now before I suck the soul out of you through you hard cock “

Yet to have received such a delightful message but a boy can dream

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By *randmrsbigboobsCouple
34 weeks ago

romsey

I like a bit of humour and personality

Preferably not one liners and even worse sometimes we get one word messages!

Just makes you hit delete and not even bother going any further

Something personalised to us and our profile

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By *layfullsamMan
34 weeks ago

Solihull

Any would be a start

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By *avexxMan
34 weeks ago

cheshire

a nice one

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
34 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Filthy ones attached with a dick pic or 3

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By *idnight RamblerMan
34 weeks ago

Pershore

Invitations to orgies mostly

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By *nnocentOneWoman
34 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'd prefer something that indicates they can hold a conversation. They have to show interest & want to chat and are not just after an instant meet (copy & paste messages).

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"Filthy ones attached with a dick pic or 3

Mr"
You’ve both got a brilliant profile header it’s superb

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By *erfectlychaoticWoman
34 weeks ago

Aldershot

Always good to get messages that clearly show they've read my profile.

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"Always good to get messages that clearly show they've read my profile."
Shame I'm below your age range. I just looked at your profile, and it's really nice to see that you want to make friends on here, as I feel exactly the same way and want to make friends on Fab.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
34 weeks ago

North West

I'm not sure about anyone else. I try to be polite, have a laugh, and just normal chit chat. Goes a long way I think.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Sedgemoor

I find it nice when someone’s educated on Trans people and doesn’t use phrases like ‘so do you dress up’, ‘are you dressed’ etc.

It’s nice to be treated like a person!

Good conversation is well received.

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By *naswingdressWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think so often it's about the person and their profile, more than the message.

That being said, points in favour for showing that you've read the profile (not "I read your profile" and not "here's your keyword I've inserted"). Showing that you can have a conversation; showing that you're respectful and interesting.

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